in this video you will learn the ten signs that your man is falling out of
love with you so if you're seeing changes in your relationship that are
bothering you or if you're concerned that your man doesn't feel the way he
used to then this is the video for you don't go anywhere because we're starting
right now
hi everyone I'm Dr. Antonio Borrello and I'm a psychologist in a relationship
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that a man doesn't love you like he did before have you heard the saying love is
blind or that someone is blinded by love it's a real thing and it refers to how
being in love affects your ability to see your partner's flaws and
shortcomings and love can also affect your judgment making it difficult to
recognize and accept the warning signs that your partner doesn't love you or
want the relationship anymore that's why I'm going to share the top 10
signs that he's falling out of love so you know what's happening and can talk
to him about it so without further ado here's number 10 he's spending more time
with his friends I'm starting to list with this one because this one is only
sometimes a bad sign sometimes spending more time with friends and family is a
sign of a healthy relationship progression see oftentimes when people
fall in love and develop new relationships they spend every waking
and sleeping moment with their new partner so much so that they are
neglecting other important relationships and responsibilities and eventually
after some time they get more comfortable with the relationship and
recognize that they need some balance and thus start spending more time with
friends and family and this is not a bad thing in fact it's a sign of adjustment
however spending more time with family and friends becomes a red flag when it
becomes imbalanced and your relationship is now being neglected so if you've been
together for some time and now suddenly he is going out with his friends every
weekend and not making time for the relationship yeah then that's a problem
number 9 failure to communicate communication is essential to all
relationships think about how you communicate it in the beginning you
engage in endless text conversations about what you're up to
you make late-night phone calls to see how his day went you find any excuse to
communicate with that person but has this stopped happening does your partner
know longer ask about your day or does he
appear to be disinterested or even annoyed by these conversations or are
either of you no longer talking about issues or communicating about things
that bother you those are huge red flags and that's
because a lack of communication or a significant decrease in the quality and
quantity of your communications can be a sign that their relationship is on its
way out or that one of you has checked out failing to communicate will leave a
big void in your relationship and cause minor problems to spiral into
unnecessary issues so if you need to know for sure
you can try going for an afternoon walk or to your favorite restaurant with no
phones or distractions and see how the conversation goes if it proves to be
difficult or if you feel like you have to pull on his teeth to get him to agree
to a conversation with no distractions well that's certainly not a good sign
number eight he's always bored does your man always complain of being bored or
that his life isn't exciting like it once was many individuals report boredom
as a telltale sign that a relationship is in trouble if your partner is feeling
bored with the relationship or with life in general it might mean that he's no
longer in the right situation think about this the opposite of love is not
hate the opposite of love is indifferent not caring at all if he doesn't care
what you do where you go or even if he sees you then he's indifferent about you
and bored with the relationship and yet that's a sign that it's time to move on
number seven changes in your sex life sex is an important foundation for a
loving relationship and in the beginning when two people are falling in love it
happens very frequently but for obvious reasons many couples are unable to keep
up that pace and that isn't necessarily a warning sign sporadic or occasional
sex is one thing going months or years without sex is quite another so changes
in the bedroom aren't always a relationship death sentence but in
combination with other factors they can mean that something isn't right
sex is much more than just physical intercourse it allows partners to be
vulnerable and emotionally open with each other it's part of the glue that
keeps couples together what I'm saying if you've noticed a
significant decrease in your sex life or motivation towards sexual relations this
signifies disconnection it may just be a temporary reaction to stress but if it's
been going on for some time it could indicate a relationship decline pay
attention if you go in a romantic weekend and are not still not having sex
or if sex has become a chore yeah then that's a serious problem number six he's
complaining about your flaws when you're in love with someone you tend to see the
good in them more readily than the bad but if he loses sight of all the
positive qualities that made you interesting it could be a sign that
things are heading south or if the things that irritate him or his pet
peeves about you are becoming more and more obvious and getting on his nerves
be aware when he starts complaining about the way you do things even though
