Britney Spears and Sam Asghari have announced their engagement and we are all very happy
for her, because it seems that after 13 years of grueling conservatorship, there's a light
at the end of the tunnel.
She looks really happy for that, and fans are absolutely ecstatic to see her like this,
feeling joy and excitement for what the future brings.
But there's a not so small part of her fans that have serious doubts about Asghari's true
intentions.
The problem is that their interactions on Instagram, that is the only channel we have
to more or less know how she's doing, are very limited.
Ever since I published my other videos on Britney's case, I've gotten requests to have
a look at him, and since they announced their engagement, well, it has become an urgent
matter.
In this video I'll present my current impressions on this case, that it's still an ongoing investigation
so I'm open and grateful for any other clues, suggestions or resources that you post in
the comments.
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Let's get down to it!
Let's do a quick recap of all the reasons some fans think Sam Asghari's intentions are
not the best.
First, we got those claims from Morgan Osman when she posted pictures kissing him, claiming
that he was cheating on Britney with her:
“I don’t know why everyone is attacking me; Sam Asghari is the cheater.
I feel sorry for Britney Spears, she seems like a good person...
I have video and images of our REAL relationship.
Britney, he is using you.”
And Asghari never denied any of this.
There's also this update from Britney's instagram, “Fall in love with taking care of yourself:
mind, body, spirit.”, when she was going for mental health treatment.
He captioned it, “It isn’t weakness, It’s a sign of absolute strength, people should
only be inspired by this, at least I am #stronger”
He presents it like Britney went to this facility by her own decision, and after her court hearing
statement, we know that this was not the case.
That she was forced to do it, so this update is very suspicious of him.
Or that time when they were working out and you can read his lips saying "smile", and
Britney smiling on that cue... well, let's say that her face before that, was not the
greatest display of joy.
There's also concern about that picture where he is supposedly grabbing her by the neck,
but I'm going to give this photo a pass because the hand looks more like he was presenting
her face and now he's putting his hand away.
Either way, it's a bit of a controlling gesture, like the one he actually did to Morgan Osman
in her deleted video.
Besides, his apparent relationship with Mario Lopez.
They shared an Instagram update and we already know that Lopez doesn't have Britney's interests
in high regard, since AFTER her statement that she would like to sue her own family,
Lopez publicly said:
“I know her, and her father, and the family, and the management and all that — she’s
got a lot of good people around her,”
That's just not true.
And what's more, Asghari did not react to that.
Did not say anything about it.
Sure, most probably Asghari must have been forced to sign a non disclosure agreement
even before seeing Britney for the first time... but for Lopez' remarks, he could have said
"I think Mario doesn't know what he's talking about".
but there was no response at all.
Another factor that I find off is timing.
This is a time that Britney must be feeling more vulnerable than ever.
For example, Matthew Rosengart, her new attorney, surely informed her of her fathers "INTENTION"
of stepping down.
The problem is with the wording of that so-called intention.
According to documents filed in court by Jamie Spears's attorneys,
“Mr. Spears continues to serve dutifully, and he should not be suspended or removed,
and certainly not based on false allegations.
Mr. Spears is willing to step down when the time is right, but the transition needs to
be orderly and include a resolution of matters pending before the court.”
So, basically this is just buying time, and saying that Britney's statements are false
allegations.
This situation must be really stressful for her, because it 'looks like' we're seeing
the light at the end of the tunnel, but it's not.
So Asghari making this proposal at this moment is... strange, to say the least, almost cruel,
because for Britney to get married she must have approval from the conservatorship.
And she is not getting that approval unless Jamie steps down, and we know that he is buying
as much time as possible, and we don't know how long this legal battle can take.
By the way, Asghari letting himself being photographed looking at diamond rings in the
past weeks... it's also odd.
Why didn't he try to be more private about that?
You know that people will be taking pictures of you everywhere, so why expose your proposal
intentions like this?
That's a bit of narcissism in there, or being sloppy, as a minimum.
