Hi... I'm Adrienne Everheart and I'm a certified
love and relationship coach. Today I'm going to teach you how to talk to a
man in a way that brings his heart closer to yours... and this is also going
to help you build a deeper connection with him -- all the while really expressing
your true feelings and being authentic. Being true to yourself the best part!
This will not only improve your but you're going to feel calmer
more centered and better than you felt in a long time. So today I'm going to
share with you some top texts that most men send women and how you can respond
to them... As well as a few problem areas that can cause problems with men.
I first want to start off by telling you a little bit about me and how I got into
coaching and became a pro at talking to men both in person and over text and
email. I was once where you are right now. I was in love with a man who the
more I tried to bring him into my life the further he drifted away. You see in
college it was so easy to meet guys then when I was out of college and into my
30s things shifted and like a lot of women... I met someone and I got married!
Then also like many women, I got divorce and I split from a man I loved deeply.
Because we couldn't figure out how to make it work. :-( So when I was on boyfriend
number two - post my divorce - and I was going through yet another breakup this
is when I sought out relationship coaching and it worked so well for me I
changed my career and became a full-time love and relationship coach. I'm here
to tell you you don't have to make the same mistakes I did in love.
My ex-husband and I saw over six professionals six therapists with
multiple degrees and co-pays and we did so hoping to find help. Yet all we did
was argue more and grow further apart. I also read every
self-help book on relationships in the self-help industry...and I must have read over 100
books... but I really couldn't apply much of it to my life. Plus who really has
time to read all these books you need until you find that one book that really
works well. This is where personal coaching transformed me and it can
transform your life as well
I needed one-on-one help and something more than I could get from simply reading a book.
At first I was really nervous about investing in 1:1 coaching. I thought well, 'what if it doesn't work?'
That's one reason why as a coach I offer your first session for free because you
will see changes and feel better immediately. You see I already knew
having a loving long lasting relationship with a man was one of the
most important things I wanted in my life.
I found a way to put coaching into my life I cut down on my barre lessons and my coffee
drinks and other little luxuries I bought myself and I instead invested in
myself and into my future relationship. I look back on this time of learning
as one of the best things I've ever done for myself. So if you're ready and truly
want to have a loving long-lasting relationship -- all you have to do is email
me to get started. Now moving on how to talk to your man... These are top texts many women
received from men,... such as 'what's up' or 'what are you doing' and this text
irritates a lot of women because it is what it is...
He's dropping a line maybe only to you maybe to some other women we don't know...?
He's seeing who's going to take a bite - so I suggest you respond
with warmth - because after all this is a man you like and he's taking the time to
reach out in text to you. Now I don't believe in playing games whatsoever but
I do believe in doing what feels best for you and what will work best for the
relationship. So if your man texts you and says 'what's up' and you're doing
nothing and you're watching television I want you to instead tell him how it
feels to hear from him. For example you can reply, "It feels so good to hear
from you." Then let the man continue to direct the conversation. Now if he falls
off and has nothing else to offer I can promise you this is a trend you're going
to continue to see with this man. An inability to step up and claim you.
If he furthers the conversation and asks, so how was your day?' I want you to
find something in your day that felt good to you because most of us will
immediately tell a person our day was stressful or irritating. We connect with
people sometimes through our pain instead of connecting to
them with our happiness. Happiness and being positive, this is how you connect to
a man's heart. By answering his message with a feeling statement you will stand
out from all the other ladies he's talked to. So seek a positive moment in
your day and express what you feel in a poetic way not a robotic way.
Now here's a robotic way to respond to, "how was your day?"
"Had a great day. Got a promotion at work. How about you?"
Sounds very plain and robotic right? Again this is not going to connect you to his heart. Instead I
want you to create a feminine poetic response. This is something that will
connect to his heart. So let's say you did get a promotion or something else
positive happen today and you you want to ask yourself: :how does this feel in
my body? So an example would be saying something like... hmm I'm feeling a
tingling rush all over today because I got a promotion it feels so good to be
rewarded for all my hard work. Now can you feel the difference in that
message? So here's another one here's robotic response he can ask "how was your
day?" You say "nothing much today had lunch
with my friend Jennifer. How about you?" Now here is the feminine poetic response
the one that is beckoning your man closer,
"My tummy still feels full from my fun lunch date with my girlfriend Jennifer -- where we shared
as many laughs as we did nachos today!" So you can see how this feels different and
how it will connect to your man? You can keep it fun and light -- the point is to
have a feeling statement in your communication with your man. His ears
will go up -- his interest will get piqued -- and he will feel a warmth in his heart
that men only get when they really connect with a loving caring woman such as yourself.
A man this feels amazing... this feels like nothing else to him.
Here's the last one, to avoid an argument. Another popular problem is men are late
or they have to cancel, or he didn't complete a chore or do something he said
he would. Now if canceling dates is what he does and he does it often it's clear
this man is not respecting you or your time. There's some advanced scripting for
that and I can help you with that another time. Let's say he has to
cancel plans last minute due to work or maybe a longtime buddies popping in a
town unexpectedly. Now I want you to consider letting him off the hook and
just seeing how this feels you can say these magic words, "okay I understand."
Your man might really get quiet after you speak this because he's expecting a
storm to start coming through. So again this is going to be what sets you
apart from other women in his life. You're not saying that you love it or
you like it -- you're just saying "okay" I understand now.
I want you to remember your man is free -- we're all free even when we're married.
A man can decide to leave the relationship at any time. So controlling him and making it tight
rules only distances him from your heart. So I encourage you to
let him off the hook and let him him come to you. Now if your man doesn't take out
the trash or he didn't do what he said he was going to do I want you to try
this and say nothing. Now maybe you already do this and you go silent on him
in the form of brooding? So if you can drop the brooding and let him be free to
forget or even free to be a jerk and forget on purpose. The key is to let him
come to you about the matter. Now if he's a good guy he'll do this and we really
want him to know that it's safe for him to come to you and say, "I forgot to take
out the trash" without getting his head bit off. This is the key! So when he does
take out the trash and he does what he says he was going to do -- a powerful
feminine response is, "I feel really impressed with you! Thank for
remembering!" Now your man will shine like a diamond when you say that to him and
his heart will grow closer to yours. Now if a long-lasting relationship with a
man is what you want and what you desire -- you are already one step closer just by
watching this video. The next step is to set up a complimentary coaching session
with me and usually within a few minutes of talking to you I can find out what's
going on and help you turn it around. Now if you're not quite ready for a free
one-on-one coaching session I have a free newsletter
Visit EverheartCoaching.com or check out my best selling book "500 Ways to Speak to a Man."
Get big issues solved just with those methods alone. And this is what I do... my life was
transformed with relationship coaching and I can transform yours as well. :-)
I hope this presentation has been helpful for you and I look forward to hearing
from you soon! xoxox!