Have you always had this this sexy voice? Morgan: Just about the age of four yeah I may
not sound like Morgan Freeman but if you watch some of my older videos then
you'll notice that my voice is much deeper now than it was way back then and
guys often ask me what did you do to deepen your voice and here's the deal
women pay attention to the way you speak any sound they can tell a lot about you
and actually lose attraction or gain attraction just by your tonality alone
in fact a study showed that if you're talking to someone that you deem as
higher status than you your voice tonality actually goes up in tonality so
if you're talking to a beautiful woman and your voice goes up then she'll see
you as a lower status male and lose attraction for you I'm Madison from the
attractive man and this is how to have a deep sexy voice that turns women on
to be assertive we've done all the testing we know what
works now you probably already know that women prefer a man with a lower voice
and I'm gonna show you in this video how to amplify your inner bass but keep in
mind that it can only go so far and still sound natural you see your vocal
cords have already matured after puberty and now structurally they've developed
to the point where you can no longer change them that being said most guys
haven't mastered the art of vocal control and therefore they don't sound
as deep and powerful as they can in fact I was just working with a guy in LA who
sounded very weak and submissive in his tone and when we changed that to a more
dominant tonality without actually like changing his vocal chords or making him
you know sound over-the-top alpha where it sounded fake when he made this little
shit that I'm about to share with you women started noticing him and
perceiving him completely different so now let me teach you how to reach your
full vocal potential and pay close attention to my final tip because that
is going to determine whether a woman sees you as an attractive high status
masculine man or a low status weak pathetic beta male tip number 6 don't
use a forced tone or copy someone else's voice one of the most common mistakes
for guys trying to improve their tone is copying or mimicking someone else's
voice or tonality and when you use somebody else's voice when you try to
copy them it's always gonna sound forced and unnatural and women will pick up on
that sometimes it can even create like a squeak or an inaudible sound which is an
instant turnoff crystal-clear practices natural command of your voice is key so
instead of trying to copy Marlon Brando or Chris helmsworth master the tone of
your natural voice own it and use it to your advantage
do not be taking our pod today sir well are you making your voice deeper or not
he just did it again this is my voice number five learn to relax your throat
when you speak having good posture real axes your voice box and deepens your
voice naturally without forcing it to be overly exerted so make sure that you're
standing up straight and that your body is comfortable and that your throat is
relaxed a great way to relax your throat is actually by yawning so like my man
Morgan says yawn a lot really really
relaxes the larynx at home the area of the throat in the
jaw because modern things that make the boys high is tension in the throat do it
for like 30 seconds a day and you'll notice a difference over time it's also
really important to get rid of any anxiety or jitters that you might have
before you approach a woman because when you're feeling really anxious in your
body it constricts your throat and your voice might crack just like a boy
hitting puberty which is why it's so important to have a confident mindset
which not only makes you appear more confident but also gets rid of any
jitters or anxiety which helps relax your throat and prevent any chances of
constriction or stuttering from happening mindset is so crucial for
example when we first start our boot camps the guys you know their mentality
is a little fearful uncertain of themselves I'm certain of what's gonna
happen and their first few approaches don't really hit home runs but after
just a few short hours just by working on their mentality and their mindset
alone all of a sudden you can see them standing taller sounding more confident
having deeper voices and the reactions they get from women are much more
positive and it starts snowballing like this self-fulfilling prophecy and just
by changing their mindset they start getting great results number four is to
use proper breathing techniques take deep breaths
to get some air into your lungs before you speak when you have proper posture
it helps expand your chest allowing you to breathe from your diaphragm so to
have enough power in your speech make sure to have your chest out your chin up
and your shoulders back here's a quick exercise to see if you're doing it right
both your hands put one on your chest one on your stomach and as you breathe
you should feel your stomach expand for instance if your just your chest is
moving you're breathing from your chest this isn't where we want to be we want
all that base and all that power actually comes from our stomach and our
diaphragm so when you breathe make sure that your stomach is expanding that's
how you know you got it right by the way guys if you're not already subscribed to
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your dream woman number three is to speak slowly and clearly using pauses
nothing good will come out of you trying to cram everything you want to say into
one breath you're gonna end up sounding like a cartoon character on fast-forward
so unless you happen to be a pro rapper like Eminem come on Madhu Muhammad you
with someone I'm a human but I got it you must speak slowly and clearly
