Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to be an attractive man,
7 irresistible behaviors that women adore. Like, if you want to melt her heart, keep watching.
Let me ask you a question. Are you watching this video
because you're looking for that special someone? I'm not talking about just any
girl. I'm talking about that special girl who's absolutely breathtaking to you.
She gives you butterflies. She makes you feel amazing. She knows everything about you
and completely adores you. You always feel amazing when you're around her.
That's the kind of relationship you're looking for, right? A forever
relationship. It's important to know how to attract that kind of woman, right?
You do not want to settle. You don't want to get your hopes up only to have them crushed
over and over again. You're ready for a loving, lasting relationship.
Does that sound like you? If you're nodding your head yes,
then get ready. You're about to learn how to be an attractive man to that kind of woman.
7 irresistible behaviors to the kind of woman you're actually looking for.
And let me just say, it's going to shock you. The way you attract a forever relationship is
completely different from how you attract a short-term relationship.
So if you're sick of relationships that go nowhere and you're looking for that loving,
lasting relationship, then stay with me.
The biggest tip is at the end of this video, and you need to know it. And I may or may not
have a bonus tip for you as well, so stay tuned.
Before we get to these amazing tips, make sure you subscribe,
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I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I'm your go-to resource to learn how to find, attract,
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Everything I teach you as a certified coach leads you to that loving, lasting relationship,
not a toxic relationship. Now, if you're not quite sure what a toxic relationship is,
or the signs that she's a toxic woman, make sure you watch this video.
It's one everyone should see. I'll put a link in the description below.
With that, let's dive in. Let's talk about how to be an attractive man,
7 irresistible behaviors that women adore. Number one is to be a genuine man.
Sometimes when we're trying to attract someone,
we feel like we have to be perfect. And the truth is, there's a lot of pressure out there to be
perfect. And sometimes we try and come across to the other person as perfect.
However, at the end of the day, nobody's perfect, including your dream girl. And
if she feels like you're too perfect and not human, it's going to intimidate her. It's going
to push her away. She's not going to connect with you because she's not perfect. And because
she's not perfect, she's looking for someone who's going to be understanding about that.
So another way to say this is she's looking for a real man, she's looking for someone who's
real, who's authentic, who's genuine,
not artificial. She's looking for a man who's willing to be a little bit vulnerable,
willing to acknowledge your weaknesses and work on them. Just like she is. She's looking
for someone who can laugh at himself and laugh with her throughout life, someone who's genuine.
The happiest couples just bumble their way through life doing the best they can,
being compassionate and supportive to each other, knowing that they're
pretty amazing, but at the end of the day, they're still human.
My next tip for how to be an attractive man
is to become a confident man. It's okay if you're not confident right now. This is something you can
learn. Confident men make women feel safe and protected.
It's kind of like a client said after completing my academy. I have an entire module dedicated to
skyrocketing your confidence quickly. And he was telling me how much his confidence
had grown. And he said that through this experience, he realized, "Look, if I don't
even have the confidence to approach a woman or pursue a woman, what in the world would make her
think I'd have the confidence to protect her?" And that's very true when you think about it.
A woman looks to her man to be a protector. And in today's society that usually doesn't mean,
you know, knight on the white horse. It usually means being supportive,
setting boundaries, being assertive, being confident.
Now confidence as it relates to self-esteem is something we build through creating and
maintaining confident habits. And if you're serious about becoming incredibly irresistible
and attractive to women and feeling confident and letting go of those feelings of an adequacy,
those confident habits are what you need. And that is something I do
teach you in depth how to do in my Academy.
Our next tip for how to be an attractive man is to learn how to communicate and interact with women.
I'm going to let you in on a huge secret that keeps so many good
men single. Many men think it's that they're not attractive. They think that they're just
not attractive enough for the kind of woman they want. Have you ever felt that way?
In reality, what it is,
is they don't understand how to communicate with women. They don't know how to interact with women.
The women who understand how to communicate and interact with men
are the most attractive women. And the men who understand how to interact
and communicate with women are the most attractive men. It's as simple as that.
So usually it's not so much an attraction problem, although there's no harm in increasing
your physical attraction, right? Usually it's that they have no clue how to interact and communicate.
It's like another one of my clients said, as he was explaining how what he learned in
the Academy completely transformed his life. He said, "Even if you have the best of intentions,
you need to be taught the correct way to express those intentions."
So realize it's okay if this is confusing.
That's completely and totally normal. Nobody knows these things until they learn them.
This is however one of the biggest benefits to having a female coach being able to translate
and explain it to you, so that quickly you become a pro at interacting with and communicating with
women. Because like I said, the most attractive men are the men who understand how to do that.
When you have the right insights, you can quickly go from terribly confused and hungry for love,
to finally turning her head, melting her heart, and making her love you forever.
By the way, if you're new here and you're wondering how you can learn more about my
Academy, this is the number one place for you to go if you want to learn how to find
the love of your life, sweep her off her feet, melt her heart,
make her fall in love with you, and shower you with kisses for the rest of your life.
This is how to go from the man who's still alone,
to the man who's happily married to the woman who sets your heart on fire.
To learn more about this, I've put together a short, free masterclass for you. This is where
you'll learn more about what it is and why it works. And the reason I have you watch this first
is so you can feel confident that this is the right decision for you.
So to watch this free masterclass go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
I'll also put a link in the description below in the link in the pinned comment.
You can try to piece it together yourself,
but the truth is it's incredibly frustrating, right? And there's a lot of room for error.
