hey guys it's Tim from Success Insider here and in today's video we're gonna
be talk about how to get anything you want in your life
firstly let's talk about the mistake a lot of people make so a lot of people
with the mistake they make is the fact that they they want stuff in their life
right they want to become successful they want that dream partner the dream
girlfriend dream husband or whatever but they're still stuck in the past right
they're still worrying about what's really happened to them or this story of
the trauma they went through when it when their child or the bad parenting or
whatever okay well I'm here to say before I start or reveal any of the
steps in order for you to really move forward in your life guys and in order
for you to really start attracting exactly what it is you want in your life
you must let go of the past first right it's all about realizing that that every
single moment that every single second is a new chance for you to change your
life around again to try again every passing second of your life is a new
moment remember that and once you truly grasp that fact you realize if I made a
mistake I can change it moving forwards right it's about realizing yesterday is
in the past right today in this present moment is the
exact right time for you to take control and start living your true self right
the person you was born to be so in order for you to really get what you
what it is that you want you must make sure that you release yourself from the
past and really start living in this present moment as as I truly believe
from my previous experience with trying to reinvent my life it actually doesn't
end up meaning much about what's really happened to you
right I know it's hard going through bad parenting I know it's hard going through
some conditions right I know it's hard you know struggling to get whatever it is
you want but what I realized about life is that it doesn't matter what's
happened to you in the past but it does matter what you're going to do about it
forwards and guys I just want you to really acknowledge that today right if
you take away one thing from this video start living in the now and realize that
every new moment every passing second it's a new chance for you it's a gift
life's got for you in this limited time you have during your life before you die
every single second it's a new chance for you to step up and show life your
best self so guys with that in mind let us begin
so the first thing you must realize in order to get whatever it is you want in
your life is you need to have focus you need to ask yourself what is it exactly
that I want in my life right what really is it the more specific the better is
and on a day-to-day basis you have to basically remember what it is that you
want write on a database basis the actions you take will be based on
whatever it is that you want you need to have that mindset crystallized every day
you wake up and you know exactly why are you doing what you're about to do on
that given day right it's all based on that vision so they're more
crystallizing the more sharp more you thought about this vision of yours right
the more focused it is the better you will do in getting whatever it is in
your life right say you want to become a successful entrepreneur well the focus
has to be on entrepreneurship right you have to really have a tunnel vision
right it's not about shooting for every hoop there is it sounds so simple yet
very few people really acknowledge this and really push their life forwards and
so guys you have to be different by implementing this into your lives
second point guys is action okay the reason why you are currently at your
situation at the moment is probably down to the fact that you've not taken enough
or you've not really decided firmly that it is the right time to take action
okay the best way to usually take action when you're in this situation of
hesitation is through facing it eye to eye exactly the fear that's holding you back
and just pushing for it right realizing that the fear is always gonna be
there it's a primal programming but just pushing through just not listening to
negative voices in your mind and just taking the leap of faith and also
realizing that it's not just about you it's the bigger picture of how you're
being of you take an action it's going to impact the world right never make any
of the actions about yourself never be selfish right it's about contributing
value it's about leaving legacy on this planet not being the richest guy in the
graveyard okay guys the third point is something that many people fail to do is
basically once they take that action or once they take numerous actions they're
like I'm still not getting what I want well usually it's down to fact that
they're not analyzing the results once you take action give it some time and
constantly keep on doing it and analyze the results if you're not happy with the
results try something differently right it's about keep on striving keep on
failing keep on failing keep on failing and one day you just need that one break
through that makes it and that is what makes you right like Thomas Edison he
failed 10,000 times before he thought the light bulb right I don't know how many
failures is gonna take you but it's about analyzing the results and if
you're not happy with outcome doing something different right as Einstein
famously once said insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting
different results in order to have your life produce
different outcome guys you have to try something new so analyze your outcome if
you're not happy with it try something new try new action try something you've
never done before right that's how you get different outcome in your life and
so many people this is like so simple in their mind right but it's not about what
you know it's about what you're doing right knowing and not
doing is the same as not knowing remember that so if everything I'm saying is I oh I've
heard this before or I know it well guys if you're not taking action on it
you might as well not know it right there's no point of just listening to
these videos of being entertained you have to take action and you have to you
know really try these stuff in order to really start you know becoming a true
successful person alright self-development industry is not dead
it's just read books you know otherwise that becomes what they like to
say is shelf help not self-help terrible joke but guys always take action and
always analyze the results okay look guys the last point is basically called
commit affirmation what that is is the realization that the person that is
standing right next to you is having the same doubts
thinking the same thoughts about himself thinking the same negative emotion right
feeling that same next to emotion as you all right so it's up to you to decide
how you're gonna react to that are you gonna react to that in a positive
manner right or are you gonna react it to it in a negative manner and do
something that hinders your progress just like other people the average
people surrounding you right everyone has emotional negative thoughts in their
mind that holds them back from progressing the fear that helps their
basically pause their progress in becoming an entrepreneur or holds their
progress in trying to pick up a girl or holds their progress in becoming
healthier right so you have to decide are you the one that's gonna step up
to the platform and say yeah I've got this I'm different I'm gonna be one
that's successful if you are make sure you follow through with what you're
really committing to right affirm yourself that you can write say to
yourself I can because whenever you're in a situation when you've got doubts in
your mind and you start saying your mind I can what that does is it
programs order negative patterns the negative force and it really starts
reinforcing and affirming that you can to stop now
you know whenever your minds saying these limiting beliefs I oh I can't do
this I can't do that now shift that thinking and think to yourself I can I can do
this I've got this I will get this I want this
I I will be the best right it's about affirming your core beliefs
about firming your true self you know the person you was born to be
it's about affirming that because you have to control its negative emotion
right it's almost like a raging dog control it by affirming who you want to
be right so affirm it by saying I can do this I
can and once you start implementing that just saying those two words you'll
really start you know seeing results in life so guys is all about having the
right mentality you know getting anything that you desire in life it's
about really controlling your mind right it's about controlling your thoughts or
more specifically it's about feeding your mind with information that will
move you forwards so the videos I've shown this channel is exactly that it's
about sharing you know to you my knowledge about what I've gained in last
seven years you know through books through attending courses you know buying
tickets to very expensive events you know coaches and mentors and so forth
it's about constantly feeding yourself with empowering messages that moves your
life's forwards that allows you to gain a higher perspective on your mind and
realize that every thought on your mind is not there or you know it's not you right
every thought in your mind is not you it's about realizing that and realizing that
you can become better and you can start implementing new structure and strategic
objectives or new strategies that moves your life forwards so guys that is it for
me I hope you found this video helpful in order for you to really gain the most
from this video I would basically suggest the number one thing to take
away it's basically break free from the past
live in this present moment and realize that every passing moment is a new
opportunity for you to start again and another key is to take action always
take action because it is in the moment that you take action that your destiny
is shaped right it is in the moment so you must make sure that you always take
action on your dream no matter your fear just go for it and once you've gone for
it you know then you can start hesitating
but it'll be too late anyway your inner mind you know could can't keep up so
make sure whatever you filter fill of that fear you just do it anyway right
you just keep on going so I hope you found this video helpful guys if you
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