I have a confession to make I don't care
if you get rich nobody does what is the
one secret to being rich I'm going to
share with you how you can become a
millionaire by age 25. so in this video
I wanted to tell you guys exactly step
by step how I became a millionaire at 23
years old the seven skills you need to
master if you want to become rich I
can't promise you by the way that you'll
become a millionaire but I can promise
you this I will share with you exactly
steps one of the most reliable ways to
make a lot of money is to pretend you
are already rich and then convince
people you have the secret to financial
success a secret you will sell them for
a price if all goes well you can use the
money to actually fund a lavish
lifestyle and keep the grift going as
more people want to figure out how you
did it you can probably all think of
some particularly bad grifters who blur
the line between being outright scammers
but the best way to avoid falling for
their trap is to realize that they don't
care if you get rich that doesn't just
go for the hustle Bros pitching related
eCommerce course it goes for almost
everybody that you will ever interact
with on the internet in public and in
your professional career none of your
favorite content creators even know who
you are and they certainly don't care if
you make 300 a day at home in 2023 they
only care if you click on their latest
video or read their books
even I don't care if you get rich I try
to be very honest with you my viewers
because I believe it is a good long-term
business decision I want you all to
think I'm a reliable source of
information so that you all come back
back every week to watch my videos
so why am I telling you this because it
could cost you a lot of money without
even realizing it but since I don't care
about that it's really because it's an
interesting and important lesson that I
think you will value enough to subscribe
to my channel and maybe even buy the I
don't care if you get rich hoodie a
parasocial relationship is what happens
when person a knows a lot about person B
but person B doesn't even know person a
exists these one-sided relationships
have existed for a long time between
celebrities and their audiences but have
become a lot more common as Internet
influencers share every last detail
about their personal lives with their
viewers the twitch streamer Ludwig made
a video titled I am not your friend that
brought attention to the problems these
relationships can cause in a video that
I am obviously copying off of here
because he missed an important detail a
lot of week you saved my life
no I didn't save your life what do you
mean I saved your life I've been playing
Pokemon pair of social relationships are
unhealthy but they become damaging when
the people on the other side of those
relationships start talking to their
audience about their finances but if you
remember that nobody cares if you get
rich it can save you from making three
major Financial mistakes beyond the
obvious of falling for a fake Guru scam
mistake number one that people make when
believing that they care about their
financial well-being is being over
informed about their personal finances
Good Financial advice is simple and
boring but hard to follow saving
consistently for 40 years requires
discipline and it's understandable that
people would be interested in anything
that could speed up the process of
getting ahead financially personal
finance creators are in the business of
telling people what they want to hear by
telling Their audience tips and tricks
to save more money earn additional
income or generate higher investment
returns saving more money is simply not
possible for a lot of people and the
budgeting advice they provide is
normally broadly appealing but
insufficient to change their viewers
well-being earning additional income is
another other popular topic that sounds
harmless but just certainly wasting
people's precious free time that could
be spent with friends or family or just
doing overtime at their regular day job
for more money side hustles are an
attractive topic to Young viewers who
want to earn some extra money and that's
why YouTube is filled with multiple
videos telling you how you can make 300
a day from home in 2023 most side
hustles are demonstratively bad ideas
that are exposed by asking yourself two
questions can you make more dollars in
an hour doing some overtime or picking
up a second job if you can't make more
money per hour at your job then why
aren't you making your side hustle your
main hustle a side hustle will most
likely just waste your time and money
and if you are being honest with
yourself you were never going to do it
anyway but the creators got a lot of
views and they don't care if you get
rich so they are going to keep on making
them getting a constant stream of
information from people who have made it
their career to get you to listen to
them talk about personal finance every
week can also leave your head in a spin
look long enough at the video thumbnails
from someone like Andre Nick meet Kevin
Graham Stefan or financial education
Jeremy and you are going to develop
anxiety about whatever investing
strategy you have created for yourself
holding off on investing or pulling out
of positions can cost you a lot in the
long term a University of North Carolina
study found that people that paid less
attention to financial news and spent
less time learning about the markets
actually invested better because their
decisions weren't being influenced by
Outlets trying to grab their attention
and that's just reason one so it's time
to learn how many Works to find out why
you should constantly remind yourself
that nobody cares if you get rich this
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reminding yourself that nobody cares if
you get rich can also put you ahead
financially in your career the age of
company loyalty is over and I try to
repeat as much as I can that people who
stick with their employers for longer
than two years earn on average fifty
percent less than people who switch jobs
more frequently companies have a
financial incentive to pay you as little
as possible and a lot of businesses find
that a good substitute for a competitive
salary is promising their employees
Career Development if they stay with the
company they do not care if you get rich
and the best way for you to develop your
career is to move between jobs to gain
experience and contacts in lots of
different companies Landing a more
senior position is easier when switching
to a new company than it is waiting for
your current boss to leave their
position open for you to move up outside
hires also need to be paid on average 18
more than internal hires if you are
getting a promotion at your current
company the hiring manager can use your
current salary as an anchor to base your
new salary off a manager hiring for a
new role won't know your salary and even
if they ask you can and should just lie
a study by Cornell and the University of
Minnesota found that internal hires were
consistently the highest performers in
organizations and were more likely to
stay with a company Long Term regardless
of the occupation industry or country a
survey by Glassdoor also found that the
average company spends 4129 dollars to
fill the typical open position the
conclusion is obvious companies should
value existing employees more but they
don't because they know on average
taking advantage of their existing
workers is still slightly cheaper than
paying them competitively because most
of them won't leave they don't care if
you get rich you can also think of the
findings in the Cornell study another
way employees that are hired internally
are more likely to perform well and
remain with the company Long Term while
demanding lower overall compensation
another way to think of this is that if
you are an average or below average
worker the best way to maximize your
overall compensation would be to not
remain with the company Long Term
defining that good employees stay with
the company for longer than two years is
going to be skewed by survivorship bias
bad employees are more likely to get
fired or laid off before reaching two
years with company so they won't get
counted with the group of loyal
employees if you can be honest enough
with yourself to acknowledge that you
are not the best worker it's even more
important for you to change jobs
frequently Because by the time that your
manager realizes that your projects are
behind schedule and your mistakes have
been piling up in the background you
will already be on to your next job they
don't care if you get rich and the only
thing that you should care about once
you have a better job offer is if they
will give you a good reference
influencers don't care if you get rich
they just want you to consume their
content your employers don't want you to
get rich they just want you to work hard
and not ask for a pay raise and most
importantly nobody else in the world
cares if you get rich either one of the
fastest ways that people lose large
chunks of money after they have made it
is by showing off their wealth flexing
is expensive and lifestyle inflation is
real the only people that really care if
you are rich are those who are
financially dependent on you this can be
people that you are happy to share your
wealth with like family and close
friends but it can also be people that
want to take advantage of someone
showing off that they are a lucrative
Target wealthy people become targets for
sales people lawsuits long-lost family
members begging for money and scammers
if you want to avoid this mistake go and
watch my video about the hidden
Brilliance of stealth wealth to find out
how the smartest rich people in the
world use their money to solve problems
instead of creating more of them a
special thanks again to Bright sellers
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yes it worked you guys it actually
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whole act they keep giving and giving
until we have it on dude I am so
disillusioned right now