uncle c, back in the office and in today's video, I'm going to be explaining how do you become
confident? Even if nobody believes in you? Okay? How do you become confident? Even if all the odds
are stacked against you? What do you do? If you have self doubt? What do you do if you struggle
with low confidence? Maybe you know, you need to get on your purpose, you need to start to
work towards the goals and aspirations that you've always wanted to however,
you just don't feel like you're good enough. If you've ever felt like that before this video is
for you. And I'm making this so that way, not only can I keep you progressing on your journey,
but we can make sure that you don't run into the negative mindsets that 99.99999% of guy's face.
So with that said, let's dive in. And quick announcement, we have about 250 seats open
inside of the masculinity blueprint for quarter two, we've enrolled over 100 Over the past week
or so. And because of that, I know that this will fill up fast. So I advise you to check out the
quick link below this video. But nevertheless, let's dive in. How do you become confident,
even if the odds are stacked against you? Well, I'm gonna, I'm gonna show you how to do this.
Okay, the first thing you have to do is you have to get into the mental mindset, the mental
framework of overcoming self doubt, okay? self doubt will consistently creep into your brain,
you're gonna think my business will fail, okay, you're going to think my relationship will fail,
you're going to think everything in your life will crumble. But here's what you do.
If you're wondering, how do you do this, you do this by stacking 1% wins. I want you to
think about anybody that you maybe idolize, okay. Anybody that you think is really cool, or anybody
who has the dream life that you've always wanted, what you're seeing is you're seeing an outside
looking in picture, you're not seeing the 1% wins that they had to stack up year after year
after year after year, because what looks like to you to be Oh, they were just born like that.
Maybe their physique was born that way. Maybe their bank account was born that way, it's not
true. In fact, with most people you are looking at their 10 year journey. The only difference is you
are looking at it from the lens from the inside out. You did not get to see that day to day grind.
1% wins out up if you let them. So how do you do this? Well, the first way is you ignore all
sloth like behavior, what a sloth like behavior. If you or any of your friends are sitting down on
the couch, playing video games, eating Doritos, watching TV watching Netflix, talking about how
you wish life was different. But you still keep doing the exact same low level behaviors that keep
you stuck month after month, you are not going to have the success you've always wanted. Why?
Because you're not putting in the day to day work that it takes to acquire these 1% wins. I hope
that this is making sense. So here's the truth. If you want to overcome self doubt, you will never
fail in life if you never quit. Just think about that for a second if you never quit at what it is
that you say you want or what it is that you claim you should be good at. If you never quit doing it,
you will only improve. So even if you have a minor setback, it's only up from here.
And if you can understand that mental mindset, that mental framework, you'll be drastically
further ahead than all of the competition in your tenure journey compared to theirs. So
how do you do this? Well, first, you have to actually admit weakness, okay, you have to admit
weakness to get tougher, nobody's born tough. Toughness is built. For some people, Toughness
is built by the outside circumstances. For some people, toughness was a built because they were
put into a really bad situation. For some people, they just could not stand being weak, whether that
be mentally or emotionally, or even in some cases physically for that matter. And because of it,
they put in the work day by day to get better. This is all you can do. Here's the cold truth,
though, some of you aren't gonna like me for this one. If you click this title,
you want to know how to be confident even if the odds are stacked against you,
even if nobody believes in you. Okay? The truth is that whether other people believe in you or not,
whether they approve of you or not, it does not have an impact on your success.
Just let that sink in. You could have a stadium of 50,000 people all cheering for you, and they could
all believe in you. But if you didn't put in that 1% wins over the course of your life, you won't
have the success that you want. And meanwhile, on the flip side of that, you could have nobody in
that stadium. But if that person still put in the day to day effort, the day to day grind and stuck
with their ambitions, even through the hardships, they will be further ahead than everybody.
