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hard work is an ingredient for success
but it's not necessarily the key to
success
if hard work made people successful
then the majority of people who live in
poverty should be the richest people in
the world if you don't live in poverty
and you feel overworked especially if
yourself employees especially if you own
a business
chances are it's unnecessary. I was chatting
with a friend earlier today and
discussing some issues i'm having
struggles i'm having in one of my
businesses i know i'm going to work
through it all I know I'm going to
replicate successes that I've had in other businesses
i know it's going to work and what I
told my friend is I've been here before and I'm
willing to work really hard to get what
I want his response was yeah but how hard
did you really have to work to get to
where you are now initially right away I
wanted to tell him about all the late
nights working in the office all the
time always on making them on saturday i
notice either work 70-hour weeks and the
cold calling and the appointments and
dealing with employees but the truth was
he was building his business which is
very similar business parallel the same
time and I was so involved he knew how
hard I work
he was calling attention
something different what he called
attention to your with all the hard work
that I had done that wasn't really
producing relevant results i worked
really hard in order to convince myself
that I was doing all that I could do I
worked really hard because I wanted to
believe that this was a pathway to being
successful i want to guarantee my
success i work hard because ever since i
was a kid i was taught me the value of
hard work
unfortunately the value of real results
wasn't as emphasized as the value of hard work
so hard work creates success right
not necessarily sometimes it requires
hard work to be successful but let's look
at it this way if success to you and
remember success is only defined by you
don't let other people define what
success is for you but let's say you
define success as making five hundred
thousand dollars a year and let's say
you would she do that but achieving that
you're working 80 hours a week you
rarely see your family you rarely see
your friends you really have leisure
time you're really stressed out over
work and you have high blood pressure
and you're overweight because you don't
have time to exercise does not release
itself that's not successfully me and
I've always loved success to you if
you're anything like me you have a
tendency to overthink things to over
work and so under work you have a
tendency to create more stress and more
problems that is necessary getting much
better at this but it is an ongoing
process and here's a lot of healthy to
help me along this pathway a lot of just
creating more work for ourselves because
we believe we need to work hard and are
to be successful but that's kind of
doing it backwards
you should work only as much as you need
in order to create
the kind of success that you want to take a
moment to think of two or three of your
greatest achievement in your life and go
over to pick one and go from start to
finish everything that took everything
that you did to leave that success take
out all the parts that weren't necessary
even if it seemed like you were supposed
to do that with relevant if someone told
you to do it it doesn't matter whatever
did not directly lead to your success
take all those parts out and then what
do you have left for me i could take out
a lot of hours spent in the office that
was after hours i could not work on
Saturdays and there was just a lot of
going to be starting on the money that
I spent because i thought like the work
that i had to spend money to make money
so i spent way too much i could then
sitting at home with my family and
recharging for the next day and could
have been a lot more productive the next
day rather than sitting in the office
catching up on paperwork which was sure
to do that I gotta pick work but it
wasn't necessary really clear on
everything that it took to create the
success of the achievement that you've
already shoot and pull out all the parts
that didn't need to be there all day
unnecessary work when you do that you
look at this and you really look at what
were the pieces that really made the
difference that made you get to that
place you want to be successful
treatment what insights and what
understanding you now have now take that
applies to your current situation those
insights those understandings working
less why that right now and how did that
change your situation right now look at
you differently in the future that
relates to where you are now you may
just find that don't need to work as
hard or as long that if you take that
happen
fine apply some more help if nothing
else applying to spend time with family
and friends and leisure activities so
that you can we charge and then you can
strengthen your connections in your
personal life
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hard work is essential ingredient but
it's not that through hard work is an
ingredient for success
hard work is an ingredient probably the
majority of people living in poverty and
if the hardest-working people with the
most successful people hard work is an
ingredient