the guy who's once clearly into you is now showing little interest perhaps even
told you his feelings have changed how can you get him to like you again
hey ladies even North here thanks for popping by in this video I want to talk
about something that most of us have experienced and that's what to do when
the man who was once into you is no longer romantically interested as you
probably know that feeling isn't a pleasant one and if you're into him you
may find yourself desperate to make him want you again
of course showing this desperation is never a good idea
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whether it's an ex a crush or someone you were casually seeing when the spark
fades between you and your love interest it can feel like all hope is lost the
good news is that this is most definitely not the case in fact because
you held his heart at one point in time to do so again is that much easier the
truth is oftentimes people don't realize what they have until it's gone and just
because he's not feeling the vibe the two of you are sharing right now it
doesn't mean that he won't start to miss you and develop those romantic feelings
towards you again if you play your cards right think about it for a minute
there's likely been a point in your life where you found yourself questioning
your feelings or debating if breaking things off so-and-so was a good idea
even though it probably was otherwise you might be with them right now you had
your share of doubts once the reality of the situation kicked
in and you started to miss what is two of you shared well ladies that's what's
going to happen with your latest loss too but again only if you play your
cards right allow me to explain if you make it known to the guy who's no longer
interested in you that you devastated about
change of heart or desperate to agree ignite his feelings towards you then
he's not going to suddenly like you again actually the opposite is likely to
happen and that's he'll be glad you got away if you're thinking well that's not
me or I'm not acting desperate then it's important to rethink your actions and
behaviors ask yourself if you've been blasting off sad messages meant to make
them feel guilty about losing feelings or if you're unintentionally giving them
the cold shoulder or subtly showing that you're not impressed with him think
about whether or not you've been shooting them dirty looks or giving them
the sad puppy-dog eyes all these actions big or small let him know that you're
upset about the situation this is tricky because yes on one hand you want them to
know that you're upset about what's happened and in a way it makes sense
that you would need to do this if you're hoping to get him back but what most
women don't realize is that men and women are so different when it comes to
breakups and rebuilding attraction for starters women are more likely to get
back together with a man if they feel bad for him or worried about its
well-being or loneliness I'm not saying this is the right thing to do but rather
up the reality is that our emotions play a huge role when deciding whether or not
to get back together with someone men on the other hand can't be guilted into
taking you back and even if it does work for you and you do manage to win him
over it's only a matter of time until he realizes that he's been dumped into it
and again calls it quits really this will only get you right back to where
you are right now the difference being that trying a third time to stir up
romantic feelings will be much tougher than the situation you're currently in
so then if you can't give them puppy-dog eyes haslam flee bargains or some nasty
looks how can you get a guy to like you again well believe it or not the number
one thing you can do to make a man develop romantic feelings for you again
is to act like you don't care that he's changed his mind about you now before
you freak out about how this sounds like the worst idea ever hear me out guys
like having the work woman over which is why if you act like him changing his
mind about you doesn't bother you then it's going to introduce an entire new
challenge for him not to mention that acting on face will also make him wonder
why you seem so I'm bothered by the situation
he may even question if he's made a huge mistake and if you were the one you were
the best he'll ever have I mean if he was that great
you'd be upset about his change of heart but since you're not maybe you were the
catch that got away believe me ladies this is a great way to
reverse roles and get him chasing you again this all sounds great and I know I
said you should act like you don't care that he's changed his feelings towards
you but that doesn't mean you get to just sit around and wait for him to come
back that's not going to work instead there are some key things you need to do
to really turn up the heat and make him feel overwhelmed with desire for you
don't get beat up by the fact that he's had a lapse in his feelings but instead
use this time to remind him why you fell for you in the first place when you
think about yourself envision a strong independent happy woman ready to take on
the world this mindset may be a bit tough to
tackle at first but believe me practice makes perfect and this really does work
there are loads of other things you can do to help boost your confidence too for
instance makes smiling a part of your daily outfit and stand tall with your
head high since it's tough to feel down when your body is speaking so positively
you'll find it much easier to adopt a pleasant positive mindset or if you're
looking for some more concrete ideas you can leave yourself post-it notes around
your house with your favorite inspirational quotes or revamp your
wardrobe so you feel like a million bucks every morning when you get dressed
when extra sneaky confidence booster that I love is wearing sexy lingerie
sure no one's going to see it but just knowing what you have tucked under your
outfit will make you feel like a seductive vixen give it a try and you'll
see exactly what I mean if you're interested in learning more foolproof
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description below alright so once you've started thinking positively and are
feeling confident the next thing you're going to want to do to get the guy into
you again is to keep yourself busy since there's a good chance that he expects
you to be down and out by the situation by behaving in a way that shows him that
you're still busy and loving life well he's going to first off be surprised but
he loves to be a bit jealous and he's not it on the fun since you don't want
to be communicating with him on a constant basis right now after all
you're too busy for that you can use social media interview
friends to relay the same message for instance by posting attractive photos of
you and your friends having a good time together or checking into hot spots
around town on Facebook he will see that you're not sitting around wishing he was
still into you but instead you're happily moved on in a cool flying solo
this can be helpful for making him realize what he's missing now I
mentioned mutual friends here because they can be great for sharing stories
subtly of course with the guy you're into for instance let's say that you
