Heya playas, heya playas, heya playas, now isn't that just annoying? Have you've ever
wondered why a girl will just stop responding in the middle of a conversation or why she
just won't respond to your first message in the first place. Here are my 3 reasons why
a girl just won't text you back. This is The Josh Speaks. You're watching The Josh Speaks.
In today's day and age there are a lot of ways to contact someone. You can send your
crush a Facebook message, you can text her at all times of the day or you can opt for
something that a lot of weird guys do, which is Snapchatting a picture of your junk. The
first thing that you need to understand is that just because you have the ability to
message the girl, doesn't mean that you should always do it. Face to face conversation trumps
all and that's partially because a lot of guys keeping making these three mistakes.
Number 1. You keep sending the girl messages messaging even though she hasn't responded
to any of them. Guys do this all the time, they send a girl like 15 "hey" messages thinking
that after the 15th, maybe she'll respond. When you do this you come off as being really
desperate. If the girl doesn't respond to the first message, don't send her a second
one until she does. Can you imagine what that would look like in real life? Hey. Hey. Hey.
Hey. Hey. Hey. Hey. Number 2. You ask her the same boring questions and give her the
same boring answers. How was your weekend? How's your day going? What are you up to?
The problem with questions like this is that they convey NONE of your personality. Think
about it, do you want your conversation with her to be unique or just like everyone else's?
Instead of asking her boring questions, start with powerful ones like "Quick I need your
opinion on something" or "What's something about you that makes you unique?". Both of
these trigger personalized answers from her because they're asking for her specific opinion
on something. You're not asking her to just fill conversation, you want to know what she
thinks. And Number 3. You say really weird things that really creep her out. There's
the obvious cases where guys saying sexual things when they barely know the girl. Hey,
Hey. Wanna fuck? But there are the more common cases where guys decide to confess their feelings
to girls they barely know. Just because you have a crush on her doesn't mean she likes
you back. In most cases, the girl doesn't even know you like her so when you spring
it on her through text, it's more than enough of a reason for her not to respond. Plus there's
the other case where a guy becomes to compromising and lacks the initiative to make decisions.
Hey. Hey. So we should hang out? Cool! What do you want to do? Doesn't matter to me, I'm
fine with anything you want to do. In fact, if you don't even want to go on this date
I'm cool with that too. We don't have to go on a date. You know what, if you don't even
want to talk to me right now, I'm cool with that. You can do whatever you want. We don't
even need to have this conversation. I'm so cool with it that it doesn't even matter.
If you find yourself identifying with any of these, I suggest you check out my video
right here on How To NOT Creep out Girls or if you're in a situation where you want to
tell your crush that you like her, watch this video right here where I tell you why you
shouldn't. What do you guys think though, have you ever been in a situation where a
girl didn't text you back? Leave your comments below so we can talk about it.
Texting a girls leaves a huge window for her to just ignore it. If you want to have a conversation
with the girl you like, get off your phone and just talk to her in person. I guarantee
you will see a difference. As always guys, love and peace. Hey, thanks for watching.
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