finally they have these in question how
do draw the line between perfectionism
versus high standards is actually quite
simple okay those who are a
perfectionist they are waiting and
waiting for everything to line up right
I'm gonna give you a simple example
right I want to go from here to West
Vancouver okay I have to go over the
bridge a perfectionist its I wait let me
wait till that the row has absolutely no
traffic
there's no passengers in fact I want to
make sure all the lights I'm gonna time
it perfectly then it's gonna be all
green every step of the way before I
will start the car that's a
perfectionist if you're letting your the
perfectionist in you to prevent you from
taking action and making progress then
you're not gonna kill very far versus if
you're actually making progress you're
like okay I'm gonna go just like it's
someone if you're driving you go and oh
there's a stoplight you stop wait for a
few seconds okay then I go oh there's a
person crossing the road okay good I'll
wait when you go oh he's a car that
stops let me navigate around that right
so if you let your perfection
perfectionism stops you from taking
action that's the difference setting
high standards meaning okay I want to go
from here to there where's then again
and it's gonna take me 30 minutes now
I'm not talking about speeding I'm not
an Africa of speeding I'll just give you
an example and it's 30 minute mmm I
wonder if you wanna set a higher
standard can I get there in 25 minutes
can I do get there in 24 minutes right
that's high standard there is not
stopping me from starting the engine and
going there setting high stone
or another standard 30 minutes can I go
there that I have a passenger right next
to me I'll have a baby next to me I'm
gonna drive there but I'll make sure
that I tried in such a way it is so
smooth and so steady that I don't wake
up the baby that's a standard it's a
different different for most standard
high-standard has nothing to do with
being a perfectionist see the truth is
most perfectionists they're using that
as an excuse they're using that as a way
not to take action they're using that as
a way to don't want to fail don't want
to look bad and want to look foolish
instead of taking action so they all
want to make it all perfect no you don't
want all perfect you don't want to do
anything because you don't want to fail
that's the problem
so my recommendation and he's a word I'm
gonna teach you progressionist don't be
a perfectionist be a progressionist inch
by inch you don't have to get it right
you just have to get it going
pawned on that