If you've read much about INFJs, you've probably heard that they're kind, compassionate,
and welcoming.
In most type descriptions, you'll find the "pleasant" INFJ mentioned.
This INFJ is compassionate, puts others' needs ahead of their own, and patiently listens
to their friends' issues and troubles.
INFJs have a keen feel of the future and what is likely to occur.
They can readily predict how events will play out and how individuals will be affected.
They may form empathic connections with others and intuitively grasp how they are experiencing.
While these abilities are normally employed for good, if you betray an INFJ or hurt someone
they care about, they can become psychological warfare experts.
They have a knack for knowing just the perfect words to say to get under someone's skin or
the appropriate situations to set them off.
They have the ability to mentally unhinge people in order to persuade them to own their
mistakes and accept responsibility.
This skill can be beneficial in some cases, but it can also be harmful in others.
And that's only the beginning.
So here are 8 reasons why you should never mess with an INFJ.
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They shut toxic people out
The INFJ personality type is obsessed with thinking about and planning for the future.
Their forward-thinking perspective is advantageous to them, particularly when deciding what is
worth investing in and what is not.
They will try to sink a relationship with a best friend or romantic partner if it makes
no sense to them or if they believe they are being used.
Yes, most INFJ personalities struggle to get rid of toxic people in their lives.
They may have difficulty moving forward, but all they require is time.
Especially when they discover they've been treated unfairly all along.
They normally start by emotionally isolating themselves and thinking things through.
When they have reached a clear conclusion, they can remove the individual from their
lives for their own good.
They can put up a fight
They may not fight for themselves since it would stress them out, but they can certainly
fight for someone they care about.
When they witness their best friends or family members being bullied or attacked, they will
stop at nothing to ensure that justice is served.
One of their excellent qualities is their obvious effort in catching the offender.
This is why they make excellent allies, particularly for those who are unable to protect themselves.
When one of their friends gets something wrong, they defend them as if they were the ones
who made the mistake.
They can't stand seeing someone being emotionally harassed since they've most likely experienced
it themselves.
They can be harsh with their words
Yes, INFJ personalities are noted for their kindness and gentleness.
They've shown it to their family and friends, especially when they've needed a sympathetic
ear or a helpful hand.
Naturally, everyone has boundaries, and the INFJ is no different than the rest of us.
What makes them unique is that when provoked, they can turn into the polar opposite.
Their remarks can also be sharp, so if someone crosses their line, they can scold them immediately
for their irresponsible behavior.
The INFJ understands what constitutes a respectful act and what does not.
They can be brutally honest in what they believe about a situation if someone offends them
by yelling out impolite, disrespectful comments.
Instead of spitting ridiculous statements, INFJ types, unlike other people, do not punish
rudeness with disrespect.
In exchange, they ensure that their arguments are logical and objective.
INFJ personalities know how to be responsibly frank because it is not in their nature to
be disrespectful.
They can embarrass people unintentionally
INFJs despise pointing out others' flaws in public.
When someone offends them in front of a large group of people, they cut them off before
becoming enraged.
They can have complete control over their emotions, feelings, and actions, and the only
solution they can think of is to stop the fight.
Why?
Because they are aware that they are capable of becoming furious.
They have the potential to be explosive.
They can openly insult someone, but they would rather not do so since they believe it is
pointless.
They believe that plotting vengeance is a waste of time.
Because their opponent is frequently left hanging, this embarrasses them.
The INFJ will dismiss their nonsensical arguments, especially if they understand they are wasting
their time.
This kind of emotional control is not something that everyone possesses.
They can lash out
INFJs don't usually lash out.
People do not consider them to be one of the most aggressive and enraged personality types.
Their general aura conceals something beneath it, and that something is the intense, repressed
emotion.
These overburdened emotions can erupt at any time.
During an argument, INFJ personalities are known for making their opponents look bad
by leaving them hanging.
They're also known for separating people from a disagreement before it becomes uncontrollable.
Some INFJs, on the other hand, are able to break away from their internal restraint and
vent their rage without hesitation.
People may incorrectly dismiss this INFJ side, yet when pushed to their limits, INFJ types
can respond aggressively as well.
They can be intimidating
The INFJ is sometimes misunderstood because they appear quiet and timid in social situations.
Although this is accurate in certain ways, only a few people are able to discover their
genuine personality.
People assume INFJs are loners, and no one wants to spend a party talking to a loner,
therefore it's unusual for them to find a conversation buddy in social situations.
This misunderstanding might lead to awkward situations and INFJs can appear intimidating.
When someone approaches and speaks with an INFJ, they will notice how intelligent and
well-versed they are.
Their perspectives on politics, religion, society, and science are all over the place.
It's because of this mentality that they're difficult to pin down in a discussion.
However, in arguments, their opponents may underestimate them, but once they begin to
fight for their side, the opponents' beliefs may be called into question.
They can ignore people
INFJs always have a choice on what they do.
Either they lash out quickly or they choose to bottle up more negative emotions.
They can go days without speaking to someone, even if they are quite close to them, unlike
most individuals.
It might be a member of your family, a partner, or a close friend.
It doesn't matter since when INFJs are mistreated, they must reclaim their inner calm.
Many people believe that INFJs are unaffected by practically any treatment they get.
It's because they don't complain very much.
They rarely express their feelings and thoughts.
As a result, when the INFJ is severely hurt by someone, they isolate themselves.
They wouldn't want to interact nor talk with that person, no matter how close to their
heart that person is.
They could abruptly stop communicating with them.
If this is not possible because they see them every day at home, work, or school, they may
simply lock themselves off emotionally and refuse to let them in.
They may still communicate with them when necessary, but they will appear cold and aloof.
They know how to stop loving
INFJs are turned off by chaos, sudden changes, interruptions in their work, and other obnoxious
behaviors.
it's not great for an INFJ relationship if they've noticed their partner intruding in
their activities on a regular basis.
When the relationship gets stagnant and is no longer worth the effort, INFJs will stop
investing in it.
Cheating, dishonesty, and manipulation are some of the worst scenarios that can sap an
INFJ's affections for their relationship.
It doesn't matter if it's their lover or their best friend.
They know what they genuinely deserve, and if betrayal is exposed, they will think about
it and determine what to do next.
They carefully assess situations and allow themselves to recognize their worth by refusing
to tolerate others who have negative intentions for them.
INFJs don't close doors without giving it a lot of thought.
They're not quite impulsive because they're "judgers."
Others, despite their cool "all is fine" manner, may forget how sensitive they are.
Even the kindest people have their limits, and INFJs are no exception.
When messed with, not all INFJs are intimidating or harmful in any way.
However, being aware of these options can help them gain a better understanding of themselves.
We've all had moments when we've felt "threatening," whether for positive or negative reasons.
Knowing oneself is always a good method to stay on top of what's going on in your head
and why it's going on.