Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
Today, we’re showing you 10 qualities that women find highly attractive in a man..
It’s no secret that the list of things women like in men seems long and at times, contradictory.
And while there isn’t a secret recipe for all women, there are a few things that most
women are drawn to, that you need to know.
So.... to help you crack the code, here are 10 things women find irresistibly attractive.
10. Leadership and Initiative
While you might think that in order to be
a leader you need to lead others, the type of leadership that women really find
attractive is the ability to lead yourself.
In other words: You take initiative and you’re a man of action, not just words.
Not only does taking initiative show her that you mean what you say,
but it also shows that you don’t have to depend on others to get things done.
And the reason it’s so attractive is crystal clear:
Guys who lead the way and have a plan make women feel cared for and protected.
Want to know one of the simplest ways to show a little initiative?
If you tell her you’re going to call, call!
9. Sense of Humor
Ever wonder how some guys get girls who might
seem a little “out of their league?”
While there isn’t a definite reason why, it’s likely because that guy knew how to
make her laugh.
Now that doesn’t mean you need to be cracking more jokes,
but one thing you can start doing right away is not taking yourself too seriously.
So before you start practicing your stand-up routine,
Just try to laugh the next time you do something like spilling ketchup on your shirt.
8. Passion and Ambition
Why do you think women like guys in bands?:
Is it their “badboy” persona?
Is it their sweet serenades?
Maybe for some, but for many women it’s more about an undeniable willingness to chase
their goals.
Because in a world where so many people don’t get to do what they want in life,
seeing a man who is making his dreams a reality, is actually pretty rare and refreshing.
Now, you don’t need to join a band or choose an overly prestigious career path,
but if you find a job, hobby or goal that you are lucky enough to be passionate about,
not only will you probably be pretty content with your life,
but your charisma and enthusiasm will also shine through to any woman you talk to about
it.
7. Dress Your Best
Among the amazing, scientifically-proven benefits
of dressing better, is something that a surprisingly few guys
know: One of the absolute best and easiest ways
to get a girl’s attention is to dress well.
Not only can the right clothes actually make you look even better to her,
but they can also show them that you take pride in your appearance.
And don’t worry, dressing well doesn’t mean you have to take on a whole new style,
In fact: It means quite the opposite.
Because half of it is just finding comfortable clothes that work for you.
To start just remember to wear clothes that fit, and avoid graphic t-shirts.
These two small changes will immediately make you more appealing to women.
6. Confidence
Even though it’s hard to pin down precisely
what it is, confidence is unquestionably one of top things
that women look for in men.
There’s just one thing to keep in mind when thinking about confidence:
And that’s that there is a pretty thin line between confidence and arrogance.
Because while confidence is far and away one of the biggest turn-ons for women,
there might be nothing that turns away women faster than arrogance.
5. Good Listening Skills
The reason listening is such an attractive
quality in a man is simple: Not only does it show a woman that you care
about what she thinks, but there’s also no way to fake it.
So if a woman sees you can listen, she knows she’s got something good.
Because just like you probably want to feel heard, valued and respected,
so does the woman you’re talking to.
Ok then, so how do you show you’re listening?
It’s simple: All you have to do is ask a thoughtful question
about something she’s said.
Because while asking questions shows that you’re actively listening,
it will likely also keep her actively attracted to you.
4. Kindness and Empathy
Pop quiz: What is it that makes women like
guys with pets?
OK sure a cute puppy can be a quick way to get some women’s attention,
But it’s likely that those women are more into the dog, than into you.
But for most women, what they really notice, when they see a guy with a happy pet,
is a caring, empathetic guy who knows how to recognize the needs of others.
Don’t have pets?
No problem, because there are countless ways to show you care:
Not only do women pay attention to things like holding the door open for others,
But they also take notice of how you treat two specific sets of people in your life:
Wait staff and your mom.
3. Willingness to Try New Things
Whether it’s your girlfriend or a girl you’re
getting to know, one of the biggest turn-ons for women is a
man with an adventurous side.
Don’t get me wrong: Dinner and a movie is a classic for a reason,
But it’s also probably something she’s done countless times.
So what’s your best bet?
Shake things up a bit: Take a spontaneous weekend trip, eat something
new, or go dancing...
Even if it’s obvious you’re stepping out of your comfort zone,
a willingness to walk on the wild side every now and then won’t go unnoticed.
2. Stability
Remember when we said the things women like
are sometimes contradictory?
Well just like women like the excitement of being adventurous,
there’s the other side of the coin that’s equally important to women:
And that’s stability.
Being able to provide a sense of stability is hugely desirable,
and a man who can provide that has always been in high-demand.
Now, that doesn’t mean you need to be rich or work all day long,
but holding a steady job and working towards long-term financial stability can go a long
way.
1. Being Yourself
It may sound cliche, but if your goal is to
attract not just any woman but one who is ultimately going to want to
really be around you...
The most attractive thing you can do is be yourself.
Now obviously, it’s important to be yourself... but what makes it so attractive?
Well, in short: You can’t be something for everybody.
Your sense of humor, sense of style or your interests aren’t always going to be a match...
But that’s OK!
Because when you find a girl who really gets you,
you’ll experience a level of attraction and real chemistry like never before.
If there’s ONE thing that’ll make almost every woman walk the other direction,
it’s being insincere or dishonest.
What makes insincerity so effective at literally repelling women?
At best you could be seen as insecure and desperate,
And at worst, you could come across as just another guy who will say anything to get a
girl.
Which is exactly why it’s so important to be your genuine self.
Those are the top 10 things women find attractive and the 1 least attractive thing.
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