Harry was the host of a so called film about mental fitness and, well, the joke writes
itself.
But beyond the ludicrous premise, there are hidden details that made this charade all
the more disturbing, as you're about to find out.
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Just to be clear, I'm going to focus on Harry, because I'm sure Chloe Kim, Adam Grant and
Blu Mendoza were just invited to share their thoughts.
So they have no responsibility when the introduction of the video shows this.
A close up of Harry leaning into the camera in slow motion.
I'm sorry if you just felt uncomfortable.
That must be a normal reaction since yes, it's creepy enough, not to mention THAT slow
blink at the end that looks like he took the wrong amount of pills, or he's trying to look
sexy for his Tinder mugshot.
In case you're wondering, I'm trying to add some levity to the fact that according to
Andrew Morton, Harry reaches out to Diana's ghost to help him in daily decisions.
And I think it's good to have that spiritual side.
But what I don't understand is why Diana's ghost didn't raise an eyebrow when The Harkles
hired a head of security that has an interesting criminal record, including two charges of
Driving under the Influence.
So, in terms of judgment, Diana included or not, we are starting with the wrong foot.
And this is no joke.
Critical thinking has a lot to do with mental fitness.
Because decision making is all about emotions, and Harry keeps mentioning one word:
- Throughout the years of traveling around the world, what I saw was the similarity of
experiences of trauma, of loss, of grief, of being human.
- Yeah.
- That building up our resilience is absolutely critical.
The problem here is that I think Harry keeps using that word, and I don't think it means
what HE think it means.
According to the Cambridge Dictionary, "resilience is the ability to be happy, successful, etc.
again after something difficult or bad has happened."
Or, as Winston Churchill put it, "Success consists of going from failure to failure
without loss of enthusiasm".
That is a skill that we need to develop from an early age.
Because no matter what happens to us, the only clear option in every situation will
be moving forward.
Either you keep on trying or you just look for another route.
And Harry just said something that makes him look really bad.
You heard him saying: "Throughout the years of traveling around the world, I saw the similarity
of trauma, of loss, of grief".
For starters, he had the immense privilege of traveling around the world and getting
in touch with vastly different cultures and experiences.
It's safe to say that 99% of the people he met, doesn't have even a sliver of opportunities
and privileges of someone born into the royal family.
And technically, I'm not criticizing Harry, because he was nothing to do with being born
in such a privileged position.
But, I could criticize that HE IS NOT WEARING A BELT, for God's sake!
But he just admitted that everyone around the world has to deal with trauma, or loss,
or grief, or circumstances that test our spiritual and emotional strength.
Is it fair to think of the possibility that, at any point over those travels, and just
by introspection, he could have said: well, I lost my mother in a tragic accident, but
at the same time I was born in a position that I can do so much good for thousands of
people that have gone through similar things, if not worse.
But that requires one ingredient: empathy.
Every single quality and ability that makes us human has a negative and a positive side.
If you develop resilience without having empathy, you become cynical.
You mind your own happiness and success, but regardless how other people are going to feel,
or be affected.
And It's not necessary to look at people's body language when their actions have already
spoken.
Going to the Oprah interview knowing that it was going to hurt his grandmother, or misleading
the public with his security issues, so people blame her majesty instead, or in the scope
of his so-called job, suggesting that people should quit their jobs if they don't feel
happy.
So, in many levels we have confirmed that Harry has a severe lack of empathy, and it
seems, at least publicly, that the only person who he can truly connect with is Meghan, who
in his own words, "saved him".
That lack of empathy is dangerous enough, but what do you think happens when you combine
it with "mental fitness"?
You get someone that THINKS that he knows what he's talking about, when he's not.
And that must be the reason we can see facial clues like the one you're about to watch:
- What does the term mental fitness mean to you?
- To me, personally?
- Yeah.
- Ah, it means...
- What does the term mental fitness mean to you?
- To me, personally?
- Yeah.
- Ah, it means...
I've mentioned more than a few times that you can't jump to conclusions from a single
body language signal.
That you need to stack them so you can reach a better understanding of what's going on
in the person's mind and heart.
But beyond body language signals it's critical to include behavior signals.
in the sense that we already have a precedent of concrete actions that signal a lack of
empathy, and the possibility that Harry truly believes that he KNOWS what the term 'mental
fitness' means.
So that must be the reason he displays contempt as soon as he asks Adam for his concept of
mental fitness.
I don't think he truly cares for the answer.
And, just from an interviewing perspective, this is something that Adam must have picked
up, even subconsciously.
I'm sure you're as tired as me of just assuming Harry is awkward or something.
Because since a long time ago, it's clear that he's conscious of his actions, but still
can't assume the responsibility about the outcomes.
That also adds up to a lack of empathy.
I think he wants to make up for it, with gestures like putting both hands together, like he's
some kind of Ginger Lama or something.
Jokes aside, this is the Harry that we have been seeing from a long time ago.
Not that engaged, a little distant and perhaps disconnected of what is happening in front
of him.
Color psychology has a lot to do with it, and that must be one of the reasons Harry's
favorite color is that dull gray.
No wonder he's wearing a grey shirt for this interview.
But in that regard, and for the many times he's appeared both online and offline wearing
that color, I think what he values most is to go unnoticed.
You know how many times it seems that Meghan is just dragging them to appear in public
and he genuinely looks like he doesn't want to be there.
That explains postures like his, with one foot put over the other, sideways, which again,
is something that he does in almost every situation.
Yes, it seems that he feels awkward, and he would prefer to not be in the spotlight.
But at the same time, that is a problem for him.
Because if there is the slightest intent to emulate his mother, or do something with the
platform in which he was born, regardless that he's not a working royal anymore, he
has to realize that he's got the responsibility of doing something good.
But we don't see him engaged to the point of being excited, of realizing that after
all the... grief, and traumas and struggle that he has witnessed with his own eyes around
the world, he still can do something about it.
Instead, he settled for pushing coaching services.
Because here comes the pitch!
- We all benefit from having a coach.
Coaches help individuals improve their behaviors and improve their circumstances.
A coach can see those dynamics in a way that people that are living them... are just proactive
Well, who can blame them?
BetterUp has to make money, and this is how they sell their Corporate coaching services,
so this was not unexpected.
But Harry has dedicated himself to so much virtue signaling in the past couple years
that he has lost all credibility.
And don't get me started with statements like this:
- How can we create more resilience for people, not just a better version of themselves at
work, but also a better version for their partners, for their family, and the whole
community.
Yeah, notice how he talks about resilience for people, for themselves, in third person.
Like it doesn't apply to himself.
You remember in the previous clip that Adam talked about coaching in terms that "we all
need a coach", but in this case Harry talks about that term, resilience, in third person.
Like, this doesn't apply to him.
Well, maybe... since he's married to Meghan, he has already developed all the resilience
a human being can attain.
Let's see what he comes up with, next time.
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