The INFJ is an incredibly exceptional personality type.
Unfortunately, it is one of the rarer types, especially amongst men.
INFJ men possess very unique qualities that can make them particularly attractive to women.
They have a good blend of both masculine and feminine qualities that make them ideal partners.
They are still manly in societal standards, they just tend to lack the overly toxic masculinity
in today’s society, therefore, they can identify with women more than most men.
Naturally, INFJ men will find themselves attracting a lot of female friends as well as admirers.
So, let’s explore, 10 attractive traits of the INFJ man.
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Romantic
INFJs men make great partners with their sensitive charm.
They are thoughtful, warm and understanding in all their relationships, not just the romantic
ones.
They are never afraid to express their love for those they’re with, so much so they
could sometimes be considered as hopeless romantics.
They are known to go out of their way to make their loved ones happy.
Their partners also find them ingratiating due to their love for deep heart to heart
conversations.
They are good listeners, very considerate, caring and honest.
INFJs crave an authentic, long-lasting, physical, emotional, and even spiritual intimacy with
their partners.
They strive to achieve oneness in all aspects, mind body and soul in their relationships.
Warm and Compassionate
INFJs are warm and compassionate.
They want to be the saviour in their relationships.
Being feelers, they want to help everyone in need around them.
They can know more than they are told due to their intuitiveness.
INFJs can see beneath the surface.
They don’t need to be told about people’s distress, worries or fears.
They can recognize those who are suffering even if they are scared to acknowledge it
to themselves and they go out of their way to help.
Their altruistic nature makes them act in the interest of humanity rather than a self-serving
tendency, since other people’s happiness is very essential to them.
The majority of INFJs will find themselves taking part in humanitarian activities which
is such a noble thing and can prove particularly endearing and attractive to those with equally
kind hearts.
Intuitive
Have you ever heard men saying that they don’t understand women?
C’mon, you know what, no, that see, that’s not what I want.
You just said that you want me to help you do the dishes.
I want you to want to do the dishes.
Why would I want to do dishes?
Why?
See, that’s my whole point.
Unlike other male personality types, INFJ men tend to understand women more due to their
intuitive nature.
They are able to read people’s desires and feelings and can know more than they are told.
They can often join the dots and figure out what their partners are thinking before they
are told.
However, they don’t leave it at that, they will try to find out what makes them tick
and go out of their way to please them.
INFJ men are also known for buying very thoughtful gifts and plan a lot of well thought through
surprises for those they are with.
Emotional and Sensitive
INFJs have the auxiliary extraverted feeling, which means that they are aware of how others
feel.
They are naturally emotional and sensitive, a quality that makes them considerate, and
empathetic.
They can sense how others feel both emotionally and physically.
INFJs can deal with people’s emotions without being overwhelmed or frustrated, that’s
why they make good counsellors.
Women who are major feelers find this attractive since they don’t have to hide their emotions
for fear of being rejected.
Empathetic
INFJs don’t just empathise; most go the extra mile and try to do something about a
situation that distresses you.
They are very nurturing and love helping others.
Empathy is an incredibly attractive trait to most women, plus who doesn’t like a man
with a good heart?
This empathetic trait is generally a good indication that an INFJ would not be the kind
that would take advantage of their partners or hurt them intentionally.
Intelligent
INFJs are very intelligent.
however, this is not say they are particularly the book worm kind of intelligent, although
many of them still do good in school.
Their extraverted intuition helps them to collect data from their observations and analyse
the information they get for future predictions.
This helps them to make logical decisions.
Besides that, they have high emotional intelligence.
Being empaths, they understand how people feel and what their deep desires are, and
work towards everyone’s well-being.
They also can understand a tense environment and calm people’s emotions, a quality that
can make them look like heroes and partners that will protect.
Deep thinkers
INFJs seek meaning in all areas of life.
They usually seek to find a mission for their life.
They value deep authentic, long-lasting connections with others thus investing a lot of time in
relationships.
In as much as it might be hard to break the ice at the initial stages because of their
reserved personality, once you do, they will make you feel like you’ve known them all
your life.
They are very easy to talk to since they love deep meaningful conversation.
They dislike small talk and shallow interactions.
This makes them stand out as good listeners compared to their other male counterparts.
Mysterious
INFJs are quiet, calm, reserved and private individuals.
They may even appear as distant when first meeting them.
INFJs, unlike other personalities, are not open books.
They keep a lot to themselves which makes it hard to understand them.
However, once INFJs let you in, be assured that they trust you.
To them, you are a very special person.
Over time, they grow warm and friendly.
This kind of mystery is what intrigues a lot of women, because who doesn’t like a little
bit of a challenge?
Passionate and Determined
INFJs are driven by passion and purpose.
They are quite passionate about things they believe in.
Once they are convicted about the importance of something they will pursue it with commitment
and enthusiasm until they achieve their intended results.
Their values, principles, vision, idealism and integrity also help them to achieve their
goals and make an impact.
INFJs’ perfectionist nature equally contributes to their pursuit for the ideal partner.
They have a great deal of willpower and focus such that they cannot rest until they find
them.
They just don’t settle for the average; they strive for the one and only.
The INFJ male will remain passionate as a result, and this can prove desirable because
who likes an unsure man?
A lazy one, or one that gives up easily?
Stubborn
A little stubbornness doesn’t harm, does it?
INFJ is a personality type that possess a level of stubbornness that is just passion.
First, unlike the other personality types, they dislike following the norm or set beliefs
and morals.
INFJs love a level of independence.
They want to be themselves as much as possible without blindly yielding to beliefs they barely
understand.
Secondly, due to their intuition, they are perspective and insightful.
INFJs can foresee what will happen and the impact it will have.
They get very stubborn about their perception and vision and develop plans dedicated to
that.
This can be an attractive trait for someone with the same morals and drive as the INFJ
as they will prove to be a worthy life partner.
INFJs males have gained a lot of popularity compared to their counterparts.
Women find the INFJ man probably unique due to the fact there are very few of them in
the world.
It could also be due to their sensitive charm and mysterious aura.
No personality is indeed superior to the other but to be an INFJ male is a huge blessing.
Whether they come into your life as a significant other or as a close friend, they will leave
a lasting mark that is not easily replaceable.
The fact that they possess really good qualities that are admirable such as empathy, care and
warmth is a thing to behold.