hey you my name is Marnie and from here on out I'm going to be very own personal
wing girl and it's my job to give you the no BS honest truth about what women
want versus what they say they want and I put
up new videos every Tuesday so please keep an eye out and if you can subscribe
to my videos hit the bell whatever it is they need to do to hit the bell so that
you can be notified as soon as my videos get posted so I got an email yesterday
from one of my email coaching clients who I'll referred to as S & S wrote me
two emails in the span of like 16 hours one email telling me all about the
results he's been getting with women and that women on the streets a randomly
finding ways to approach him and start conversations with him since he's been
working with me it's that you feel really great and I was happy for him
needless to say that has never happened to s in the past so he is on cloud nine
but then s sent another email sixteen hours later telling me this hey
Marnie might as well record the good the bad
and the ugly the good was yesterday's email and here's the ugly after feeling
on cloud nine yesterday I woke up this morning feeling super meaty it stems
from my feelings for that girl that I told you about my challenge is to not
reach out to her although I want to what do I do
I know that something like this has happened to you before you let a
negative situation with women or with that one woman take over your brain and
squash all the positives in your life trust me I do it too and it's awful you
feel needy and hopeless and powerless like you have no control over yourself
in the situation in this video I am going to tell you how you can quickly
regain that control and power so that you never appear needy with women again
by using this one simple tool whether she's not texting you back avoiding your
date and advice or just plain flaking on you this tool will ensure you don't
respond to her in any way and turn her off forever so keep watching
the truth is that situations like the one I just described probably happen a
Huba time and not just with women the tool I'm going to share with you will
help with those times as well so here is the tool and what I wrote back to ask
yes I totally get it trust me I felt exactly the same way as
you and I know it doesn't help for me to say this but in life you're gonna have
ups and you're gonna have downs sound like my father
I wanted to share a tool I use when I have moments like this it's a tool that
I've actually stolen from my amazing friend and self-help coaches Sean
Stephenson who sadly passed away a couple of months ago but luckily I get
to keep his memory alive by sharing his awesome tool with you if you knew Sean
he'd probably make some smartass joke about me sharing this but that's what
made him even more amazing so a little background on Sean Sean was born with
brittle bone disease and was not meant to live past the first few days of his
life literally every day of his life up until age 38 was a gift for everyone on
this planet because he worked his butt off to make everyone else enjoy like the
way he did he was three feet tall in a wheelchair and could not do anything on
his own or most things on his own without assistance when he was younger
and we he would get down on his life and a hand that he had been dealt his mother
did the most amazing thing for him she would march in to the room that he was
an intern on an egg timer to 30 minutes and say he loved every right to be angry
frustrated mad and sad I want you to feel those things hit the wall being the
force screamed to the heavens whatever you need to do do it as loud as you want
but when you hear that ding it's over you package it up and you spend your
energy and focus on something you can do rather than things you can't and this
was one of the first lessons he ever passed on to me and now I'm gonna pass
it on to you so grieve be needy stop that girl on instagram but only for 30
minutes let out all the frustration and anger
they even bottling up inside of you and get it out of you and then when the
dinger goes off put that focus onto something that you can do when you feel
meaty it's because you have handed over all that power and control this
somebody else usually to a woman who doesn't even want that power or that
control you start to forget that you can get that control back whenever you want
it it's right there for you to grab all these emotions clouded it just takes a
little self coaching to get you there this tool helps you get all of the
jitters and emotions out that you typically try to control and not let out
and once they're out of your system you could actually see clearly and move
forward in a calm cool and confident way then you can rationally decide how you'd
like to proceed rather than impulsively acting on your
emotions so s I want you to grab that egg timer and let it all out in a way
that feels good for you well not thirty minutes and it's time to
move to a new direction go to the gym read a book get out of the house and see
friends do something for you that has nothing to do with that girl and if you
need something else to squash that neediness with her and I have something
for you if you have been frustrated with trying to decode what women want then I
can help I've put together a free 45 minute video that I know will put a
smile on your face because in that 45 minutes it will all become crystal clear
and the frustrations or a lack of confidence you've had with women will
disappear once you've watched it I know that you were going to be eager to put
my suggestions to work immediately it's click the link below in the
description box or go to wing girl method dot com and it will take you to my
website just click on watch the video now enter your email and you will be
taken immediately to a page to watch the free 45 minute video that's what you can
do to distract yourself remember finding the right girl doesn't have to be hard
when you understand what women really want so let me be your wing girl go to
wing girl method dot com to watch the video now and I'll see you next week