Wow all right so I'm so glad she went before me because I was experiencing the exact same thing
so my question is I've been lucky the relationship that I have been in for the last three years has
provided me with a lot of contrast and therefore clarity and clarity is a really big prize isn't
it it's amazing and I'm so happy that now I know exactly what I want so the thing I think
so when you know exactly what you want are you feeling like you're gonna have to go someplace
else to get it yes because you don't have belief in the universe providing it right where you are
so that your partner's failing or yours mine and failings too strong a word but we just thought
we'd get that out there in the beginning thank you so I think I feel like the thing that it's
holding me I know how you find a perfect partner how by thinking your current partner is perfect
it's the partnering with your inner being and then it just becomes perfect ER and perfect ER
and perfect during perfect ER so I think you think that it's holding me back as I am focusing on the
things that bug me I think yes yeah keeping them active you're bringing that expectation to the
table and you are not disappointed exactly no co-creation at its best exactly I knew you were
gonna say that I knew you were gonna do that I knew that this was gonna come down I knew that
so now I need help to um I need help because I need to learn how to focus on other things well
here's the thing Law of Attraction won't let you all of a sudden stop thinking what you've
been practicing and start thinking something else so you have to go general you have to get really
general so in the middle of seeing something that you don't like you've got to talk yourself off the
ledge by getting general about it that helps but that only helps a little bit but it does
help or when you go to sleep at night you could acknowledge while I sleep all momentum will stop
and when I wake up I can start fresh that helps a lot that's really a big tool of understanding
and then the next is when you meditate and quiet your mind all together as your vibration Rises and
you find the vibrational equivalent of your inner being now you're going to receive thoughts of how
your inner beam knows that your dovetailing with this relationship you see what we're getting at
because your inner beam might know that there is something that might be a better choice for you
but you want to make sure you're in that receiving mode before you start moving because if you make a
decision from not that receiving mode then what happens is you just take yourself with you and
the next partner has all of those things that are active in your vibration so it's different
faces and different places but the same thing happens yeah that's exactly why I haven't left
so yes do you mind if we ask you some question go ahead do you think that your inner being knows
clearly the aspects of a relationship that matter to you I think so and do you think that you have
the ability to get into vibrational resonance with your inner being so that you know what your inner
being knows mm-hmm so you got that didn't you so now here's the question when you have those
thoughts of wanting to run away and go someplace else do you think those are impulses from your
inner being or do you think those are impulses from not being much in alignment we think so
too but that doesn't mean that your inner being is trying to get just to stay there forever more
it's just that your inner being knows you can't get there from there you got to stay tuned in
and so sometimes in fact frequently in fact our friends got us on percentages 70 percentage ish
part of the time you will stay right where you are and you'll just find more about where you
are and it will just blossom into the fullness of what you've been asking for so far and sometimes
your inner being will guide you in such wonderful easy powerful clarity certain ways to something
more where does that leave you so what would you say to someone that you're co-creating with like
that I like you pretty good let's see how it goes how does that sound if somebody said that
to you I like you pretty good let's see how it goes your reaction to this is really telling
because if it makes you feel insecure then you're not quite yet in the receiving mode if it sounds
like really a good idea oh then I'm satisfied what more what more so many relationships are
about insecurities I'd feel better if you were here I'd feel more secure but what you don't
realize is that that tramples your toes of freedom because what everyone wants is independence what
everyone wants is freedom and so the very security that you think you want tramples your sentence
of freedom and so you've got this push-pull with relationships when they're not there you want them
to come and when they get too close you want me to go away come here go away come here go away you're
doing that to each other all the time you see you make each other crazy completely yes so now where
are you okay so I guess my question is what things happen and I have a knee-jerk reaction how do I do
I just go general alright so yes that's all you can do but here's the thing when things happen
you want to ask yourself the question was I aware of momentum building and could I have headed this
off before these things happened Esther said this to someone she really loves some little
person in her life a little while ago she said do you understand what momentum is he said yeah
he really understood it and it's just said can you see how if you're aware of momentum and it starts
to build into something that feels uncomfortable that you could stop it maybe in the earlier phases
when you still have control of the outcome and can you feel how if you don't stop it then that it's
gonna escalate into something that then you can't control and she could tell by the look in his eyes
that he got that you have so much control when it's subtle and no control when it gets bigger and
so it's all about what you're doing when you're not rendezvous that's what matters more it's all
about your relationship with who you really are if you're concentrating on your relationship with
who you really are and reaching for thoughts on all subjects that feel good then you're in the
right place at the right time and it was don't ask anyone to be so perfect that you can just bungle
