and you don't know if you're supposed to surrender or keep following the steps
and it all feels so overwhelming hello and welcome back to my channel if you're
new what my name is Mary Kate and I'm a mindset coach manifesting expert and
founder of MKmagicmindset.com if you're new here my channel is all about
Law of Attraction manifesting meditations and more so be sure to
subscribe I would love to have you in this video I want to share with you how
to stay focused when manifesting how to know when to surrender when to keep
trying and how to put all of the kind of moving pieces together when you're
trying to manifest something I feel like sometimes manifesting and the law of
attraction can just feel kind of overwhelming like I have been studying
and practicing the law of attraction for a very very long time I didn't just wake
up one day and it all clicked and I knew exactly what I was doing I didn't just
read the book the secret once and I just knew it all like that's not how it works
you're manifesting process is always going to grow and evolve and you kind of
adapt to what's going on in your life and that kind of shifts how you go about
your manifesting process so we're gonna dive deep into all of that but before we
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I actually want to share something with you because I got asked this question in
my live Q&A that I do inside my create membership so if somebody asked me if I
was always good at manifesting and the funny thing is is that I've always been
a very very determined person like if I want something I'm going to find a way
to make it happen and I've basically always been creating and manifesting
things without realizing what it was it was almost like I had this magic power
but I didn't know what it was called or how to classify it I just knew that if I
wanted something it was going to happen for me I knew that if I could tap into
that feeling that it would show up in my life and it always did but this is when
I was younger so I didn't have all that like cloudiness that happens as you get
older and more people tell you no and people try and acclimate you to the real
world and take away your imagination so it was kind of the
uninhibited thing that I had when I was younger that I knew that if I wanted to
create something it was going to happen for me call it sheer determination will
stubbornness but all along I was manifesting so it was always something
that I feel like I had within me I just didn't know how to classify it so fast
forward to you know 10-15 years later one of my friends gave me the book the
secret which was his most people's first introduction to the law of attraction
and I member reading and becoming fascinated about it and the cool thing
was I was able to immediately start manifesting things again when I
remembered that kind of childlike feeling that I knew anything was
possible to kind of reignited that in me and then I was able to start manifesting
things quickly again but then I became obsessed and I started reading too many
books and following too many things and that started clouding me again and then
I went through all these periods of was able to manifest certain things I wasn't
able to manifest other things I was trying too hard
I was trying to manifest multiple things at the same time I was just doing too
much which in turn was blocking me from manifesting so I want to save you that
struggle trust me that is not where you want to be but I know it's such an easy
trap to fall in because once you manifest one thing then you get kind of
hooked and you're like okay well I need to do this and this and I'm gonna try
manifest all these different things at once and I'm gonna hold the feeling I'm
gonna follow the steps and then I'm gonna surrender but I didn't fully
surrender like there it's so easy to get out of focus from practicing a law of
attraction but I want to simplify it for you I dive way deeper into all of this
information inside my breakthrough training series we go over beliefs and
expectations and I share with you my magic tipping point technique there is
so much really good valuable information in there I will leave a link up here and
a link down below you seriously won't want to miss this but let's simplify it
because it doesn't have to be overwhelming and complicated if you just
stay focused let's break it down so when you're trying to manifest
something first of all I always like to tell my clients the people I work
one-on-one with everybody in my coaching programs and memberships everything I
like to say pick one thing at a time to manifest because if you're trying to
manifest 10 different things your energy is scattered all over the
place and then it makes it hard to focus so pick one thing at a time and I get
this question all the time like how do you know when it's time to move on to
the next thing you don't need to wait until that thing manifested to move on
to the next thing it pick one thing at a time
pick one thing per week and then move on give that one thing your energy your
feelings all of your techniques for one week and then surrender and move on to
the next thing so when you're picking one thing at a time to focus on what I
want you to do is just fully immerse yourself in that one thing for that week
so when you pick the one thing you intend to manifest for that week follow
the steps that work for you find your way into your manifesting process find
the techniques that work for you feel the feelings live in it know that it's
yours and here's the question I get asked the most how do you know when to
surrender when do you surrender how do you notice surrender what is
surrendering feel like what does it look like what is surrendering so here is my
answer you surrender when you truly fully completely believe that what you
want is going to happen it's already yours you don't have to ask for it
anymore think of it this way you wouldn't ask for something you already
have you would not ask for something you already have so you don't surrender
until you fully completely feel like it's yours to the point where there is
not a doubt in your mind if there's still a down your mind keep finding your
way into it keep figuring out your belief system as to why there's doubts
keep working it until you have no doubt that it's yours and like I always say
you can't fake this you can't fake this feeling energy doesn't lie your feelings
don't lie so only surrender when you truly fully
completely believe that what you want is worse I know so many people say well I
surrendered and it didn't happen the key is you fully know that it's
already yours so even if you don't see evidence of it happening by the date
you've said her by the time you thought it was going to happen you still believe
it anyway that is really you really know that you've got your energy behind
something and nothing can get in your way so until you're at that place don't
surrender but just because you haven't surrendered
doesn't mean you can't move on to the next thing in a week some things some
big things especially take a lot more time to get your energy behind sometimes
it takes more steps more holding the feeling more shifting your beliefs in
your energy to get behind what it is that you want to create so as much time
as it takes keep going but after about a week just move on to
the next thing you can always come back but for the sake of focusing just pick
one thing per week stop scattering your energy stop making it more difficult
than it needs to be and the other thing I want to share with you is what to do
when you just feel low vibe or overwhelmed or you just feel like you're
struggling and you feel like you have to keep trying and trying and things just
aren't working so when you get to that place that is a clear sign that you need
to take a step back take a minute for yourself take time for yourself be
gentle with yourself reflect do what you need to do to get back to a space
energetically where you can jump back into your manifesting process
you can't manifest from a place of being overwhelmed or unhappy or just feeling
defeated that is not where the energy you want to manifest comes from so don't
manifest from that place you can take a break you can take a step back
the whole world's not going to fall apart all of your work you've done to
manifest something is not just going to dissolve you're allowed to take time for
yourself you're allowed to have bad days practicing the law of attraction and
doing mindset work doesn't mean that you're not a human being you are allowed
to have negative thoughts pop up you were allowed to have days where you just
don't feel good you're a human it's not possible to just think positive thoughts
and think good thoughts and have good feelings all the time that's not part of
the human experience and that's not something you should try and force
yourself to do you are a human allow yourself to have your feelings but your
job is to notice where these feelings are coming from and acknowledge them and
do the energetic work and do the mindset work and figure them out and fix them
and move on and shift so when you're in that place take a step back it's okay
you're allowed to have days like that but it's what you do on your bad days
and what you do when you're feeling negative
and what you do when you feel overwhelmed it's what you do about those
feelings it's whether you decide to stay in them and dwell in them and kind of
like dig deep into them and sink and some and make them worse by indulging in
those thoughts or you can acknowledge that you feel that way you can give
yourself a break you can take a day off or two days off or have a minute to
yourself or chill out and do something for you and then shift into a better
place and then think of better feeling and a better feeling and pick a better
feeling until you start feeling better again I think that is seriously such an
important lesson if you only take away one thing from this video I really hope
you understand that each gentle with yourself you are a human being having a
human experience I really hope you enjoyed this video if you did be sure to
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