i don't really have a specific question more like my intentions to up here to play with you
to maybe bring this conversation to where it's never been i feel like money and comes very
easily to me because i don't desire them as much but more accurately my resistance isn't as strong
they come because i don't care about them well they sort of just drop off the sky
but i mean they don't but to an outside person looking at my life when i said
so you're saying you don't worry about it would you say you just expect it to be that way
expectation views i'm thinking about it all the time but no
it doesn't expectation means that there is a desire and a belief in the same place
okay that's what an expectation is desire and belief in the same place you'd have to
be talking about it all the time but you're not talking against it either
i asked for 10 000 and you said about try to do 20 30 40 50 less i offer no effort it's just
i said i'm just going to put it out there it's going to drop so you don't offer effort because
you understand that the laws of the universe are bringing whatever you want to you are you saying
to us that you don't justify the well-being that comes through effort and hard work you're not
justifying anymore you're just expecting it to come it flows easily that's the key right there
so how do you come to expect something that hasn't manifested
so you say well money isn't coming easy to me and i'd like to be like that guy just like to expect
it but how do you expect something that hasn't been happening when you've been noticing what's
been happening what's the obvious answer you have to notice a little less what's been happening you
have to stop taking score of what is you have to find some way to put what is where it belongs
you have to put what is where it belongs in the past tense category what is no longer matters
because what is does not have to continue to be the regurgitated active vibration
what is doesn't have to be the active vibration what's wanted can be the active vibration
but what's the payoff for you what are you going to focus on in order to stay focused on
the vibrational reality rather than the manifested reality how do you get yourself to focus forward
instead of backwards how do you stop looking at what is when what is is so compelling something
else has to be equally compelling let's play with this just for a moment and then we will hear you
do you enjoy
a feeling of clarity
do you do you like to feel so clear in your mind that you know exactly what you're doing you know
when you click into that you know those moments in time when clarity is just so strong that
it feels to you like you just can't get it wrong at least not right now things are just really
clicking for you is that something worth focusing on and is it a condition or is it an uncondition
when all these words sound awkward to you but we're wanting to somehow cajole you into
not facing reality anymore your reality is the platform that you bounce off of but if you let it
be what you're giving your undivided attention to your reality will hold you apart from your motion
forward so you have to find a way to put reality where it belongs which is past tense it's old news
what's already manifested isn't where the sweet spot it is isn't where the action is
it isn't where the energy is it isn't where the fun is it isn't where the leading edge is it isn't
where the new ideas are it's the hatching of the new idea it's the experience of the new rendezvous
it's the turning the vibration into a thought it's the receiving of the thought
it's the conscious awareness that you've received a thought it's the emotional feeling
of worthiness that the thought has come and the emotional feeling of positive expectation that
that's going to amount to something and every single thing you want no matter what it is
material object state of being lover in your bed pile of money doesn't matter what it is
every single thing you want is because you believe you will feel better in the having of it
so if we can get you to just for two days just for two days say what's the feeling
that i'm reaching for what's the feeling so what did you come to talk to us about
it's sort of like a recalibration of step five embracing contrast with unconditional love it
feels like it's easier with material but when it comes to people when i put so much effort and care
into effort and caring to someone i kind of like to keep them around a little bit but then it just
seems to flow in and out but when i don't care about material i couldn't care when they come
in they go i just let them go but when it comes to people well people are the trickiest thing
of all because they've got their own opinions about what they should be doing with their lives
it's really annoying that they don't line up to serve you in the way they need to
and some of it is because they want different things than you want from
them and some of it is because they're not in control of their own vibration yet but
people are really tricky what you are best to do relative to people is just find a way of feeling
good about what you're flowing to them because if you are evaluating the conditions that they are
flowing to you you have no control of that that's a cycle that you will never work your way out of
so when you said embracing the contrast it kind of felt like
embracing the part when i'm aware that i'm being a conditional lover which means
i understand that i want to be unconditional but trying to stop the train sometimes just
it just adds momentum to the train now i want to embrace that contrast by go oh well i'm just going
to let it crash let us put just one little idea in this mix that is available to you all the time
but you haven't been receiving it so we're just going to speak it to you in a see it here smell
it taste it touch it way we're going to put it in your ear so that you can contemplate it what
if there's something that you want that's in your vortex like the mastery of creation