went to a killer party on the weekend if a mutual friend of the two of you
casually relays the message that you had a blast dancing the night away together
and he's going to wish that he was a part of your epic night out and again be
reminded how much fun you are to be around now you may be wondering why you
can't just tell them this yourself and the reason for it is because you want to
give them some space right now depending on your situation how much space do you
give them well vary for example if you work with this guy then you're still
going to be around from on a regular basis in which case you'll want to limit
your communication to work topics to start at least however if this man is
someone you know from elsewhere then cutting down communication will be much
easier for you a question I get asked by women often is when he just forget about
me if I give him space after he's changed his feelings the simple answer
is no see giving him some time and space to himself may seem counterproductive
but in reality it will give him the chance to miss having you in his life
and before you know it he'll be reaching out to you again this is why it's
important that you keep busy and focus on yourself
yes rubbing it in their life it's fabulous will work for stirring up
feelings in him but this won't work at all if you're not genuinely keeping
yourself busy meaning if your thoughts are solely
about him and your focus is on getting him back then her efforts to seem busy
aren't going to work and as I mentioned earlier if he picks up on your
desperation and realizes that you're faking your fabulous life
well you're ruining your chances of getting him to like you again instead of
risking this keep busy with friends find new hobbies and honestly enjoy yourself
this will prevent you from overthinking and obsessing both of which are
dangerous paths to go down in the midst of your newfound busy life make sure
that you look good on a regular basis this means putting in the extra little
bit of time to comb your hair and your clothes look clean and smell fresh
you don't have to go over the top with stilettos and miniskirts in fact it
would be weird if you suddenly did and you would realize pretty quickly that
you were grasping for his attention but instead looking well-groomed and
presented will take you far since this man has had feelings for you in the past
he may have shared with you some of his personal favorites of yours for instance
maybe he shared that he loved seeing you in son dresses or perhaps high-waisted
jeans or his thing if you're lucky enough to know these favorites of his
then use this information to your advantage and wear something you know he
likes like most tips on this list though you'll want to be careful not to overdo
it in exclusive Billy wears favorites because it only be a matter of time
until he realizes what's actually going on once you've made it known that you're
happily living your busy life you're looking good and you're feeling positive
you will get to the point where you become comfortable chatting with him
again around the same time you'll want to reintroduce flirting into your
conversations the best way to do this is to start small ask how his weekend was
smile when you see him make eye contact when he talks to you and laugh at his
jokes tell him some exciting stories when he asks what you've been up to and
do your best to radiate happiness once you master how to lose positivity and
playfulness you'll have him inching closer to you just be sure to avoid
going from 0 to 100 when it comes to giving him attention if you've been
keeping some distance lately then don't make him the center of your world once
you're back to chatting regularly it's fine to hint that you're interested but
if you cross that fine line between interest and obsessed you'll end up
sending out a needy vibe which will most likely repel him once you are chatting
more frequently you may try to stir up his romantic feelings for you but we're
calling something fun the two of you experienced together in the past for
instance maybe it was a night out on the town together a mutual friends party you
both attended or a nice home-cooked dinner you shared of course don't go
overboard and jump right into sexual experiences but instead remind him of
times that you know meant something to him of course if you want to steadily
bring up a sexual memory you can just be sure it's not at the heart of your story
for instance let's say the two of you first got together after a steamy night
at a Blues bar instead of talking about the sexual interaction you shared simply
talk about the blues bar when you do make sure you talk through
the memory and as much detail as possible this will allow him to mentally
picture the scenario and the more vividly he can do so the better chance
that he'll keeps thinking deeper into it and alas end up at the sex scene again
be careful not to overdo it because you don't want to give the impression that
you're trying to win back his affection another easy way to introduce flirting
is by complimenting him since all guys love to be told that they look good make
a point to acknowledge his physical appearance you'll be amazed by how great
of an impact simply telling him that he looks nice or commenting on his shirt
will have on him a nice feelings towards you once you put all of these tips to
use it will only be a matter of time until you've won back his feelings and
from there on out you'll be on your way to a happy healthy relevant relationship
just be sure that at the heart of all your actions is your genuine positivity
if you're faking it or holding on to the hope of winning back as a section before
being happy again then you will have a much tougher time than if you really
feel your own happiness before I wrap up this video though I do want to share
with you three pointers that are out of the mouths of men since this advice is
straight from the guys you will most definitely want to take note some of
these ideas we've already discussed but hearing it from men may help to hit home
the most important pointers the first tip is if you make it obvious that
you're intentionally trying to make them chase you or when you back you'll
realize it since guys don't like feeling manipulated this will do you no good
when it comes to winning his affections instead you need to play it cool the
second tip is that a woman who puts up a wall around herself won't get a man to
chase her we already talked a bit about cutting back on communication while in
your quest to win him over but this doesn't mean you should completely block
them out or make yourself seem unapproachable the key here is balance
you want to give him space but you don't want to make him feel like you're
intentionally ignoring him he needs to know that there is hope to win you over
and that he won't be rejected if he does approach you and the last tip for men is
to stay sane this is perhaps the toughest tip to pop follow especially
when you're feeling smitten with someone or a longing for things to be how they
once were however guys know when you'll bend over
backwards for them and it's a huge turnoff
don't seem desperate and again play it cool well
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