Hey I’m Nadine Piat from Healthy You Healthy Love, I’m a coach for smart savvy women
looking for sexy, united love and in today’s video I’ll be sharing with you the real
reason why he treats you like crap.
I think my thoughts about this topic might rock you a little so stay with me right to
the end as what I'm about to share will make sense very soon.
Firstly, this is probably a very good time to share with you that I personally know how
difficult it can be to find love, but not any kind of love, the real deal, the compatible type.
I know as time goes by, the harder it feels that you'll ever meet someone who's truly
a match, and when someone feels like this, guess what can happen?
Many women can lose their confidence, their sense of self, which can see them making poor
or misaligned dating choices.
I've been there, so I know how it feels and I also know the real cost or toll this can
take on you overall
and even though dating the wrong man
can seem like a better option than not having anyone at all...
I can assure you it's not.
When you're needy or even desperate to no longer be single, desperate to be coupled
up, desperate for love, many people end up being in unhealthy relationships... and voila,
that's why smart, funny, gorgeous women can end up in relationships with men who treat
them like crap.
So how does this really happen?
Most women in crappy relationships know that it’s not healthy or truly fulfilling, but
this knowing doesn’t make them leave, they often stay.
Is it desperation alone that drives this.
Well, yes and no.
Pretty much everything we do comes down to how we perceive our worth and what we believe
we are worthy of, which means…
The reason a woman gets treated like crap by a man or by anyone, is because SHE is treating
herself like crap, FIRST.
Unless you're in a relationship with a sociopath, and you've been completely brainwashed over
time, no man can make you stay with him unless you want to be there.
This is your choice and if you date someone who treats you poorly then you allowed this,
which means you created this because you've condoned it.
So many women blame men or believe that the man will one day change.
They spend so much energy wondering why he treats her so poorly, they wonder if a man,
any man will ever treat her right, she wonders why she stays, she can't believe she keeps
going back for more, and yet as I said before she never leaves.
So here’s the clincher…
A man doesn't change unless you change.
Period.
Until you change your approach, change how you view relationships, change how you communicate
your needs, change how you treat yourself, change how you perceive your worth, no one
else will change.
Well, rarely.
In fact, this is what inspired me to create my Romantic Love Syndrome Quiz.
This quiz is brilliant and it shines the light on the sneaky beliefs and mindsets you might have
that are stopping you from experiencing big yummy love.
You see the man you're with right now, could be perfect for you except you don't value
yourself enough to require to be treated with mindfulness and kindness, we teach people
how to treat us.
Sure, he might not have the skills to be in a loving and intimate relationship and yet
as I said "we teach people how to treat us" and women are brilliant at rewarding a man's
poor behaviour.
If you think you could be struggling with one of these sneaky love blocks please find
the link to my quiz right below in the description.
So if you want a man to love you tenderly, to treat you like the beautiful and deserving
woman that you are - then you need to stop treating yourself like crap so that he stops
treating you like crap.
If you value kindness, then be kind to you by saying no to things that don't feel good,
that don't bring you joy, that go against what you value.
People treat themselves like crap in a myriad of ways, sure some people more so than others,
and yet, we're all able to live out of integrity - from what food we eat, how much alcohol
we consume, comparing ourselves to others, not making time for activities we love, or
not seeing special friends or valued family members, unhealthy self talk, - all of these
kinds of actions are unloving in some way... and feel crappy... and we do this to ourselves.
I remember a very painful period in my life when I was dating a man who really wasn't
healthy for me, even though I was not a "doormat" per say, I would often express what didn't
feel good to me in the relationship, I kept going back for more.
I had seen the best of him and was hoping that one day I'd see this loving and kind
side in him again.
Though those moments were always fleeting, the majority of the time he was hot and cold
and breaking agreements - I was often upset and feeling anxious, but it wasn't his fault,
I was allowing it.
I was not being kind to me.
In fact this relationship inspired me to create my "Never Lose Him" program.
So if what I've shared in this video resembles you current life or past then check out Never Lose Him
I uncover why women fall for the wrong men and why they allow these men in their lives.
I help women to rise above the confusion, get clarity, and bring joy back into their
lives.
I share how to show up with men in a way that's captivating while also empowered so that you
never again feel unloved and undervalued with a man or with anyone.
I call this the LIPS method and it's a game changer.
This program is filled with so many amazing learnings and skills that will make finding
and keeping love a breeze.
So Check out the link to Never Lose Him in the description below.
There you have it - the real reason why your guy ain't loving you how you want to be loved.
Don't blame him, and don't blame yourself either, rather do the healing and start living
from a place of self love and honour.
Once you have a few new mindsets and skills up your sleeve you'll start to feel confident
and be able to experience the most loving and connected partnership with the kind of
man you truly want in your life.
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It's been a great honour to have you here with me.
I value you and I look forward to seeing you at my next video.