Or something [laughs] I haven't had bread in so long, I'm going to go get it roll after this.
What men find attractive. The reason why it's important to know what men find
attractive is because if you don't have it you're not going to be able to
attract him. But don't worry it's very simple. First of all men love body
confidence, not perfection. I know. Men love all shapes and sizes and if you
look around you're going to see evidence of that
everywhere you look, really. Regular people find love, isn't that crazy?
I know. So here's something that you can do that will show a man that you have
body confidence even if you're kind of faking it. So if a man gives you a
compliment on your physical looks don't accept the compliment with a disclaimer,
and what's the disclaimer? A disclaimer is like if a guy says, oh you look beautiful,
and you say, oh this old dress, or, oh well I need to lose a few pounds. Don't do
that, just say, thank you so much that makes me feel really feminine, or really
pretty, or really beautiful, because you can fake it and he won't know. But if you
reject his compliment he feels rejected personally.
So another thing. number two. Happy chicks. If you're generally happy or positive
then that automatically shows that you're handling life well. We don't know
what's going on in your life at any given time but if you're constantly down
or depressed then what that automatically allows a man to assume is
that you're not handling life very well, so what's going to happen when you guys
get together and the shit hits the fan, because it always does when you're in a
relationship, and no that's not that attractive. Okay so number three, you've got
your life together. So this doesn't mean everything's perfect and you've achieved
all your goals in every category, but it looks like you can handle things pretty
well and you're moving toward different goals in different areas because men
want to be providers but they don't want to be constant rescuers of perpetual
victims. Not attractive. Number four, smarts. So smarts can look like book smarts, or
intellectual smarts, that doesn't have to mean that you have a high IQ but it could also
look like social smarts where you know how to carry on a conversation or you
can tell story, you might have a specialized knowledge about knitting
socks, or maybe you really know how to cook well. So anything that you can kind
of excel at in an area is something that will impress a man. So a good example of
this is I went out with a guy who was literally a genius, like he was a genius;
but, he was socially awkward and I remember one time telling him like how I
always felt so dumb around him because he would try to explain these things to
me and I'd be like huhwha? and I actually was brave enough to tell him that I felt
stupid and he said, yeah but Anna, you're a genius with people. And I was like, I am,
so there you go. So what's something that you're really great at that makes you
attractive. Write it in the comments below and if you like this video, click
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