The INTJ door slam is commonly associated with erasing people; however, there is another
type that few people encounter – or perhaps the door slam just appears like the INTJ's
usual furious grumbling and mumbling.
You might be surprised to learn that there are two types of door slams.
Both are distinct but serve the same purpose..
It's strange that there isn't a lot of information addressing the INTJ door slam – or, perhaps,
not THAT strange; after all, it's unusual to witness an INTJ angry when they've reached
a certain level of self-control.
Most, but not all, young INTJs are prone to anger because They are unable to recognize
the difference between the emotions of rage and frustration.
It doesn't help that anger is a simple emotion to feel and act on because it is immediate,
direct, and focused — when INTJs are young, it's one of their "go-to" emotions when they
can't express themselves effectively.
Fortunately, after self-discovery, maturity, and growth, The majority of INTJs are quiet,
laid back, and in control of their emotions.
They despise others who try to manage their lives, but INTJs rarely get emotionally attached
enough to accept such a powerful negative reaction.
That's not to argue that rage and door slamming don't occur.
Today I'm going to talk about The different kinds of INTJ door slams since I'm sure you'd
like to know what an angry INTJ looks like or what to do if you experience or witness
an INTJ door slam.
Whatever preconceptions you have about this, watch until the end, I am sure there is a
lot that you havent even realized.
Let’s get into it.
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The INTJ door slam is simply when an INTJ knocks you out with as few words as possible.
Simply being irritated typically allows the opposition to explain or fight back.
INTJs aren’t interested in that; instead, the INTJ door slam is intended to SHUT YOU
DOWN Completely.
The effect here is that there is a sense of finality to the door slam that distinguishes
it from their everyday irritated mumbling – this particular door slam simply shuts
people up, and if you say another word...well, they'll either give you their death stare
while picturing you slowly agonizing in their heads, or they'll door slam you again.
Typically, the first door slam will be successful since everyone has sensed the deathly energy
flowing from an INTJ.
As I previously stated, there is a sense of finality to it; it isn't a "how can we repair
this" or "let's talk about it" type of thing.
In their mind, it has a meaning of "let's not waste each other's time, I'm done with
this, let's go our separate ways."
We should never see each other again.
So, how do INTJs make use of the door slam?
As I mentioned earlier, they will only use one word or one phrase to silence you.
Their remarks or responses will be brief, rude, harsh, and direct.
Surprisingly, the INTJ door slam typically occurs when they have not invested emotion
in someone.
Basically, it is impersonal 95 percent of the time, so strangers are screwed if they
violate an INTJ's rational mind.
Of course, even when they are close to someone, as soon as an INTJ puts their heart and emotions
on lockdown, you are equally screwed, if not more so, because they will not hold back.
They also have a catalog of your personality in their heads, which they can use to inflict
additional harm when necessary.
Don't worry, they only use it every now and then, or not at all, depending on the circumstances.
If they don't want to deal with you anymore, the door slam will be initiated – interestingly,
there will be no aggression or anger, it's more of a grey area between the fine line
that is irritation and anger – whatever that emotion in between is, which is similar
to the emotion when they erase someone.
They are beyond hatred at this stage and simply want you to leave them forever and immediately.
There are no second chances with the INTJ door slam because it occurs on the spot with
no preparation.
Their voice is distinct, unwavering, and powerful.
You'd probably see why they could be a boss or a leader, especially now that they've summoned
this demonic aura that looks like their double-bladed wielding soul is about to slice and dice you
in 0.00 seconds.
This force is terrifying and completely uncontrollable.
Keep in mind that the INTJ door slam is not common because they will most likely walk
away or disregard the annoyances because they couldn't care less about you.
Furthermore, INTJs are generally irritated and annoyed by society and people on a daily
basis, so keep in mind that the INTJ door slam and their everyday irritation are clearly
different.
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This brings me to door slam number two.
This door slam is a little different in that, unlike the previous one, it was not planned
and was more of a spontaneous on-the-spot rip you to shreds kind of thing; For this
one, a sustained aggravation is the driving force.
Since an INTJ has been seething in their thoughts for quite a while, this door slam is considerably
more controlled.
It's vital to understand that some INTJs find it difficult to express their disagreement
with you strongly if they feel mistreated – however they'll try to quietly show you
their disapproval of whatever it is through humor, sarcasm, or silence.
Their annoyance is prolonged because they will try to see things from your point of
view and then rationalize with how you perceive things in an attempt to better understand
you.
An INTJ unconsciously tells themselves to give you several chances in order to avoid
snapping and going crazy on you.
Some INTJs adopt the perspective, "what I want the most when I am angry is a reason
not to be upset," which helps them control their anger and discard any anger that may
distort their judgment.
If anything can be reasoned with or explained, or if something was not done with malice in
mind, that's excellent to know.
If you emphasized that your intentions were to accomplish something, that your line of
action made sense, that your action was less negative than it appeared to be, and that
the INTJ simply overreacted or over-analyzed the scenario, that's fantastic.
What reasons have you door slammed someone if you are an INTJ?
If you aren't, have you ever been door slammed by an INTJ?
Leave a comment and tell me your stories.
In actuality, INTJs simply want to know what your motives are and why you are acting the
way you are.
Help them in seeing that you are not as hostile as you appeared.
Fortunately, Most INTJs' logic outweighs their anger, allowing them to briefly "paralyze"
themselves from doing something they'll come to regret.
On the contrary, when their view of you or the situation is valid, they have the right
to be angry...and all they want to do is wait for it to go away.
They'll devise strategies to avoid you or the circumstance for the duration of their
anger.
They want seclusion here.
If the incident occurs in a public place and they are unable to squirrel away, the death
stare will be unleashed.
You'll be relieved to know that healthy INTJs are very aware of what's going on and don't
make rash decisions when they're upset.
When an INTJ is in good health, door slamming is rare, and they prefer to "talk it out."
When they are annoyed, they will recognize how vital communication is; yet, their type
of communication will be different.
For example, if they are in a relationship that is having difficulties, Their communication
becomes more professional, short, and to the point.
Aside from that, they, like everyone else when they're annoyed, don't ask how your day
went or open up to you - they just keep it real and professional until they've solved
whatever it is.
Regardless of your relationship, friend, or family status, you should take advantage of
this opportunity to discuss things and get your thoughts across, especially if an INTJ
believes you are not hearing or understanding them correctly or that they are not hearing
or understanding you correctly.
It's not so much that they want your respect as it is that they want you to comprehend
where they are, where they are coming from, and what the facts are.
Essentially, the purpose of this conversation session is to provide clarification for both
sides.
When this frustrating shutdown becomes this serious or is launched, it indicates that
an INTJ has determined that whatever you are doing must be stopped.
When something is serious enough to make them feel the need to stop you or call out your
nonsense, they will do it.
If it is the correct thing to do, They will emphasize specific reasons why they feel this
way internally and externally throughout the process.
Don't worry, an INTJ will chronicle everything and provide it to you in great detail, so
you may want to pay attention to their sarcasm and silences in the near future, as they may
have more meaning than you realize.
Fortunately, an INTJ does not hold grudges, even when they are irritated to the point
of snapping.
If they do, It means you messed up BIG TIME, consistently and immorally, and they simply
eliminate you.
Welcome to eternal suffering.
Even if their RBF claims otherwise, their annoyances about you don't last long in most
basic and general circumstances.
That INTJ RBF usually doesn't mean that they are angry or upset at all.
There are actually a lot, and often surprising reasons behind that INTJ stare.
This video talks about the many reasons that an INTJ specifically stares so much and why
people confuse it for anger so frequently.