In this video, I'm going to be sharing seven things men do when they are
highly attracted to you, things they would only be doing when they really,
really want to make it work with you.
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Seven things men do when they are highly attracted.
Number one, he won't let you think he's disinterested.
I want you to imagine, you're on your way to a date with a guy you really like.
You're excited to see him, you're driving in your car on the way, and then you hit a
whole bunch of traffic, like terrible traffic, like the worst traffic you've ever had.
There's an accident up ahead.
It's terrible.
Half an hour, 45 minute delays, and then your phone dies and you can't contact
your date to tell him, how are you feeling?
You're freaking out, right?
You're freaking out cause you like, I don't want to stand the guy up.
I don't want him to think I'm disinterested.
I don't want to give him the wrong signals, cause then he might go on a date with
someone else.
It's exactly the same for men, right?
So a guy that's really attracted to you, highly attracted, he will call when he
says he's going to call, he'll show up when he sees he's going to show up.
He'll back his words with actions.
He won't give you signals that say that he's disinterested.
He won't want to risk that because he knows that you're a high value woman,
you have options and you can go and take them if he says that he's disinterested.
So men are very aware of making sure men when they're highly attracted,
are very aware of making sure that they don't give you signals of disinterest.
Number two, consistent emotional momentum, right?
So guys know that you have options, especially if the guy's highly attracted.
He's perceiving you as a high value woman.
That's what highly attracted men up to saving you as, and it means if you're a
high value woman, he's thinking that other men are going to be all over trying to
take your attention, trying to take you away from him, which means he's going to
touch base regularly.
He keeps up the emotional momentum.
He'll text you each day, or he'll touch base or he'll send you a meme.
He'll keep that fire at the front of your brain for him because he doesn't want
again you to lose interest and go to another man.
Men who are highly attracted will keep up this emotional momentum constantly,
almost daily in most cases because they don't want you wandering away to
another guy.
Now, I should add both of these first two constant emotional momentum
and him not wanting to you to think that he's disinterested, they both assume
that you are reciprocating.
They both assume that you are responding as well, that you're
being enthusiastic too, that you are giving it back.
Remember, no self-respecting man is going to keep up emotional momentum
will keep trying to prove he's interested to a woman who doesn't reciprocate it.
Number three, he takes down his walls and begins to show his vulnerability.
Now, men will do this at different rates and different speeds and this is one of
the ways to tell the narcissist love bomber from a guy who's really genuinely highly
attracted. You can tell when a guy really goes into his insecurities and really does
something or tells you something that that actually freaks him out.
That actually scares him.
If he starts to do that and he sticks around, he does that consistently.
That is a clear sign that guy highly attracted.
He wants you to bond to him.
He wants to share that vulnerability with you and he knows that if you're
sharing that deep vulnerability with him, you're probably not going to go do it with
someone else.
Men who are highly attracted will take down their walls some faster than others,
but you'll see them take it down.
You'll see it'll be a bit of a struggle for them, but they'll do it anyway because
they are highly attracted to you and want to bond to you.
Number four, he will inconvenience himself.
Men who are highly attracted will go out beyond polite to serve you, right?
Men want to serve. We love to serve.
We want to, we want to do good for you.
That's how we get a little so much about ego and self esteem.
So if you see a guy who's offering to pick you up or take you to the airport,
he's offering to do tasks around your house.
He's taking you home from the party even though it's in the opposite direction to his
house. These are all things that inconvenience himself in some
cases quite significantly.
The more a guy's willing to inconvenience himself, the more highly attracted he is
to you.
Number five, this should go without saying, but it's amazing how often we forget it.
A man who's highly attracted will prioritize and make time for you.
The truth is we all have the same number of hours in a day.
We all have the same hours, the time that we have.
You do, I do, we all do, and when a man chooses to use that time with you on a
regular basis, he's saying things like, look like, I want to see you.
I can maybe make this night available or this night.
I can see you these days.
He's making time at least once or twice a week, he's prioritizing you, that shows how
important you are in his head and it shows how attracted he is to you.
If a man's not willing to prioritize and make time, he's just not that attracted
or he's totally emotionally unavailable.
Number six, he will show you off.
When a man is highly attracted to you, he will want others to see you with him
and want to introduce you to others.
It might start with friends or he might be, he certainly wouldn't be afraid of being in
public with you.
He'd go on dates with you, be out there with you.
He wants to show off the life that you could be in and that he could build with you.
He wants other people to see that.
When a man's highly attracted, he's going to show you off.
It might not be initially to his family straight away cause that sensible man
is going to take some time with that, but eventually, it will be.
And in the meantime, he's going to show you off to all other social aspects of his life
because he's proud to have you in his life, and he wants to bring you in.
A man who's highly attracted will show you off to the people he knows and even
the people he doesn't know in his life.
Number seven, a guy who's highly attracted will jump through hoops.
What do I mean by hoops?
Hoops are things that you want him to do or you ask of him.
So it might be to reach out more throughout the week.
It might be to get him more contact. It might be to help you out with something.
It might be a relationship problem to work on.
When a guy's highly attracted and even committed to you, he's going to be more
willing to do these things because he wants to work on stuff.
Whereas if you don't know a guy, and you ask him to text you more and he
has no attraction for you, he's clearly not going to do that.
"Who are you? I'm not attracted enough."
When the guy does something, he complies with something, jumps through a hoop,
it shows that you have value in his mind because he fears the consequences of
not jumping through the hoop.
He doesn't want to say no because he might lose you.
He might not have you in his life.
It shows how much you matter that he will do the thing that you want him to do.
So the more attracted a guy is, the more willing he'll be to jump through bigger
and bigger hoops.
And again, going back to number five, even inconvenience himself because
he values you and is so attracted to you.
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