you've always done them the same way that's the beginning and let me explain
why see when a person experiences increased sensitivity to trivial or
small stuff it's the brain trying to tell them something it has to do with
cognitive dissonance they're starting to feel disconnected and maybe that their
relationship isn't right so they stack up evidence to support and justify their
feelings of disconnection and if there are enough of those little problems and
all the dots connect that gives them justification to make the break if he
never has anything positive to say or if he's constantly speaking poorly of you
or bad-mouthing you yeah then your relationship is in trouble number five
he doesn't get affectionate or kiss you like before every couple has their own
way of expressing their affection towards one another some couples are
touchy-feely others whisper sweet nothings to each other or write each
other love notes couples do cute romantic things to let their partner
know that they feel close it's the romance that makes you feel like a
couple but when you're no longer touching affectionately or focusing on
making the other person happy then the relationship needs an emotional overhaul
if the feelings that impulses aren't there anymore for you or for him it's
definitely time to have a proper conversation now the next
forum might seem more obvious but keep watching because they're the most
important ones if any of these are happening in your relationship you
really must find out why number four you're not talking about the future or
your goals don't align when you're in a healthy relationship you and your
partner are constantly thinking about building a future together if this was
an active part of your dialogue before and now the conversation sounds more and
more short-term this is a major indicator that your minds are in
different places or if you find yourself in a relationship where your goals and
dreams don't really align then your relationship has an expiration date for
example let's say that you've always wanted children but now your partner is
not so sure well this is a deal breaker you could wait for years on end and
maybe it will work out but if your partner is crystal clear that he's not
having children don't fool yourself into thinking that he's going to change
number three he avoids going home if you and your partner lived together and yet
he is constantly looking for excuses to stay out or he's looking for excuses to
get away your relationship is in jeopardy let me give you some examples
someone taking the extra long way home or driving around the block and a few
extra times to listen to more music or making excuses to leave the house to run
errands without you again if this is happening in isolation it's probably not
a big deal but if your partner is purposefully staying out later than
usual you've got to consider the meaning behind his behavior it might mean that
your relationship has soured and you just don't want to be around each other
at all number two he refuses to go to couples therapy if things are not going
well in your relationship and you or your partner refuses to get help to fix
things this is a major indicator that things probably aren't going to work out
let's say that you've been having some problems and in disagreement for a long
time or you have tried to work things out on your own but find that you're
both stuck in your own corner well couples therapy can be very helpful
perhaps you've even suggested counseling and he does nothing or refuses to go
you've got to question why has he already check
doubt and has no desire to reconcile while you might hope that things will
change on their own his lack of interest in getting help is a clear sign that he
doesn't care before I get to the last one I have a question for you what are
some signs that you've noticed that convinced you that your relationship was
on the rocks I'd love to know some of things that you've noticed so I can
include them on another video so please take a moment and leave a comment and
let me know some important signs that I might have missed I promise to read and
answer all of them and number one your intuition is telling you that something
is wrong you know that voice inside your head that tries to tell you when
something's wrong you know it's the one that you ignore when you don't like what
it's saying well listen to it sometimes your body can pick up on changes in your
partner's feelings long before your brain acknowledges it you can sense it
in his mood or in his body language even though nothing has occurred in he hasn't
said anything think about this are you always the one reaching out making plans
making an effort and showing up if so ask yourself this question if you
stopped doing these things if you stopped initiating what would happen to
the relationship would it be over if your inner voice is telling you that
something is not right or telling you that his head or heart is somewhere else
listen and follow your intuition have a heart-to-heart conversation with him and
find out what's going on because if you don't it will only get worse and if
you've had trust issues before and can't rely on your gut instinct at the very
least use this as a starting point to look out for the other nine signs that
I've mentioned so there you have it the top ten signs that he doesn't love
you like he did before if you found this video helpful and informative please hit
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