What do men consider to be great sex? And this video, I'm revealing the secrets of men.
What we love to feel during sex from you, with sex, around sex, all the secrets of what
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If you're stuck with your man right now, these are going to be excellent things to practice.
If you're not with him right now, if he's not around, you have to bookmark it for later,
or I could send you Matty. What do we love? What do us guys love? What do we want? I'm
going to tell you exactly what makes us turned on for you in this video. So, number one is
we want to feel like we are the cause of your arousal, right? I remember an experience once
where I was in the kitchen with a partner, and there was nothing sexual happening at
the time. And then she just kind of gives me this look, and I'm like, what's going on
here? She puts her hands down. Her pants draws me in and says, this is what you do to me.
Do you think we kept cooking at that point? We want to be the cause for your arousal.
We want to feel like the things we do turn you on. You can physically demonstrate it.
I'm telling you that is a winner every single time, or you can speak about it. You can communicate
it, right? You're out in public. Just tell him, or like give him a little feel or show him.
I don't know how you do that, but make it happen, right? The more you can demonstrate
that he has been a cause of your arousal, that you're just so lubricated, thanks to
him, the more he's going to feel like the man in your presence. Number two, lead with
your needs, right? Make it fun. Now, I don't mean that you lead the whole interaction,
but we want to see you pleasure, and only you know how you like to be pleasured and
way you like to be pleasured and way you want to be touched.
So just make him do it. You want to mount him? You go mount him. You want him to flip
you over this way? You tell him, "This is where I want to be." And you get yourself
in position. Just enjoy it, right? Just feel whatever you want to feel. Lead with your
needs. "Hey, I want this right now." He is going to love that. It's that fine balance
between the woman who takes over the experience versus the woman who is more passive. You
want to find that beautiful line down the middle, where you're just getting your needs
met, you're just losing yourself and your impulses? And you're using him. We want to
be used. We want to be used for your pleasure. So whatever you want, just make it happen
and lead with your needs. And the guy's going to love seeing that he can be the man that
makes them.
Number three, we want to feel like you're insatiable. Ladies, we want feel like you
can't get enough of us. And this is an amazing thing that I've noticed my own partner does
for me. And whenever I've been in a good relationship, it's been the same thing. You're out and about.
You're at the shops, mentioned it whenever. Mention that you want it in the most inappropriate
situation. Literally, I' challenge you. Find how inappropriate of a situation you can bring
this up in and still get away with it. That insatiability makes us as guys feel so wanted,
feel so loved, feel so adored. And I tell you when we feel that way, we want to present
that to you and serve you in that. Be the pleasure of your enjoyment. Number four, this
is one of my favorites. I've never heard any other coach talk about this f*ck to fun transitions.
You know how you have those moments where you're just so into it, where he's just penetrating
you and you're just losing yourself, and it's on and it's sexy and it's hot and you guys
are together. And then something weird happens. Your mum walks in the gardener, walks past
the window. The cat's watching you from the cupboard and something disrupts the energy.
And you've gone from this real high, if you're really comfortable with your partner, at that
stage, there's a closeness, there's a communication, there's a connection. That means you can enjoy
the new moment, just as much as you were enjoying the sex seconds ago. But the interesting part
is this, when you're that comfortable with someone, you can get back to the sex just
as quickly. So you can go from f*ck to fun to f*ck like that. And when you're that comfortable
doing that, what it really shows is how comfortable you are with your partner, how comfortable
he is with you, and the connection in those moments where you go from polarized lovers
to best friends, to polarize lovers in split seconds is one of the signs that your sex
is the most connected and the most enjoyable it ever could be.
Number five, you know our body, right? This one takes a little bit of time. And often
it's only going to be with longterm partners when you really know his body. And he really
knows yours. But the best sex for men is when you can just feel us, right? You can feel
when we're close, and you slow down. You can feel when we need a little more, you speed
up, you kinda take control in that incredible goddess feminine way. And you're just, you're
just the master of our pleasure. When you know our body really well, when you're able
to feel us to touch us, and this could even be something you out in public, you know,
you just touch him in that place that you know, riles him up. The best sex, the greatest
sexual experiences for men, and I'm sure for you as well, are always going to be those
where you know each other's bodies inside out, and you can just have so much fun with it.
Number six, you can't go pass spontaneity and surprises, right? Maybe you're out in
public with him. And you say right here, right now behind that bush, let's go on the roof.
Let's get down that alleyway. Or maybe you guys are driving in the car, and you just
want it, so you make him pull over. I remember I was once at the zoo with my partner, and
who knows, I don't even know they have showers at the zoo. We go into the shower at her request.
And you thought going to the zoo is for kids? Need I say more, right? It was one of the
hottest experiences of my life. She did a wonderful job, left the shower. And I was
in there gathering myself and trying not to look weird when I walked out. And the coolest
part is when you do this, and if you've done it, you'll know, you'll vibe me here.
The whole rest of the day, you've got this little secret. You've got this different energy
that the two of you have done something really cheeky. And it's so cool, right? That's spontaneous.
This is, these are the things we never forget as guys, all right? It doesn't even have to
be out of the bedroom. You can do it in the bedroom. I once had a girlfriend say, "I want
to use that." Guess In the comments below, but she said, "I want to use that from the
bathroom right now, use it on me." Leading with her needs and spontaneous surprises.
So whatever you can bring in that's different, whatever you want to do, that's spontaneity
for you and for us. Incredible sex! And number seven, you may not think it, but there's no
question, passion and connection. When we feel that passion from you, when we feel that
connection, and it could be the way you embrace and the way we embrace you, it could be the
way the connection flows between you as you get to know each other's bodies better. It
could be the eye contact. I know a lot of men enjoy the old doggy, but honestly, when
we get to see your eyes, some men might deny it. Some men might even be a little scared
of it, but the truth is the great passion and connection will always run through the
best sex that you, I, men and women have right throughout our lives. Those are the seven
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You're so much funnier than me. I never come up with this stuff. If you're stuck with your
man right now, these are going to be excellent things to practice. You have to bookmark it
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