what if there's something in your vortex that causes you to call someone to you who misbehaves
what if in them not jumping through the conditional hoops
wouldn't it be easy if everyone would just behave and all you'd have to do is just observe
their really good behavior and you could feel good all the time
but you do not do anyone else a good service and they certainly do not do you a good service
when they work hard to keep you happy because what they're doing is manipulating conditions
which is not sustainable you found that out nine days after you got married
it's not sustainable but if someone has the audacity to not conditionally try to please you
so that you have to discover how to hook up with something that does please you apart from them
now you can in a short period of time master what true alignment is felt like the breakup in
february was worth it once i found my alignment to be in that zone of realizing from broader
perspective to see that it was worth it because now i truly understand what unconditional love is
rather than him but wouldn't it be great if how often do you say well it was awful for a while
but then after the fact i now see that that was a beneficial thing wouldn't it be nice if you could
accept that everything is a beneficial thing while it's happening because one of two things
is happening either it's bringing you clarity it's either enhancing your desire or it's in this
moment satisfying your desire it's either making your desire grow or it's fulfilling it right here
and now and we think we love you so much that you are dramatically underestimating the value
of a growing desire growing desire doesn't feel good to you if you're not good at keeping up to
speed with it because your desire is growing and you're not and your desires growing and you're not
in your desires growing and you're not and your desires growing and you're not and we promise you
your desire is growing so your desire is growing but you're focused upon a condition and your
desire is growing you're focused on a condition and your desire is growing and you're focused
on a condition and after a while the tug of war is so strong within you that you just sort of
give up and then you close the gap just a little bit sort of by default almost like accidentally
and then you just keep repeating that cycle but what if you could desire and recognize that no
it hasn't manifested but it's in the process of becoming and what if you could start looking for
the juice of it now what if you could accept that all that contrast all that step one which launch
step two what if you could accept how good that is for you so now you're that step five master you're
not condemning them you're not condemning you you're not condemning contrast you're embracing it
you're adoring it you're adoring it for the juice that it gave to your life and for the clarity that
it gave to your inner being and to your inner being who stands there knowing all of that and
to your emotional guidance system that is letting you know that you're not quite up to speed with it
and to your desire to feel good that helps you get up to speed with it and then oh the payoff comes
clarity happens in your mind a good idea happens in your mind you feel exhilarated about something
nothing has changed but you feel better anyway you are unconditionally feeling better and now you are
in charge of your world now you are the creator of your own reality now you are the conscious
deliberate creator of your own reality and then looking back you can say to your friend you know
you really gave me a run for my money but the juice that came out of that is the best thing
that ever happened to me you helped to put me in a place of desire that now i have accomplished that
i would never have achieved if it had not been for you it's almost like my inner being guided me
to this contrast for the expansion that would be there and we know you don't want to hear that
sometimes but you only don't want to hear it when you're turned away from it you do want to hear it
when you're turned toward it it feels so good to go with the flow to allow the other day esther
was at her house and it's in the mountains in the rocky mountains and it's up high and
she was up in a upper room looking out of a window and there's a very big tree that was right there
at eye level with her and she had seen a couple of hawks flying around for a few days and now one of
those hawks is in the tree and it's really kicking up a racket she can't at first understand what it
wants and she's almost the distance that she is from you and here's this bird outside her window
just calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling
calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling calling
and esther's thinking give it a rest calling calling calling calling calling calling calling
calling calling suddenly it occurred to esther that mother bird is calling her baby to her
esther always thought that they kicked them out of the nest not these birds she flew to the highest
point on this property high on a mountain and called this little bird that had never flown
anywhere ever to her and she didn't stop calling until the bird came esther thought oh she must
have been really demanding or really encouraging or absolutely certain that that bird would come
so certain that that bird would come that she did not leave her perch she did not go down
and say where have you been she did not say what's taking so long she did not say can you not hear me
she just stood there and called and called and called and called and that's what your source is
doing your source is in your vortex calling you and calling you and calling you and calling you
and calling you and calling you and when you don't answer the call that's what negative emotion is
and when you do answer the call that's what elation is that's what
invigoration is that's what enthusiasm is that's what love and appreciation are