have you ever heard the phrase there are plenty of fish in the sea this is a
positive phrase usually used after a giant rejection the reminder that there
are many different options out there is comforting even if you're feeling down
about one fish in particular this idea can be used to create something called
the abundance mindset you might have heard this phrase used by dating coaches
or life coaches who want to inspire confidence and success the abundance
mindset is a frame of mind that allows you to step into any situation with the
confidence to tackle any obstacle and push forward when these obstacles
threatened to get in your way so what is the abundance mindset it's actually
pretty simple it's the idea that there is an abundance of all things positive
in this world women yep there's an abundance of women for you to go out and
date money yep there's an abundance of money to go around and you have the
skills to go get it no matter what you want in life you can find it and find
ways for it to go around to your colleagues and other people in your life
that you love the abundance mindset works because it opens up your potential
the opposite of an abundance mindset is something called a scarcity mindset and
a scarcity mindset stops you when you face an obstacle or see someone else
with the things that you actually want instead of moving forward to rank among
the people that you admire you stay back in the shadows the abundance mindset
destroys all of these hesitations and leaves an open door for new
opportunities when you do face an obstacle or a failure which I mean
everyone does at some point you'll be able to pick yourself up even easier
after all even if you failed getting one promotion or maybe just one day there is
an abundance out there that you can possibly get there are many ways that
you can use the abundance mindset in your life in fact there's an abundance
of ways to use the abundance mindset so let's talk about that how can we use it
at work we all know that there is a lot of money going around but it's important
that you apply the abundance mindset to opportunities like promotions or people
who can help you advance in your career if you're up for a promotion and just
don't get it don't let it get you down you can seek out other opportunities
every day you can start a side hustle or you can work on passive income after you
get off work keep an abundance mindset and keep your eyes peeled for how
business dinners outings and events around your town can help you move up
the ladder you can also use the abundance mindset when you interact with
other people when you live with a scarcity mindset anyone else who enjoys
success is simultaneously contributing to your failure a scarcity mindset tells
you that there's only so much success to go around when someone else succeeds
that means you have to fail so expand your opportunities for success by
growing and learn an abundance mindset when you talk to
someone who seems to have it all together or they just enjoyed success in
their career life you should be happy for them not jealous of them you need to
celebrate them on their success if you hold an abundance mindset and repeatedly
tell yourself that there's enough success and happiness to go around
celebrating other successes will be a lot easier celebrating another person's
success is not just beneficial for your mood either when people enjoy success
they want to share with other people and receive positive feedback if you're
someone who is always up to say congratulations people will want to be
around you more they will count on you and generally have a better feeling
about trusting you or sharing information with you all of these traits
can help lead you on your own success abundance mindset is also very important
in self-improvement because do you want to learn a new skill you want to take
extra courses if you add another hobby to your schedule you can absolutely do
it with the abundance mindset the abundance mentality gives you the
ability to expand your skill set indefinitely there's an abundance of
opportunities for you to keep growing and developing and learning no matter
what your age is no matter what your financial situation is or your physical
limitations it also is very powerful in dating and romance so here's where the
there are plenty of fish in the sea really comes into play there are plenty
of fish in the sea and if you don't catch one on your first try you can keep
trying and it's completely okay an abundance mindset is key at any stage of
dating until maybe you've made things official with a partner when you're
going out to meet people you need to be excited there are so many women and
people out there that you can possibly meet and date and there's an abundance
of opportunities for meeting new amazing people so even if you don't score any
numbers this night you can feel confident that knowing tomorrow or next
weekend might be the right day for you when you do start talking to someone new
the abundance mindset reminds you that you don't have to put all of it into one
basket don't rush into a relationship with the first person who gives you
their number in a world of tinder and hookup culture it's important to
remember that most people keep their options open for a while and there are
an abundance of options available when you're first chatting to someone or
having the first few dates you need to play it cool you have no reason to get
too serious too fast this more relaxed mindset will make the other person more
comfortable and give you the ability to back out if you find someone who you
don't really want to see that often once you do find someone that you mesh with
well and you'd like to begin a serious relationship with using the abundance
mindset will ensure that you've made a decision based on the person in front of
you and not a desperation to be in a relationship so before in this video I
want to give you simple tip on how to actually develop an
abundance mindset well it's actually really simple practice and repetition
whether you use something like affirmations or just a daily check up on
your attitude start to switch our thinking to the ideas that the abundance
mindset offers even if you don't believe it at first
the more you put your mind into an abundance mindset the more benefits you
will reap from this set of ideas and concepts and also before in this video I
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this helped you realize the importance of an abundance mindset it might even
help you develop one I'll see you guys in the next video