Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. In today's video I'm
gonna be teaching you a simple phrase that will turn a girl on and here it is
without further ado. You're gonna say to her, her name "I'm taking you out this week."
Very simple. Name, I'm taking you out this week. When can you say this?
You can say this over text message. You can say this to her in person but
ideally you say this at a point when you're after the first date.
It's something you want to say after you've built a little bit of a connection with her.
Now here's the cool part. Why does
this work so well because it sounds so simple right? You're just saying that
you're gonna take her out. What you're doing is you're showing an
example of what it's like to lead and be dominant and be in charge.
These are masculine traits that a woman is attracted to just like you are
attracted to her feminine traits and you're able to display those through
this simple sentence because you are taking charge, you're taking a lead and
you're telling her what's going on. Here's the thing, a woman wants to know
that you have a plan. This is sexy, this says to her that you have your
life together, that you know what you want, that you know what you're going after.
Yes, sounds crazy all from this little tiny sentence. I know it seems
kind of counterintuitive. You think like oh if you want to take a girl out
you gotta ask her what she likes and what she wants to do.
People think that like in order to get someone to like them,
you gotta cater to them. But in here, this is the exact opposite. That's not how
attraction works. It's a little more counter intuitive which means that you
have to be the one to pick, to decide, to choose. Being able to make a decision is
very sexy to a woman. With that being said, what do you do, where do you take
her, what kind of date are you going on? Ideally you're doing something that
interests you. Of course if you know something that she doesn't want to do,
if she doesn't like you don't do that. If she hates Italian food, you know don't go
to an Italian restaurant. But make sure that it's something that you're
interested in. This is very key here. Why? Because there is something called
entertainment. It's a concept I talk about all the time where
when you're in this attraction phase and even throughout the whole dating phase
in a relationship phase you need to make sure that you're having a good time
that you're having fun, that you're enjoying yourself because that energy that you're
putting out there where you're having a good time, where you're enjoying life,
she is going to be attracted to that energy. Just the whole idea of you taking her
out planning something, that is enough for her to be like okay this is gonna be
a good time because she's in good hands and here's the thing, you don't have to
spend a lot of money. This is not about you trying to cater to her. This is
not about spending money on her, taking her to lavish restaurants or taking her
somewhere where you're whisking her away to somewhere far. That's not what this is
about. This could be super simple. This could be literally you taking her to an
event that's going on during the week. This could be something that you've
heard about that's going on. This could be something as small as a new place
that popped up and you want to try some of their appetizers. It doesn't matter.
Here's what you can do really quick. I want you to write down in the comments below
somewhere cool that you've wanted to go, that you want to do so you can start
thinking in that mindset of the things that you like and then you can use these
to be able to take girls out and we can all see all these in the comments and
get some cool ideas. But I want to reiterate here because I know I hear a
lot about this in the comments and from you, this idea of why do we have to cater
to women, why is it all about them, why can't they do any of the work? Let me
tell you something here, this is not about you being her slave and doing
things for her because at the end of the day she doesn't want that. She doesn't
want an errand boy to just do whatever she wants. She just wants someone that
takes control and you can do that by using this simple phrase. Once again that
phrase is her name and then you say "I'm taking you out this week".
I want you to use that. If you have trouble even getting into conversation
with girls or you want some more things to say to get conversation flowing,
I want you to check out my free video called Chick Crack. I'm gonna put that
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that. Don't forget to write a comment down below of the place that you would
go if you were to take a girl out and I'll see you on the next
video.