- What's the worst thing you've said about me
behind my back.
- Oh, probably that I hate you
and that you're a (bleep).
My name is Jamie Lee
and this is my beautiful mother Alison.
- You can have a shot before you start.
- We've never taken a shot together before.
- Whoops.
- What, what are we toasting to?
- Us. Beautiful relationship.
- To us.
- Love you.
Ah, great, great, great, great, great.
What's the weirdest sex thing you've ever done?
Go say it out loud.
- Probably the threesome.
[Laughing]
- Were any substances involved in this threesome?
- Yeah, there were substances involved.
- Which ones?
- The ones to start with E.
[Laughing]
- Can we change?
Go to the next question?
Do you feel like you can tell me anything?
- I think I can talk to you about anything.
But I don't know how present you are going to be
because in the past I felt unseen
and unheard by you.
No, what?
- In the past, but...
- No, let me finish my sentence.
- Okay.
- In the past, because I've felt that way.
- Yeah.
- And it, this shows up in all of my relationships
that I need to feel fully seen and heard
when I'm bringing up something.
I don't feel like you ask me
many questions about myself.
- But it goes both ways too.
I mean, you know, you can come
and ask me lots and lots of questions.
There's lots of things happening in my life.
So I think, you know, I think it goes both ways.
- Yeah.
So this is great that we can express that right now.
Moving forward after today
we can definitely have those discussions both ways.
- Yeah.
- Ooh.
- Yeah.
What's something you've wanted to say to me
but never have.
- Yeah. I'll be brutally honest with you.
There are times that I feel that you disregard me
like I'll call you and you'll just, I'm tired.
I often feel that you dismiss me
when I'm trying to reach out.
- Yeah. I don't like receiving spontaneous phone calls.
I think that's like something different
about this generation.
Like even with my friends, we'll like text each other.
Like, can I call you?
Do you have space for a phone call?
- Okay.
- Potential compromise here.
- Have to make an appointment to talk to your daughter.
What's what's the worst thing you've said
about me behind my back?
- Oh, probably that I hate you.
And that you're bitch.
- Oh, nice.
- Yeah.
- Okay.
- Fucking bitch.
- Move on.
- What's the most difficult thing
we have gone through together?
- The most difficult thing we've gone through together
was my divorce.
Looking back was probably the most difficult
challenging part of aspect
of our relationship for sure.
- Yeah.
- And so it was the guilt that I had
that my whole family was torn apart
and it was all my fault
because I chose to leave.
- We ended up disliking each other.
If we're being honest.
There was lots of like,
bullying happening between us.
It was like...
- So much frustration.
- Yeah.
- Okay.
(sighs of relief)
Enough of that one.
- Yeah. Yeah.
- If you could change one trait about me...
- Yeah.
- What would that be?
- But like if I was speaking now
I'd like do something on your behalf.
Something that, you know, whatever.
But my teenage self would be your temper.
I remember a towel on the floor
would be like the worst thing.
And I was like I just don't understand
how this little thing is worth like
this big fight.
- When Jamie Lee was 13
and her father and I just got divorced.
I wasn't really there for her, which was really sad.
And I was oblivious to it.
If I could change any aspect about those years for you.
- Yeah.
- I would definitely eliminate
that monster anger in me.
I'm sorry that you had to witness all of that.
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
- How would you best describe our relationship?
- Raw
honest, challenging at times.
And we all know that when there's trauma
if you suppress it, it gets bigger and it manifests.
I'm proud of you.
I'm proud of myself for the way in which I've
I've done the best I can with you
and I'll continue to do as best I can.
And, and more so every day.
I love you.
- Love you too.
[Together] Yay!
(clapping)
- Beautiful.
- Did you actually know that Truth or Drink
has a Australian version?