Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Welcome back to the
Talking To Girls 101 series where I'm putting out a lot of information on how
to have great conversation with girls and get them attracted to you.
This is some basic stuff but still good reminders for people. If you want to
take it to the more advanced level and get to that next level, check out my program
called Hooked. I'm going to put a link in the description below
along with some other links related to this topic of talking to girls.
In this episode we're gonna be talking about how to talk forever, how to
continue conversation. I know this is a big one; a lot of guys have problems with
this so I'll give you some good tips today and some homework you can do
that is super powerful when trying to continue a conversation and the best
part about it is you can use this stuff to talk to anyone. This is not just
pertaining to girls but anything in your life,
talking to friends, making new friends, networking, trying to impress your boss.
Whatever it is, this is going to help. Let's get into it. Here's the basic idea and if
you've been with me for many years you know I talk about this all the time,
but this is basically it. This is conversation. Conversation is always broken up into two
parts. Part one over here which is asking questions and part B is
making statements. It doesn't matter which one comes first but that's
what conversation is on your end and the other person's end. Meaning you are
always either asking a question or making a statement
depending on what the topic is whatever it's about. That's what you're doing.
That's what you have to recognize here. You have to have an awareness that this
is what conversation is all about so then you can tap into that and be able
to continue it. Most people think or at least you're not thinking about it,
you're doing this. A lot of guys will go into conversation with a girl or
anyone and just ask questions. That's all they'll do because they don't know what
else to say and they're just used to asking questions and that's the easy
thing. Ask questions, let them talk. But then it becomes a one-sided conversation
and makes it hard to attract a girl or get anyone interested in you because they
don't get to know you. The goal really is to balance out questions and
statements throughout the conversations so it continues. Here's the awareness
part; you need to be aware that throughout the
conversation, try to make as many statements as possible. Try to inject a
story where it relates when something comes up in conversation but really
practice what I call active listening. You need to listen to the person that
you're talking to so then you can listen to what they're saying and from whatever
topic that they're talking about, you can go ahead and then move forward with a
statement or a question. Probably a statement so again they get to know you.
Here's an example: a couple of videos ago I talked about the topics of
conversation that women love. One of them was the topic of signs.
Your astrological sign Aries, Leo, Pisces, all that good stuff. If you're talking to
a girl and you do ask a question, you ask her what's your sign and she says oh I'm
a Leo, you have two options at this point. You can say oh what's a Leo like
or what are the what are the traits of a Leo or are your friends Leos?
Or whatever it is. Instead you can say a statement instead of asking a
question. What I would do is say oh wow a Leo, I know nothing about a Leo.
But let me guess, a Leo is probably very fierce. You can just make it up on
the spot or maybe you actually do know what a Leo is like. Yhen you say oh I
know what a Leo is like. You're like this and you're like this and you like to do
these things and etc etc. The whole point here is you're taking it and
instead of asking a question, you're making a statement to continue and then getting
her to ask a question or a statement from what you're saying. At the
end of the day, if they're not talking then you got to ask a question
to make sure it continues and that's what you're left with at
that point but that's the last straw. Asking the question if she
doesn't add more to the conversation. That's how we're tying all these in
together which is why you should be watching all these different episodes
and talking to girls because if you're doing the topics of conversation that she
likes to talk about, it's going to be easier for her to continue talking about that
topic because she's interested in it. Plus if you have something somewhat
interesting to say and no it doesn't have to be mind-blowing but if you have a statement
that you have to say about something, that gives her ammo to be able to
continue and ask you a question if it's something that she wants to continue
talking about. I'm going to put another video down
below in the description about curiosity. I talk about this on my channel and in
my program Hooked about bringing out your curious side. This really helps
when you're in conversation. When you're curious about someone, you actually want
to know about who they are and why they do what they do and what their life is
like, try to access that part because that helps continue the
conversation. I know that contradicts what I said before. Tripp I thought you said
don't try to ask a lot of questions. Well you don't but at least you're going to be
asking more interesting questions when you're more curious about what it is
that they're doing with their life or what they like or whatever it is that
you guys are on a topic of conversation about. Here's a great example of that
that could be relevant to let's say if you're at a bar. I'm not saying copy this
question although you can use it if you want to. This is the type of
questions you should be thinking about when you're getting
curious with a girl. What if you said something like what is it about
drinking tequila that people love? Tequila seems to be so popular. What is
it about tequila you think people love so much? That's just a curious
question and that's not necessarily even about her. That's just about any kind of
topic that's going on or something on your mind or something that kind of
sparks interest as you're talking to her and as someone's walking by with
a tequila shot. What is it about tequila that people like so much?
And you're asking her. This is the type of question and curiosity that you
can be asking and I will be doing another video completely on questions so
we'll dive even deeper into that. I have some homework for you that I wrote down in
my phone here and I'll be telling you how you can practice this and be
really good at conversation. A lot of guys they don't they don't have a lot
of practice talking and making statements. They're just really used to
asking questions so here's your homework. Pick a topic, any topic you want, even a
topic that you really like to talk about, anything that you're interested in,
anything that you're doing. Talk about it in the mirror for five minutes. Take your
phone, put a timer on for five minutes and talk about it and do not stop talking
about it until the five minutes is over. This is going to be hard but if you do
this everyday for a month this is going to train you to talk and talk
and talk without having a lull in conversation and have someone
or have the conversation just go completely dead
you have to sit there and ask another question. Do that as homework and
report back and tell us in the comments what it's like. Here's some extra
homework for you. I know this video is getting kind of long at this point but
here's some extra homework. This is really cool. I think you're going to like
this. Make a habit of reading the news or even going to the site reddit.
Reddit.com. Go there and there is a ton of interesting stuff on
there. Everything; there's news on there, any topic that you might
be interested in, there's a subreddit on there or they just have the most top up
voted posts of the day or the week or of all time and start reading that stuff.
Take 20 minutes a day and just go through all those things. This is going to
give you a knowledge base in your head so you're going to have more things that
you're going to want to talk about when you are with a girl. You're going to have a
lot of things that you're going to be more curious about. Things that you can bring
up. Very powerful stuff. If you do that homework, both homeworks for the next 30
days, your conversation will definitely get to the next level. Go and do that.
Don't forget to also check out the Hooked program in the description below that
takes all this to an even deeper level and I'll see you on the next video.