hey what's up it's me Jessica J and I was just wondering if you've ever sat
and thought to yourself uh is there a way to like hack a woman's
mind well I'm glad you asked cuz today I'm gonna go over seven
phrases and questions where are you going that'll help you hack a woman's
mind so that you could get or hooked on you and wanting you even more and to
make sure you never miss out on another girl that you do want or another one my
videos don't forget to hit the subscribe button right here right now ah now when
I talk about hacking a woman's mind I'm basically talking about getting in there
and planting the seed of you and her together and because we women are in a
default state of being in our feelings all you really have to do is get us
feeling something for you so that we think about you and then make it our
idea to catch you and keep you so one thing I want to remind you which I
always say is that energy is contagious especially with we women since we are so
much more in tune with feeling our own emotions in a given moment we're that
much more susceptible to feeling what your emotions are in a given moment so
because your energy and your attitude are transferable in any given moment in
an interaction with a woman one thing to note is that curiosity and intrigue
beget curiosity and intrigue so the first phrase that'll get us hooked on
you is something I always talk about and my speak to spark arousal program which is
how about you so they've done a lot of studies in terms of what gets a
conversation going how to be more connected in a conversation and the
simple phrase of how about you helps connect yourself and what you're talking
about to who she is and what she can bring to
the table so for instance if you're sitting there saying yeah you know I was
just in Jersey and I like partied really fuckin hard with my family because my
family is like really fucking insane you can connect her to that moment by
saying how about you how crazy is your family and now what that does is it
forces us to now think about how we can relate to you and because of cognitive dissonance
which I talk about all the time in terms of if we get our bodies to do something
our minds and hearts will catch up if we find ourselves involuntarily
searching for ways to connect with you that automatically tells our body that
oh my God I must like really like him because I'm like trying to connect with
him so the second question is a little bit like how about you it's what's that
like again like I said earlier curiosity begets curiosity so if you feel curious
about her and what her life is like she's automatically gonna think well now
I want to know like what he's like just so say you ask her like so to what do you do
for the work girl and she says something like well I'm an accountant
at like a weed Factory I don't know if weed factories have accountants I just
ah you could say something like oh my god I never heard of that what's that like
again you can take any seemingly monotonous generalized occupation and
get her to delve deeper because we're so ingrained to have these standard responses
to standard everyday questions what you're doing is you're throwing her off
a little bit and not only showing curiosity by saying what's that like
you're also showing her that you're a little different than the other guys
she's come across now the third phrase is if that were me this is when you put
yourself in her shoes to make her think about you being in the same position she
is which will eventually lead to y'all being in some positions together one of
the things that gets us feeling comfortable around other people is
realizing how much they're like us and another thing that gets us to trust
people is to realize that they're on our side in a way so for instance maybe she
just told you about the first time she went skydiving and how she cried like a little betch
you can say something like oh my god girl if that were me I would've been crying
too we could have held each other it would have been a real tearjerker now
she's forcing herself to think about you in that memory that she had of herself
and once we start thinking about us together exactly we'll do whatever it
takes to make sure that we get you to be with us together now the fourth one is a
little bit like the second one where you say
something like oh I've never heard about that before tell me more
again this not only shows that you have curiosity as to who she is but you were
also intrigued by being taught something new about the world from her we as
humans are generally um we feel good about being able to show people
something new that they didn't realize before and when we women can do that
when we feel like we can broaden your life a little bit in that sense we're
gonna broaden our life a little bit to get you into ours so for instance maybe
she said something like I'm a dating coach for men you can say something like
what the fuck I've never heard about that before girl tell me more now here
you want to be a little careful about asking her to expand on her job as
opposed to asking her to expand on her experience which brings me to number 5
where unlike number 2 are we asked what's that like we're gonna ask what
was that like for you again we're talking about getting to know her a
little more delving deeper into her heart and soul to eventually get in deep
to her vajay so she might say something like yeah I grew up as like the middle child and
it was like really awkward sometimes you might say something like whoa I was an
only child what was it like for you growing up at the middle child again
we're getting past the niceties and past small talk and we're delving
deeper because we women want you to delve deep into us I promise you we have
pussies for a reason okay that was a little extreme but if you think about
the biology of women we were meant to be penetrated which brings me to number six
say she was like oh my god it was like really weird cuz like I felt like I had
like no friends cuz like my brother and sister hated me you could be like oh my
god girl me too you could say like that like I was alone all the time too
but that's cuz I was all I had was my crazy dog what you're doing with oh my
god me too is you're showing that you guys have a similarity and a likeness
and that you're relatable and we automatically like people who are like
us because our number one interest is exactly it's our motherfucking selves
which brings me to the very last one which is this listen for all the fucking
talking you can be doing you can also do a lot of not talking that'll get you a
lot farther then you could talking does that make sense a lot of guys are in the mind
of like I have to do something I have to do something I always have to say the
right thing sometimes saying nothing is the best thing to say or not saying many
guys will equate silence with awkward silence but really in the silence that's
when we get to feel the tension of being able to chase you just as much as you've
been chasing or talking to us that's the space where we feel the need to now get
to know you we feel that need to come after you and get to know you more but
only when you stop to shut the fuck up will we be able to feel that absolutely
necessary sexual tension to come after you so let
us feel it so we can feel your peen later this is actually one of the most
common mistakes in the 10 mistakes most guys make when it comes to women so if
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you can find out what the other nine are and those are the seven things that you
can be saying to get us hooked even more and throw our clothes off for you on the
floor thanks for watching and I'll see you guys next time