Hey everyone!
I have a Sex+ tribute question for you.
What is the only part of the human body
whose sole function is to bring you pleasure?
Any guesses?
Is it a vagina?
That also delivers babies.
Is it… a penis?
Getting closer…
Duh, you two!
The answer is in the title of the fuckin' video!
I'll guess clitoris, final answer.
Bingo!
I personally was amongst the women
who found their clitoris pretty early on
by rubbing up against something accidentally
and being like: "Hey, that feels kinda good!"
For other women, it takes a little longer,
and part of that is sex ed and parents
rarely introduce women to their pleasure spots.
That whole "sex is only for babies, not for pleasure" thing.
So today is gonna be like a little orientation.
Just some info and tips so that you have everything you need
to get oriented with the magic below.
So the clitoris is a small sensitive spot
that female bodies have right above the vagina,
has 8000 nerve endings, that's twice that of a penis,
packed into a teeny tiny space.
If you look at this picture illustrating a clitoris,
you'll see that only a small part of it,
just the head, is peaking out underneath the little hood there
and the rest of the clitoris goes back into the vulva.
The part of the clitoris that shows
is only one part of the clitoris that can bring pleasure.
Now, one of those crazy falsehoods floating around out there
is that the penis and the vagina are the same body part
and the vagina is just inverted.
Reality is the clitoris and the penis
are actually the same body part,
and the types of hormones that you get in the womb
decide how big it will get.
So there are a lot of similarities between the clitoris and the penis.
Both have a little protector,
the foreskin and the clitoral hood,
and they both fill with blood and become erect upon arousal.
Ignoring the clitoris during sex
is like ignoring the penis during sex.
Don't neglect it!
Clitorises…
Clitoreese?
Clitori?
… need love too.
The clit is hell of sensitive.
Once you get going a little bit,
you'll notice it's responsive to different pressures,
to different types of touch and textures.
Here's some tips to enhance your pleasure.
But in doubt, go for soft and go for repetition.
Pull out your shower head or your bath faucet.
I'm sure it comes as no surprises that the clitoral orgasm
is the most common type of female orgasm
and the clitoris can definitely be stimulated during sexy times.
Either with some kind of grinding,
like in cowgirl or missionnary,
or with your hand.
Now remember, the clitoris is like 5 inches,
only a teeny tiny part of it actually shows.
So the area above and around the clitoris
can also be really, really…
… nice.
I get a lot of emails from y'all
worried that your vagina, labia, clitoris,
they're not the right size,
and people with penises are worried about their size too.
I said it once, I'll say it again:
there's no right or wrong size,
yours might be a little bigger than average,
yours might be smaller than average,
your labia lips might peak out a little,
your clitoris might be bigger, might be tiny,
it could be anything
and whatever it is, it's fine!
Additionally, the size of your clitoris doesn't determine your sex drive,
and it doesn't destermine… detstermine...
I can talk!
It doesn't determine how pleasurable it will be.
Though they all have tons of nerve endings,
some clitorises are a little more senzitive than others.
So don't be worried if it takes you a little while to get off.
The only time you might wanna check it with a doctor
is if you don't feel anything.
Allright everyone, that's pretty much a crash course.
If you want some more information about how to find the clitoris,
either your own ore someone else's,
I have a bonus video, check it out in the description.
Otherwise, I will see you all next week!