So here's the truth success proves everybody wrong. Okay, these 1% wins, Snowball. And like
I said, what will happen is that your life will change and guess what from the outside looking in,
it will appear quick, can appear so quick from everybody. It appears quick to all of the by
standards, you would not believe how many people enter into this YouTube channel. They see that I
have over 200,000 subscribers and they think that this channel was an overnight success. What you're
looking at is you're actually looking at my five year work, and that's the truth. So how do you do
this? Well, you have to hone unique skills. Okay. What you're gonna see with most people is most
people are are generalists what's a generalist, they're good at just a little bit of everything.
They know how to do everything about B plus two c minus area, but they don't have a plus efforts,
and they don't have a plus successes in anything. Okay? If you take a look at me
with my skill stack, for example, the reason why I got to where I am today is because I'm a d minus
student in everything. But there was a few things that I tripled down on to become an A player out.
And these a player skills have paid dividends for years and years to come. Some of you aren't going
to like that. There's, that's cool. That's okay. I've met people were the people that
I looked them in the eyes, and they genuinely want to be generalists. They want to be good at
just a little bit of everything. They want to be, quote, unquote, well rounded. The truth, though,
is that if you don't take that period of time, where some of these areas in your life sacrifice,
right, and so you're only you're only a d minus player in some of them, in order to get to that a
plus level of ability, it's going to be very, very hard to be known for anything. And that's why down
here, on this point of the whiteboard, I put, you have to know what you actually want to be known
for. Okay, if some of you maybe, maybe you're maybe you're playing this game of your purpose,
maybe you're doing it for financial status, maybe you're doing it for financial gain, maybe you're
doing it for overall success, overall recognition, maybe you just want to have a goal and see if you
can hit it, whatever the case is, you have to know what you want to be known for. And if you don't
know what you want to be known for, you're going to be spinning your wheels moving from thing to
thing to thing, and another year will go by, and you're stuck in the exact same situation. I don't
want that to be you. So because of that I put up here, we have to actually define confidence.
See, this is this is a this is a huge, huge, huge spectrum right here, because
most people think that if they see a confident person, that they're confident at everything,
and that just could not be further from the truth. For example, on this channel,
I helped with relationships for a lot of years. Okay, I still do to this day for a lot of people,
I helped with relationships for so long. And it's because there was a period of time where I was a
d minus student in that for myself. And eventually I became an A player. Once I became an A player,
I knew how to actually teach coach, inspire and motivate millions of people to actually show them
what I was doing. And because of that, I know that I got success and I know that it worked. So
with that said, everybody has to enter into arenas that they know that they can win. Okay, this is
what confidence is confidence. Okay? If you think about the 1% wins that add up time and time again,
that confidence snowballs Kazakh confidence, snowballs, the arenas you choose to play,
are ones that you can win. So let's take Drake, Drake is a great musician, okay,
but if you probably took Drake behind the behind the wheel of an 18 Wheeler semi truck,
there's probably not a high probability that he's going to be confident doing that,
however, he's going to be confident on stage in front of 100,000 people. That's the difference.
Meanwhile, if you take a semi truck driver, he's very confident behind the wheel. But if you put
him on stage, he would not be confident you have to actually identify what area of expertise are
you playing in. So what I can tell you is Do not try to master everything at once.
In life, there's building blocks, okay? There's seasons, if you will, sometimes that season takes
you a week. Sometimes that season takes you just a few months, sometimes that season takes you years.
Okay, but overall, this journey compounds so here's what I can tell you,
if you're starting from ground zero, meaning like you don't have a lot of success in any area,
you want to look at the core three, okay, what's the core three, the core three is health,
wealth, and relationships. Now, you don't want to pick all of them at once, but you want to hone in
on one of them. And you want to triple down on it. For some of you, you want to get six pack abs,
and that would be a huge accomplishment. For some of you, you want to have your dream relationship.
Okay, other people you want to make your first $100,000 in profit in your business this month. It
depends where you're coming from, and it depends what you're playing for. But if you can pick
one of these, what I found is the more times I see a person focus on these core three in life,
not only are they much more fulfilled, but this truly is the backbone
to living like if you're healthy, you can put food on the table and you have good
relationships with people who are around you, you have now mastered the secrets to success.
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