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I am so sick of hearing people say to
other people that they fear success i
hear this in personal development and
self-help her coaches teachers say this
to people this fear success like it's
some sort of disease that you catch I've
even heard people use that as an answer
when someone asked them what keeps them
from succeeding or what keeps them from
getting what they want or what keeps
them from taking that first step to
getting what they want and they'll say
they fear success or like i fear success
as if they can blame themselves for that
and make it sound like they're so
self-aware that they studied this that
they looked into themselves that they've
been realized that it must be a fear of
success
this is not the case you don't fear
success if you work if you're one of
those people who thinks you fear success
let me ask you if I could just hand you
all of the money you could ever want and
I could just hand you a beautiful spouse
and a loving and supportive family and
unlimited travel all over the world and
house and different countries would you
really say no I don't want that if you
did it would be because you that's not
what successes but if you think of all
those things that i just mentioned as
success and you would tell me know you
don't want that because you fear success
what do you have to fear about just
getting everything that you want and
it's not true what you you you want what
you want it's not success that you fear
its change that you fear people fear
change people fear change more than
anything
people will stay in a bad situation
because they feel familiar with it and
they'll stay that such as what in that
situation for far too long even be
situations where it's harmful and they
can injure them or even get them killed
people will do outrageous things to keep
things the same and not change for many
people change is threatening and they
see that getting what they want are
succeeding as a possibility of change as
in they may have to change or you might
have to change in order to get what you
want you might change when you get what
you want and absolutely that that's part
of evolving I don't know about you but I
don't see anything scary about evolving
into a successful person who gets what
they want but unfortunately some people
think of change and they want to stay
the same
they want everything to be familiar
ensure they want all the other stuff
they want what they want but they fear
they have to change in order to get it
that they might lose loved ones i might
lose friends they might lose whatever is
important to them which in most cases if
your friends are keeping you down and a
lot of friends do that they will they
will hold you to trading and the and the
mediocrity they'll have you tread and
unfulfilled potential just like that
because they want to keep you down and
some of these friends are actually
well-meaning some of your family members
could be a well-meaning but they want
you to stay mediocre they also a lot of
times don't want you to get hurt that I
want you to take risk and they
especially don't want you to change they
want you to stay in the category
however whatever category that they've
put you in if you go news if you go and
do something different than they have to
change but all those are worried that
they have to change that category of you
so yeah if you want to go from mediocre
to successful you have to change so if
you're really scared to go after what
you want if you really scared to really
go after success and you're scared of
that
change that might come from that let me
ask you what are you protecting what
mistake could you make in the pursuit of
success that would be show bad that it
would ruin your life and ruin your kids
lives and ruin your grandkids lives and
ruin everything for an eternity its
chances of that actually happening are
so small
sure we can do things like that we can
make such incredible mistakes but
they're very hard that mistakes to make
that can have such a great impact like
that and in the pursuit of success where
you're trying to better yourself and
trying to better the quality of life for
you and your loved ones the mistakes you
might make along the way certainly
reversible believe in yourself that you
can succeed and keep believing in
yourself when you fail at something and
the truth is not really even failure
unless you quit
and sometimes you you take on an event
adventure and you get to a point where
you realize maybe it's not what you want
and you realize that you've learned
everything that you can and you're done
with it's time to move on that's not
really quitting that's learning that's a
learning process as long as you're
moving forward
you might you might need to move on to
new things
what you don't want to do is you don't
want to quit your pursuit of success you
don't want to quit your pursuit of
fulfilling your potential quitting is
giving up on being a successful person
quitting is creating imaginary problems
so that you never really have to face
your true fears and that fear is usually
a fear of change the only thing harder
than solving problems is solving
imaginary problems and the fear of
success is an imaginary problem you
don't fear success
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