"Yes," is the short answer to the question, "Can INFJs be intimidating?"
Of course, this is dependent on the INFJ in question as well as what someone else finds
overwhelming.
Some people may be put off by INFJs' proclivity for people-watching.
Others may find the way their minds work daunting, or they may be intimidated by their instinct
for figuring out other people.
In some situations, being intimidating might be advantageous.
Unfortunately for INFJs, it appears that they come across as unsettling more often when
they don't mean to than when they do.
I’m sure all INFJs watching this video here are thinking, ‘Me?
Intimidating?’. yes, people, can find you very intimidating.
But Why is this exactly?
Make sure to watch till the end of this video because today, I'm going to tell you the 7
reasons why INFJs come off so intimidating.
And hey, even if you are not an INFJ, do make sure to stay tuned in to this video till the
end because I think it’s time you let these stereotypes go!
In fact, they’re one of the kindest people once you actually get to know them!
Let’s get into it.
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Starting things off for us today is INFJs usually never talk.
Introverted Intuition is the most dominating cognitive function in INFJs.
As a result, they are usually immersed in their own little world.
In fact, they're so engrossed in their thoughts that they sometimes lose touch with reality.
And they end up coming across as really quiet.
Even though an INFJ is one of the kindest people you'll ever meet, they don't converse
much due to their introverted intuition.
And the majority of the time, they have a very stern and intense expression on their
face.
People are intimidated by INFJs because of their demeanor and the fact that they barely
speak.
Let's be honest.
Most people feel more at ease with someone who talks a lot and is open about everything.
On the other hand, when someone barely speaks, they appear mysterious.
As a result, no one knows what they're thinking or what they might do.
And a lot of people can get quite intimidated by that.
Next up and number 6 is INFJs listen very intently.
As an INFJ, I'm sure you're thinking, "What's wrong with listening intently?"
Why are people afraid of me because I listen?
That's because when people speak to you, they feel seen.
When people talk to each other, they usually talk about whatever they want and can simply
lie or exaggerate.
This is because they believe the other person isn't intelligent enough to detect them lying.
But it's a whole different story for INFJs.
When someone speaks to an INFJ, they pay extremely close attention.
Not only that, but they maintain eye contact with them.
And that makes people feel threatened, especially if they are lying.
The thing liars are most afraid of is people discovering their deception.
That's why talking to INFJs might be daunting for those types of people who like to embellish
or are simply out to deceive.
Number 5 on why INFJs can be intimidating is INFJs are pretty much always right.
As an INFJ, you may be able to relate to this.
Have you ever met someone who everyone loves but you have a nagging feeling about?
And it turns out that your intuition was absolutely correct?
I believe that almost all INFJs have been in this predicament at some point in their
lives.
That's because INFJs are almost always right when it comes to people.
That is something that can really take people off guard.
But where does it originate from?
As I previously said, INFJs pay close attention.
This isn't limited to just listening.
INFJs pay close attention to everything about everything.
From their body language, where they look, and the inflection in their voices.
As a result, when they make an assumption about someone, it usually turns out to be
correct.
And, of course, for a lot of people, this might be rather unsettling.
Next up and number 4 today is INFJs are very private.
INFJs, as previously stated, rarely speak.
As a result, their entire personality and thoughts are a mystery to everyone around
them.
When someone communicates a lot, people usually feel at ease around them.
You know what they're thinking because you actually know what they're thinking.
You understand what's going on in their heads.
You are aware of who they are.
But when it comes to INFJs, no one knows what's going on in their heads.
And that is quite upsetting for many others.
People get intimidated when they have no notion of what another person is thinking.
They strangely feel judged, despite the fact that INFJs never critique others.
What makes it even more daunting is that when INFJs finally speak up, they say things that
are so spot on that people are taken aback.
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Kicking off our top 3 reasons why INFJs can be so intimidating is INFJs are emotional
detectives.
There are many people who keep their sentiments and emotions disguised.
It's not because they're unwilling to share them.
It's typically because they don't want to bother other people or they don't like dealing
with their emotions.
They are successful in front of the majority of people.
However, not in front of INFJs.
When it comes to INFJs, they're like emotional detectives.
That implies they can always figure out what feelings you're experiencing.
People who want to hide their feelings are frequently intimidated when someone is so
good at figuring them out.
It's because they've spent their entire lives easily concealing their emotions.
INFJs who are emotional detectives, on the other hand, bother them because they know
exactly what they're feeling.
In the runner-up spot is INFJs unintentionally stare at people a lot.
There is one thing that INFJs do unintentionally that makes them appear strange and threatening.
They find themselves looking at people a lot.
And I don't simply mean when they're being spoken to.
As an INFJ, I'm sure you've caught yourself staring at someone at random and felt strange
about it.
People notice that, and most people don't just think it's strange.
In fact, it can really frighten them.
Because, once again, they feel seen.
They're terrified and intimidated because they believe you know what they're thinking.
But here's the crux of the matter.
Why do INFJs behave in this way?
Again, this is due to their introverted intuition.
As a result, they prefer to concentrate on people's patterns and habits.
INFJs are more concerned with what others do rather than what they say.
That's why they pay so much attention to what people are doing.
INFJs are inquisitive people who end up looking at others as a result of their inquisitiveness.
As an INFJ, you might feel strange when you notice you're looking at other people, and
other people will feel intimidated as well.
Topping our list and the number 1 reason INFJs can be so intimidating is INFJs are usually
very calm so any anger can be scary.
It's odd that INFJs are excellent at detecting the feelings and emotions of those who prefer
to keep them hidden.
What makes it ironic?
Because INFJs prefer to keep their emotions and feelings secret.
Even though INFJs have a lot of thoughts, they never express them.
That's why INFJs appear tranquil, despite the fact that their minds are anything but.
I'm sure you're all wondering how that bothers people.
That's because INFJs are normally so calm that when they eventually express their emotions,
it can be terrifying for everyone around them.
INFJs keep their sentiments and ideas hidden from friends and family because they prefer
to avoid conflict as much as possible.
But when they've had enough, they unload it all.
It's as if they're exploding.
And when it happens, everyone around them becomes terrified.
People who have gone through that phase are forever intimidated by the INFJs around them.
Are you an INFJ who has been described as intimidating?
What are your experiences with being an intimidating INFJ?
Make sure to tell me in the comments below.
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