But the thing that really caught my attention was this statement made by Britney in her
June court hearing.
"Ma’am, I didn’t know I could petition the conservatorship to end it.
I’m sorry for my ignorance, but I honestly didn’t know that.
"
Now, we already know that her former lawyer, Sam Ingham did not have her best interests
in mind, because, in her own words...
"My lawyer, Sam (Ingham), has been very scared for me to go forward because he’s saying
if I speak up, I’m being overworked in that facility of that rehab place, that rehab place
will sue me.
He told me I should keep it to myself."
So imagine that your lawyer is telling you to shut up and keep being overworked, and
stressed, and imprisoned, and crying all the time.
That's cute.
But it gets worse:
"I’ve grown with a personal relationship with Sam, my lawyer (...) we’ve kind of
built a relationship but I haven’t really had the opportunity by my own self to actually
handpick my own lawyer by myself.
And I would like to be able to do that."
So Britney already felt that Ingham was not quite the best attorney for her, even if they
had been building a closer relationship.
Again, all this in her own words.
But it seems that he was trying to build that relationship so she could listen to his "advice",
that, well, you already know that it was "just shut up, girl".
Now, what does all this have to do with Sam Asghari?
Well, I'm going to ask you to do a very easy exercise.
Think of that person you love.
The person that you want to marry, or want to spend the rest of your life with.
The person that you want to have babies with.
Ready?
good.
Now imagine that your loved one is legally imprisoned in a conservatorship that forces
them to work, that forces them to take medications they don't need, that forces them into therapies
that are making their life miserable while giving a public image to the world that pictures
them as dumb or even crazy.
Don't you think there was the slightest possibility that even if you signed a non disclosure agreement,
you would find the way to seek legal advice on your own to find out how can you break
them free from that prison?
And if Asghari had looked legal advice, any conservatorship attorney would have asked,
in less than five minutes, "Hey... has she ever considered conTESting the conservatorship?"
So Asghari would have told her, and, of course, Ingham would have said that it was a bad idea,
and such and such.
But then in the hearing, Britney's statement would have been quite different.
She would have said something like "I knew that I could contest the conservatorship but
my lawyer always discouraged me from doing so".
But she said that she didn't know.
So it seems that Asghari did not even bother to make a Google search on that.
Don't tell me that it doesn't look suspicious.
Because this is a fact: WE MEN ARE CONQUERORS.
we have leveled whole cities, built and destroyed empires, wiped out entire civilizations, all
to secure our supply of w.a.p. and i don't mean waffles and pancakes.
All to protect our women.
And you’re telling me that it never crossed your mind about talking to lawyers on how
to undo that conservatorship?
That doesn't fit.
That’s not how testosterone works.
The other option is that you are Zoolander-level dumb, or... you're not that interested.
#3
This conservatorship is airtight with the people allowed to interact with Britney, and
those responsible are constantly gaslighting her.
- She stated expressly that instead of a therapist going to her home, a move that would be more
convenient for her, and she's got the money to pay it, they force her to go to another
site where she is stalked by papparazzis.
- She was not allowed to have any self care.
Nails, hair, massages...
I know that this could sound trivial, but if you're basically imprisoned inside your
home, this is something that slowly eats up your self image.
- This people can go publicly and they are allowed to say whatever they want in interviews,
and present her as defenseless and dumb.
Just remember my video analysis on her brother.
It was sickening.
So, according to HER OWN WORDS, she has been progressively gaslighted into submission and
depression.
And it's not only the "conservatorship management".
It's her whole family.
If they are so controlling about every aspect of her life and they have been gaslighting
her with constant jabs to her mental health and monitoring each and every one of her interactions
with the outside wourld, do you think they're going to risk having loose ends about that?
I insist: those loose ends could mean criminal charges for them.
And just for the record, I still don't think she has any control of her instagram account,
and unless she does a live there, and speaks for herself, I'm going to keep that stance.
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