speaking slowly and pausing in between every few words not only helps you
collect your thoughts so you don't stumble over your words it also helps
you seem more confident because when you talk really really fast like this it
shows that I don't really believe what I have to say is important and that you're
gonna walk away at any moment so I must say it as fast as I can before you leave
but when you take your time like I'm doing right now it shows that I expect
you to listen to me therefore it shows I believe what I have to say is important
aka confidence when you pause more not only does it minimize the chance of you
making mistakes but it also helps you eliminate filler words like um like so
because when you use a lot of filler words um it kind of sounds like you
don't really know what you're talking about and I'm not really sure what I'm
saying to have that in
so instead use pauses because when you pause it creates some anticipation the
listener gets more drawn into the conversation because they want to know
what you have to say next number two is practice regularly with speaking
exercises perfect practice makes perfect pitch and if you want to master your
speaking voice then you must practice regularly just like how I mentioned you
should practice yawning every day you can naturally project the best part of
your voice by warming up with this next exercise in fact while filming on the
set of wolf of wallstreet Leonardo DiCaprio saw Matthew McConaughey warming
up with his mmm exercise and thought it would be a good idea to try it as a
scene and the director liked it so much that it actually made it into the movie
something I would I do from time to time to relax myself before scene or get my
voice lower or they now do it to whatever the rhythm of the character
isn't the same so believe it or not vibrating your vocal box by muttering
mm-hmm or just by humming get you more acquainted with your vocal muscles and
will help you to naturally start speaking from your diaphragm
now vocal warm up exercises aren't gonna make you sound like George Clooney or
Morgan Freeman but what they can do is help deepen your voice and bring out a
more warm richer and relaxed tone to your voice and if you really want to see
results then I recommend doing 10 to 15 minutes of vocal warm up exercises every
day the ones that I do are the male vocal warmup exercise by Roger love now
the most important tip which is tip number one is to use the high-status
voice instead of the low-status voice because women can actually tell if
you're a high-status man or a low-status man just by your voice so listen to the
difference hi I just saw you here and I thought you were really cute versus hi I
just saw you here and I thought you were really cute the low
status mail raises his tonality at the ends of his sentences sounding like he's
unsure or sounding like he's trying to please her or seek her approval you'll
notice that this is how a lot of restaurant servers speak to their
customers because they're trying to please them hi how was your meal you
also notice that I was speaking faster which shows that I don't really believe
in what I have to say that it isn't really that important because I have to
get it out as fast as I can and I was speaking in lower volume softer volume
which again shows a lack of confidence the high stat is tone however is louder
there's more pausing and I go down at the end of my sentences high so it tell
me something interesting about you versus high tell me something
interesting about you like you are challenging her and when you speak like
this people get the sense that your qualifying them and that they have to
prove themselves to you not in a negative or egotistical way just in a
way as long as you do it properly in a way that shows that you have standards
for the people in your life so I want you to start mastering the high status
tone and completely eliminate the low status tone of course there are some
exceptions like I said if you're a waiter or if you're talking to a little
baby you're gonna speak in probably a higher tone or if you're really excited
about something that's fine but for most other situation than those you should be
speaking in a more high-status tone especially around beautiful women that
you're attracted to so remember you don't have to copy anybody else's tone I
want you to learn to relax your throat when you speak and you can do that by
practicing yawning a lot I also want you to use proper breathing techniques like
we discussed also work on speaking more clearly and slowly by using more pauses
I also encourage you to try vocal warm up exercises on a daily basis and
perfect your high status tone that is absolutely crucial and there's a lot
more than just tonality that is gonna make you appear as a high status man and
make a woman see you as very very attractive versus just another guy that
she puts in the friend zone so if you want my help and if you want me to show
you exactly what to do and how to project more charisma then
make sure to check out our bootcamp schedule and schedule yourself a free
consultation also guys are always asking me what do I say what I see a beautiful
woman tonality is so important but of course you have to say something so if
you don't already have my free conversation cheat sheet make sure to
get a copy of it because I'm gonna give you some of my best conversation
starters for any situation simple techniques so that you never run out of
things to say and some cool ways to spark attraction create witty banter fun
games you can play role plays and much much more and how to escalate the
conversation from meeting her in any situation and taking things all the way
to the bedroom so again if you don't have that click the link down in the
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