around and be in any state of being and when you get there they'll make you feel better don't ask
for something that ridiculously impossible instead what you want to say to anyone that's important to
you is don't you stand on your head for me I've got control of my alignment my happiness depends
only upon that you're off the hook and if you could say that and Nina every relationship would
be so delicious nobody could rattle your chains nobody nobody could shake you up you would accept
everything as your responsibility and of course you're gonna observe things you're gonna have
knee-jerk reactions to things but your knee-jerk reactions can be much softer from your place of
consistent alignment so when something happens you deserved it because you got ready to be ready to
be ready to be ready for it so Esther will say when she first started catching on to this and
something really wonderful what happened she would say I did that and when something not so wonderful
happened she said I did that taking ownership of your point of attraction is the only place that
freedom ever comes from and complimenting yourself on how well you're doing yes yeah
did we get there how do you know you're on the right path like you've got off of it the right
life path is alignment with my inner being who knows everything about my life who knows who I
was coming in what my intentions were coming in what I stirred up in a vast force since where I
am in relationship to that that's the only way you know satisfaction is the only way you know so you
just have to play with this until you are able to discern those subtle distinctions between feeling
good and feeling good or and feeling bad and feeling better until you just know and then this
is a part that we like so much to talk about so you've been listening to us for a while so here's
the evolution of the creative process so contrast is step one which causes you to ask asking a step
one step two is source answers and accomplishes or creates a vibrational state of beingness about
what you've asked for so it's done when you ask it is given someone should write a book about that
you ask it is given and then step three is you meditate or appreciate or look at positive
aspects or segments and ten you just reach for good feeling thoughts because you want to feel
satisfaction until you get pretty good at being in alignment with who you are that's what step three
is the receiving mode and step four is just being really good at that sort of silly to make a whole
step the same as the step before but it's the mastery of that and then Step five is slipping
out into resistance or contrast again but not being mad at yourself understanding the value
of the contrast so that you don't make mountains out of mole hills you just accept that oh this was
a clarifying experience so clarity is what you're looking for those are the five steps now this is
the piece that we want you to understand we want you to begin thinking about being
a vibrational being mostly and how vibrations become reality how do thoughts turn to things
how does the economy become more there's no one trucking things in from other planets how does
the more happen and the more happens as more and more of you have more and more experiences with
one another that caused you to ask for more and more that you then line up with because
it isn't until you line up with it that becomes a manifested reality that others can see so how do
these thoughts turn to things and this is the part we really want you to focus upon because this is
a piece that you're asking about let's assume that you've accepted that this vortex is real
even though you can't see it or hear it or smell it or taste or touch it you've heard us clamor
on and on about it enough that Alright Abraham we give up we accept that it is a real thing and now
I'm gonna take you at your stubbornness Abraham and at your determination to help me find it I'm
going to quiet my mind every day to just see if in stopping thought and therefore stopping
resistant thought if my personal vibration really will rise to the vibrational equivalent see of my
source and we want to say to you when that happens not just today but tomorrow in the next end in the
next day 15 minutes a day you start receiving from the vortex into your thought the evolution
of these creations in other words the thoughts start turning to sings through the translation
of your own mind that's how it happens so that you get impulses to be there rather than there
yet impulses to say this to this person at this time you get the impulse to call this person or to
say this or you begin translating this vibration into actual behavior that then and this is what
we want you to hear you get to witness and therefore understand therefore know that you
created that because you can stand all day and listen to us either live or on recordings and
hear us say these words over and over and over again but unless you've meditated you have not
really deliberately moved your vibration upwards unless you've quieted your mind you've not really
accomplished that vibrational equivalency that we've talked about unless you have meditated
consistently you can't really tell when you're there when you're not unless you've meditated
you cannot know for sure that you've consciously received a message from your intervene but once
these things happen and you know that you got that message from your inner beam and then you witness
things clicking into place in all manner of ways where you feel so blessed and so understood and
so in the right place at the right time until you do that then these are just words that you
might trust because we're consistent but you haven't shown to yourself because words don't
teach there's only life experience that teaches so it's your personal witnessing of your reception
and your personal witnessing of your translation of the vibration to the thought oh and when that
happens when you get that thought no matter what it's about whether it's about moving furniture
or whatever it is and you know you didn't think that thought because you weren't thinking that
thought that's not something you've been talking to anybody about it's not any momentum that you
had going is momentum in your voice that came purely out of your vortex and right into your mind
when that happens the first time then you gotta know I can be or do or have anything that I want