Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Women are testing you.
Yes, it happens happens almost every single time you meet a woman.
Why is she testing you? I'm gonna explain that right now and then
afterwards I'm gonna give you the 3 most common tests that I've seen that
women are giving men not only when you first approach or start a
conversation but it happens on the first date, it can even happen in relationships.
Why are women testing men? The reason why women are testing men is
because they don't know that soon if they're attracted to a guy. They need to
know that this guy has the masculine traits that she's looking for to
become attracted. For you as a guy, it's a little bit different. Generally speaking
you can have initial attraction much quicker before a woman can because
you see her and you're physically attracted and therefore you're like whoa
I want to have sex with her. You want to mate with her. Of course there's
more tests or more things you might see as you're talking to her if you feel you
want to get deeper have a relationship or a dating relationship with this person.
For a woman it's similar. She might see a guy and be physically
attracted to him and might think off the bat she wants to sleep with him but
really still no matter what, she needs to talk to the guy. She needs to get to know
him a little bit. Therefore she tests him to see if he has those masculine traits
because she it might not know right away. Because for you to display your
masculine traits, it takes time. Therefore she's testing you. One way women test you
is by not taking the lead. They don't approach you, they don't get
your number, they don't ask you for the first date. They sometimes don't even ask
you for the second or third date. They wait for you to pay for the
bill on the first date. They're doing all these things because they want to see
your masculine qualities. Ss this guy gonna take the lead because if you do
that's more attractive and then she can become attracted to you. Not because she's
lazy but because she wants to experi attraction just like you do. Just like
anyone does when they see someone and they want to start something.
She's not gonna be taking the lead. Her test is by not doing those things.
She wants to see if you're going to do it.
If you're gonna be the one to take the lead.
That's dominant. Dominance is a masculine trait, taking charge.
Let's go into the next. The next test is her disagreeing with you or
maybe being more of a challenge to you. You guys are having a
conversation and you say that you like something and she goes oh no I don't
like that. I'm not saying that she's lying (although she could be) but it's
just that she is kind of creating a little bit of tension to see how you're
gonna react. Are you gonna be the nice guy that's gonna be like oh no no oh you
don't like that well actually I also don't like that. I don't like it that much.
You guys are talking about music or whatever.
It doesn't matter what it is. Anything you're talking about
she might disagree. Again she's not always testing you, she might actually
disagree but still women will do that. They'll create a little bit of
tension there just to see is this guy gonna give in? Is he just gonna say whatever I
think or is he gonna have his own opinions like a person who is his own?
Who doesn't care about other people? Another masculine trait of being very
self-sustaining, not worrying about others think of you, not having others to
be affected by you. But you're more mentally strong and capable. So be very
careful here. If a woman disagrees with you on some matter, stick to what you
actually believe in. Don't just agree with her. The last one is they won't
validate you. What does that mean? They might not be complimenting you,
saying nice things about you. By the way, I'll be very careful here when I say this.
This is in the beginning of the courtship process. This is not
necessarily way down the line in a relationship. This is in the very
beginning for this one. You might think I don't know if she
likes me or not. She doesn't say anything nice, she never complimented me.
I'm just not getting that vibe from her. She's doing this more to be a challenge.
She's being hard to get. If a woman knows that she's quality, she wants
someone to work a little bit harder for her. This is her mindset.
She knows that hey I'm amazing, I'm beautiful
inside and outside. I want this guy to work a little bit. I want to see if he's
gonna work at this. Listen, depends how far this goes you
don't have to. If the girl is playing that many games with you, ditch it. But just be
prepared that it is normal for a woman not to necessarily give you a lot of
validation or let you know that she likes you. This is the beginning part.
By the way, you should be doing the same thing. If you guys are both doing this,
everyone's doing it right because they're being more mysterious and
playing little bit of hard-to-get and that's what she wants to do. She wants to
put a little hard to get. She doesn't want to throw it all out there so soon
and see if you'll still stick around. Here's the way to pass this test.
Don't worry about if she's validating you. You don't need that as an indicator
of interest or a choosing signal. Instead, the only choosing signal indicator of
interest you ever need is her agreeing to continue seeing you again.
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