Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st century woman create
a love life that she absolutely loves.
And in this very short video for you right now I'm going to be talking about the 5 scientifically
proven ways to be more attractive to men.
Keep watching.
Now, throughout the life of Sexy Confidence I've talked about so many freaking topics.
I've talked about inner confidence, self esteem, conversational excellence, how to have great
conversation, how to protect yourself from guys, how to open yourself up to men, how
to be more flirtatious, how to manage relationships, how to communicate with people.
But never once, not once, have I talked about what it is that men just find physically hot
in a woman.
And that's for good reason.
I really want to focus in on the things that you can control.
Right?
I'm not trying to focus on things that are just going to make you feel shitty about yourself
and be like, "Oh, well I don't have that so now I can"t find a boyfriend."
Right?
But at the end of the day, the core message of this video is for you to really focus on
improving the things that you can control.
Don't stress about the things that you can't because you can't control them.
Think about it this way, I actually read this study recently, I saw this.
Just by moving the eyes just even a few millimeters inward or outward can be the difference between
a very attractive person and a very unattractive person.
Just that one thing alone.
So, you know, just by a few millimeters that can be the difference between being attractive
and unattractive.
So my point is, like, don't allow a few millimeters to stress your entire life out, to be totally
stressed out just by those things.
Don't allow that to happen.
So instead, take the things I'm gonna talk about here, implement some of the things that
you can work on, ignore some of the things that you can't work on, and work on being
that physically attractive woman that men do want.
And at the end of the day, all of these things actually in this video, I believe all these
things, are things that you can actually change and constantly improve on.
So let's jump in the video and let's get a little superficial here.
1.
The first one is your smile.
If your teeth are yellow, whiten them.
According to a Loyola University study, they actually simulated a first date before teeth
whitening and then a first date after the teeth whitening, and the results were absolutely
astounding.
What they found is that after the teeth were whitened, there were a 54% increase in wanting
to continue the date and over a 59% increase in the date thinking that they were outgoing.
So just by having white teeth, you have a 50% greater chance of getting that second
date.
And also people, for some reason, think that you are more sociable or more outgoing.
I don't know how that works, but it's just... it's how the study found the facts.
2.
Number two is your smell.
I'll never forget a couple years ago I was out at night, I was talking to a girl, and
I came in close to her and I smelled her perfume, and it immediately brought me back to one
of my first girlfriends in middle school, Samara, which is, like, so weird.
And it brought me back to that very moment.
It's almost kind of creepy the way that smell can just immediately bring back all these
incredible emotions.
Now, of course, you don't want to smell like a guy's ex girlfriends from middle school,
but you do, you know, smell is an incredibly powerful way to attract men.
So, you know, there's a reason for this, of course.
Because smell, they're actually processed by your olfactory bulb, which really starts
inside the nose and runs inside the bottom of the brain.
And basically olfactory bulb has direct connections to the two brain areas that are strongly connection
to emotion and memory: the amygdala and the hippocampus.
So whatever you've got to do to get great perfume, to smell really great, you've got
to go out and do it.
Get a guy friend, go to Macy's, whatever, spray some perfume on you, see how it smells
with your skin and your body.
Try a few and then find one that he really likes that you really like, and then, boom,
now you're going to smell better and you're going to be more physically attractive to
men.
3.
Number three is red lipstick.
My girlfriend's nickname when I first met her was red lipstick girl because that was
the very first thing that I noticed about her was she had an incredible smile and she
had this really, really bright red lipstick on that immediately caught my eye.
There's another study that I found that they actually took a look at what men's eyes were
looking at and when they put lipstick on a woman's mouth, on her lips, they found that
a guy would look at her lips for as much as 2 to 3 times longer than if there were no
lipstick on the lips.
And your lips are a very sensual area, of course of your body, and that study was carried
out by Manchester University.
If you want to check that out we'll put a link to it at the bottom of this video.
But it's incredible being able to draw in that attention.
Putting on lipstick is something that, you know, of course there's a reason why women
have been doing this for a long time.
It's very effective and it can be obviously a great fashion statement, but also really,
you know, create an incredible response for men and making men more attracted to you.
4.
Number four is long, straight hair.
I'm sorry, but all you short haired single women out there may want to reconsider growing
your hair out.
According to Zeus, they actually did a study where they surveyed men in what actually found
to be most attractive, and they found that the sexiest hairstyle of all was down and
straight being number one with 38% response, then down and curly was the second most favored
type of hair with 33%.
And then a sophisticated kind of like up or even a simple ponytail was the final last
at 13%.
Short hair was rated the lowest and from a guy's perspective myself and from, of course,
having a lot of guy friends, I can kind of generally agree with this study that, you
know, longer hair, doesn't have to be crazy long, is definitely very attractive, very
feminine, and it's something that men are, of course, very physically drawn to.
5.
And finally, number five, is wearing some type of red on your clothing.
Now, I've been talking about wearing red for a long time, at least in a lot of my premium
courses.
And it really does catch the eye of men.
Now, most studies out there will tell you that, you know, it's not going to necessarily
make you more attractive to men.
Right?
If a guy is not physically attracted to you it's not like wearing red is suddenly going
to be like, boom.
You're now... he's now even more attracted to you.
But it does, if he's already attracted to you, it does even get his attention even more
and it does... you know, we biologically are attracted to rosy cheeks and, you know, red
is something that really triggers attraction to men.
So by wearing red it's not only going to get his attention but it's also going to trigger
some kind of key components of our biology.
And so the old cartoons where you see a woman wearing red, they definitely ring true with
many of the studies out there.
So there you have it, those are the 5 key things that you can do to kind of work on
your physical attraction with men.
And I want to throw in a bonus tip, which is, at the end of the day, the most important
part of being physically attractive is taking care of yourself, taking care of your body,
eating healthy, non processed foods.
It's going to make your skin better, it's going to make your hair stronger, it's going
to make it... it's going to give you a glow that you really can't fabricate in any other
way with makeup or anything like that.
So it's all about what you put into your body.
Your body is truly a temple.
And, of course, don't do it for men, don't do it to attract men.
Do it for yourself because that's how you can live a healthy, energized life.
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