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I'm still here in Sri Lanka and candy
and I'm excited for today's episode
because I'm gonna do something a little
bit different something that I haven't
done before and that is I'm gonna go and
dig into my secret Facebook group called
Tripps corner I guess it's not so secret
anymore but its secret because you can't
find it
unless you're searching for it and you
can't get in unless you are a member of
the hooked program or any other programs
and so today what I'm gonna do is I'm
going to take one of the questions in
there and don't we're gonna make it
completely anonymous and I'm gonna
answer that question and do a little bit
of a deep dive and do one of your
questions one of the viewers one of the
subscribers one of the people who have
the hooked program and make sure we get
this answered properly because it's a
question that not only do I did I get
here in Tripps corner but I get it all
the time and I really want to dig into
it so let's talk about texting after the
date all right I promise to everyone in
Tripps corner that I keep everything
100% secret and anonymous so here's the
question but I'm not gonna say who it
was from
and he says hey guys I met an amazing
woman last weekend he already had our
first date which went really well and
the next one is set up for Saturday
awesome job man I want to keep
conversing with her until we see each
other again they don't want to come
across as over-zealous should I try and
spark conversation via text or wait so I
get this question a whole bunch guys are
using the hooked program guys are using
the advice on the YouTube channel on the
podcast they're getting results they're
able to get dates so then they're
wondering about the next step and it's a
really good question because it is
concerning it's like what what do you do
how long do you wait to text her to call
her and I know it's we're getting very
specific here but this happens a lot
where the guy gets the first date he
ends up getting the second date already
set up but it's a little bit farther
away it's not like two days later it's
almost like a week later it seems like
we had that kind of
your situation here were there's a bunch
of time in between then what do you do
okay so the reason why I'm answering
this question is because there is
something to do you see here's what
happens right now we were living in a
society where the gold is in attention
right we everyone is fighting for
attention I'm fighting for attention but
a video is every single day to try to
get your attention and so all this stuff
is coming at us constantly it's very
easy for us to get distracted to forget
about the things that are important and
this analogy or this example I'm
basically saying is going towards the
girl right the girl might be focused on
a lot of other things in her life she's
getting attention from other guys she is
getting attention from all the social
media that's going on and so there is an
opportunity for for her to forget about
the way she felt about you because
attraction happens in person so if
there's a lot of time that's in between
you seeing her well there is a
possibility of attraction dying that's
why I always say when you get a girl's
number and you're ready to set the first
date you do it as soon as possible okay
now that's not exactly the case here
when you're waiting for the second day
it's knowledge you have the texture
every single day it's not like it the
fight for her attention every single day
up and to the point where you're on the
second date and you don't have to be too
worried about it because at the very
least she had a good time in the first
day because she's set up the second date
so it's not something that you have to
you know go crazy over however there is
something you should do and I'm gonna
give you a little formula right now
alright so here's a little formula here
I'm gonna be ten that it's Sunday night
okay Sunday night and you set up the
second date I'm gonna tell you depending
on which days you set up that second
date for when to contact are in between
and I'll tell you how to do it
so let's say it's Sunday night and you
set up the date for the next day Monday
no need to contact her just contact her
that next Monday to see if she's still
good to meet up okay so no matter what
you're gonna contact her and text her
the day of the date tests to see if
she's still good all right so let's
pretend that it's Sunday but the date is
set up for Tuesday I would say do not
contact you on Monday and again Tuesday
just text her and see is she
is good to meet up all right let's say
you set the date for Wednesday what I
would do is skip the day Monday texture
on Tuesday and then Wednesday the final
text of you know you guys meeting up
issue good to me down okay let's say you
set up the date on Thursday so here's
what I would do for Thursday because now
we're getting a little bit more spread
out I would try to text her in between
so directly in the middle so let's see
you got Monday and Tuesday Wednesday and
Thursday so I would text her on Tuesday
and then again I'm Thursday to see if
she's good to meet up all right
let's go to Friday I'm just giving you
everything here to make sure that you
have every single answer here depending
on whatever day you set up that second
day so Friday I would do two different
types messages dates okay so I would do
Tuesday so it's a couple days later and
then I would do Thursday again and then
Friday to see if she's still good for
the day so just two text messages in
between the week I know that might sound
like a lot but really that's a long time
to go from Sunday all the way to Friday
so texting twice not a big deal however
we're gonna move to Saturday I'm still
gonna say twice okay so I'm not gonna
move the needle too much more so here
pick any days I would say best to do
Tuesday and then Thursday and then
Saturday the third time to see if she's
good for the day and I would say the
same exact thing if you guys set up a
date all the way for a full week so
let's say it's Sunday you set the date
for the following Sunday I would just do
Tuesday and Thursday and then the Sunday
for the day the reason why I came up
with this is because really you just
want to contact her a few times I don't
think a once or twice depending on what
days I said there is gonna be too
overwhelming but at the same time it's
still gonna keep up conversation and
still things keep things going and still
keep attraction there and keep her
excited to meet up with you should you
text or should you call that is
dependent on the relationship you think
you have with her if you feel
comfortable call and go for it but in
between the first and second date I
would say that you probably don't make
that strong of a connection so I would
say just stick to texting but if you
feel otherwise go for it because there's
not really a science here per se you
could still call her again
it's
- how you feel about it but I would say
default is texting now here's what I
would texture I would text her something
that you're doing something that you're
up to something interesting going on in
your life anything that has to do with
you
so refrain from asking a question
refrain from questions like hey what's
up how you doing how's your week been
those are very boring they're not very
engaging sure she still might be excited
to hear from you just cuz they're
texting her but let's really take it up
a notch here let's texture something
that's awesome that gets are even more
excited to respond so I'm not gonna give
you a word-for-word example here because
everyone's gonna be in a different
situation but now you have the idea the
mindset and kind of the formula of what
you could texture what's going on during
the day even if it's something really
lame or boring you can even say that
like oh just another lame day at work
again had a bobble blah blah blah I mean
if that's the best you could do fine
that's still better than saying hey
how's your week been so again the main
idea here is for you to you know get in
touch with her just a little bit
depending on how long that second date
is set up for right depending on three
five seven days contact her a couple
times
engaging in conversation by texting or
something that you're doing the year up
to instead of asking her a question and
doing that for both of the text messages
that come through for that week
alright so big warning here do not get
into long text message conversations
Victoria the only reason why you're
doing this it's just to keep in touch
with her you know just reminding her
that you're still there reminding her
about the excitement of you guys hanging
out again you're just kind of doing a
little ping just to get her excited
about you and to have her not completely
forget about you by the time do you guys
eat up okay so don't get into long
drawn-out conversations because we want
to save that juicy stuff but when you
guys are in person that's when the real
connection happens don't try to get to
know her over text save that stuff for
when you meet up and save text messages
and just a way to kind of keep in touch
but ultimately ultimately always text
messaging you
is basically used for meeting up with
her so if you want to learn how to meet
up at their and you haven't even got the
first date yet I have seven deadly text
messages that you can't resist it's
completely free I'm gonna put a link
below this video where you can get that
but your email in I'll send that to you
so you can text a girl to set up that
first date if you haven't already and of
course if you want to get inside of the
secret Facebook group trips corner you
can do that all you got to do is get my
hooked program I'm gonna put a link in
the description below so you can get
that as well hope this helped I'm gonna
be doing some more of these videos
dissecting stuff that's going on in
trips core north to answer your
questions see you soon