I've gone to all the work for you, put it together for you, so it's fast and easy. So
watch that free masterclass now. You don't have to go at this alone anymore. I'm here for you.
My next tip for how to be an attractive man is to encourage her. I've said it before,
and I'll say it again. People like people who make them feel good.
And everyone feels good when someone's encouraging and supportive and building, right?
That's certainly something you're looking for in a partner. It's definitely something she is as well.
We want to be in a relationship forever with someone who makes us feel amazing.
And encouraging her and being there for her and supporting her
is one of the best ways to help her say, "Holy cow, I want to be married to that guy."
My next tip for how to be an attractive man is to keep your wardrobe and your personal style
up to date. And this certainly goes for your hair and your facial hair as well.
It's really easy, what most people do is we kind of
figure out our style or just kind of fall into our style when we're teenagers. And then we just
stay there forever and we never update it. This is one of the worst things you can do.
You want to make sure your style is staying a modern and up to date. That's how you stand
out from the crowd completely. You can literally go from being labeled "the average looking guy"
to "the totally hot guy." That little bit of extra effort makes a world of difference.
This is why I spend so much time walking you through exactly how to do this in my Academy,
including how to dress like a model on a budget. It doesn't have to be super
overwhelming and super difficult, but I promise you that little efforts changes everything.
Now a question I often get when I'm talking about this is, what do you do if you're losing
hair? That's something I talk about more in this video. If you haven't yet seen it,
make sure you give it a watch. There's a link in the description below.
And one other question I know I'm going to get so I will answer is, yes, this definitely applies if
you're over 50 as well. If you want to stand out above the crowd, if you want to turn her head and
make her say, "Wow, he's not like everybody else. He's exceptional," you need to dress
like it. You can't dress like everybody else is dressing. So take this seriously.
I have a quick question before we get to our next tip. Are you enjoying this video, and should I
make more videos like this one? The truth is, there are so many things I could have put into
this video. If you would like more videos like this one, comment "attraction" to let me know.
Your feedback helps me so so much, especially when there are so many trolls plaguing my
comments right now. So thank you for your positive encouragement and support, for leaving
those comments. Again, comment "attraction" if you'd like more videos like this one.
Our next tip for how to be an attractive man
is to be a gentleman. This is something you do not hear enough in today's world.
And the reason why is quite simple.
Toxic people like attention, okay? And so they're trying to discourage chivalry because it gets them
a lot of attention. Don't listen to those people. You don't care about them anyway.
The kind of woman who's not toxic, the kind of woman who's looking for a lifelong partner,
she wants a gentlemen, someone who's chivalrous. And she wants a gentle man.
That's the kind of man that she knows she can trust, she knows she can be vulnerable with,
she knows has her back. That's the kind of man who will be an incredible father to their children and
an incredible husband. She's looking for a gentleman in every sense of the word.
My next tip for how to be an attractive man is going to shock you. This one thing has the power
to completely push the love of your life away. This tip is to make sure you protect your heart.
Make sure you're not giving your heart away too quickly.
Do not give your heart away too soon. The truth is, we all want to be loved.
We all want that someone special. We all want to have a happy, loving relationship.
There's nothing wrong with that. That's actually a good thing.
However, sometimes we get so hungry for that kind of relationship, sometimes we get so desperate
for that kind of relationship that we give our heart away way too soon. This puts way too much
pressure on the other person, and frankly, too much pressure on yourself. And it pushes her away.
One sign that you're doing this without even knowing it is if you feel like your self-worth
depends on being in a relationship.
Have you ever been there? Pretty much everyone has. It's easy to do.
In my Academy when I'm teaching you how to not be needy, how to not be desperate,
and how to protect your heart, something I say over and over again, if you've been
through my academy you'll recognize it, is do not marry her before you marry her.
Sometimes emotionally and mentally we're completely married to the other person
before we've even really dated them much, or at all.
You need to emotionally not decide she's the one until you've dated for a long time.
Don't go all in with your emotions too soon. Yes, you can dream, you can imagine,
you can wonder, but do not decide she's the one unless you have dated
months. Because again, if you start marrying her before you've married her, then you start kind of
acting like there's a closeness there that's not there. And it's going to push her away.
So instead you deserve to protect your heart. Protect your heart, don't give it away too soon.
Okay, I have a bonus tip for you. Are you seeing how simple it can actually be to attract the right
kind of person? It's more about the traits for a lifelong partner. Because if she's looking
for a lifelong partner, that's what's most important to her. That just makes sense, right?
So it doesn't have to be super overwhelming to attract
the right kind of person. That's pretty cool!
So by now, you might be thinking, "This is awesome! This is good stuff. But Melannie,
if I'm doing a lot of these things, if I'm already so attractive,
why am I still alone?" Is that what you're wondering?
Why can you try so hard and still come home to an empty house every single night?
Let me just say, it's not because there's something wrong with you or that you are
destined to be alone forever. All it means is that there are a few pieces to the puzzle
that are missing. If you knew what those pieces were, you'd be married by now, right?
So there are just a few things that you haven't become aware of yet.
But once you become aware of those, you can flip it all around very quickly.
I'm here to make it easy for you. Let me help you make your life easier
so you can get results faster. So you can get to a lifetime of kisses from a woman who adores you.
To learn more about this and how I can help you
watch that free masterclass. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. There's
also a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment.
If you're ready for that special someone whose heart belongs to you,
it's time for you to learn the secrets so you can finally have that.
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