Hello, my wonderful friend.
Let's talk about how to get out of the friend zone.
Specifically, five secrets to charm her fast!
Have you ever been in the friend zone, or are you maybe in the friend zone right now?
That is not where you want to be, right?
It feels terrible when you have feelings for someone, but they just don't
feel the same way about you.
You feel awkward and weird, but you don't know what to do.
Does that sound familiar?
You are in the right place.
What you learn in this video is going to help you know how to turn that around fast, so
you can instead get out of the friend zone and attract and charm her quickly.
The best part is none of these secrets have anything to do with mind games or tricks because
that's a good way to ruin everything very quickly.
So make sure you stay with me until the end of this video, because each secret is very
critical.
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My name is Melanie.
I'm a Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
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Even if sometimes you wonder if maybe it's not even possible.
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Now speaking of how to get out of the friend zone, I'm going to mention two other videos
that are also going to help you so much.
So make sure if you haven't yet seen this one and this one, give them a watch as well.
I'll put links to both in the description below.
Okay, the friend zone.
Not a fun place to be.
And I have to be completely honest with you.
I'm not willing to lie to you just to get views.
Sometimes you can get out of the friend zone.
Totally.
Sometimes you can't, no matter what anybody says.
This is why it really is so important to learn how to attract women the correct way before
you're ever in this situation, so you just avoid the friend zone altogether.
However, with that being said, if you are going to get out of the friend zone, which
like I mentioned is completely possible, then this is how you're going to have to do it.
This leads us to tip number one.
Stop acting like you're just a friend.
Have you ever heard that women want to marry their best friend?
This is very true.
But how can you be her best friend without being in the friend zone?
She absolutely wants to marry her best friend.
She wants to marry someone that you have inside jokes together and you know things about her
and she knows things about you.
You share what's most important to you with each other.
You are very, very close.
That's a healthy, fun, amazing relationship.
However, she also needs to be attracted to you in a romantic way.
There's a big difference between someone who you're just friends with and someone who is
your best friend and lights your heart on fire.
And when you have those two things, you're best friends and you totally have that attraction
going on, that's how you have an amazing relationship.
So if you do not act like a potential boyfriend or a potential lifelong relationship, she's
only going to see you as just a friend.
To a large extent, we teach people how to treat us.
And so if you're acting like just a friend, she's going to see you as just a friend because
she thinks that's what you want to be.
So now you're probably thinking, "Okay, Melanie, that makes sense.
But how in the world do I do that?
How in the world do I act like a potential boyfriend without being weird or creepy?"
Well, there are several ways to do this, and I'm going to share very briefly some of the
strategies I teach in Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
These strategies are what help you attract a woman in a way that makes her go, "Whoa,
I want a relationship with him," instead of, "Hey, we're just friends."
Some of those strategies are pursuing her correctly.
And I don't mean creeping her out.
I mean, pursuing her correctly.
In addition to that, reading her body language signs of interest.
Often a guy is in a friend zone just because she thinks he's not interested and he thinks
she's not interested.
When in reality, she's totally interested.
So it's very important to be able to read if she is interested or not by her body language.
You also need to understand how to use your body language to be even more attractive to
her, to appear more confident, and really help her go, "Wow, that guy's cute."
You also want to show her what an attractive man you are by how you dress and how you present
yourself.
These things may seem simple, but they are insanely powerful and very critical.
Bottom line, if you want to get out of the friend zone, you need to stop acting like
just a friend and instead create that romantic attraction.
Tip number two for how to get out of the friend zone is to act confident and masculine instead
of needy.
Acting needy is one of the fastest ways to end up in the friend zone.
And it absolutely ruins attraction.
It is definitely not something you want to be doing.
So this kind of leads to the question, "Okay, what makes you needy?
Why do people feel needy?"
And there are a couple of reasons why.
First, something that makes people needy is when they just don't know what to do.
You start to feel kind of desperate when you know the kind of relationship you want, you
want to treat her right, you're trying so hard to attract her, but you have no idea
how to light that spark.
And this kind of makes you feel desperate.
You get a little panicky and you start to act needy.
This is why, again, it's so important to just learn how to attract women correctly, so that
you don't have to feel needy because the truth is you deserve to feel confident and masculine
instead.
So the first thing that'll make you needy is not knowing what you're doing.
The second thing is it's very important that you're creating and maintaining the habits
that make you a confident person.
You can't be needy and confident at the same time.
It's just not going to happen.
So if you're building that confidence, you don't have to worry about needy.
And let me just say, women are so attracted to confident men.
Confident people in general just make everybody feel better when they're around them.
And it's a very, very attractive trait.
So at this point, what do you do?
You need to learn the correct way to attract women, and you need to learn the habits that
make you feel confident and masculine.
These are things I teach you how to do in detail in Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
You would not believe how effective these strategies have been for so many men.
And I would love to share them with you too, because I honestly believe every amazing man
deserves an amazing woman.
And that includes you.
You just need a guide, someone to show you how so that it's very, very simple and straightforward.
Because let's be honest here, guessing what works is incredibly frustrating.
There's tons of room for error.
It's really hard on the heart.
Thankfully, you don't have to go it alone.
I'm here to guide you through it.
To learn more about what I teach, why it works, how it works, make sure you watch my free
masterclass.
You're going to learn three secrets there to attract the loving, lasting relationship
that you want and that you deserve.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
There is also a link in the description below.
Make sure you watch that free training before it's gone for good.
Are you in the friend zone a lot?
Are you tired of it?
Are you tired of feeling like you have no idea what you're doing?
Make sure you watch it today.
My next tip for how to get out of the friend zone is to focus more on flirting than on
complimenting.
Now, yes, complementing is definitely part of flirting as long as it's done correctly.
One of the big mistakes that a lot of men make that ends them up in the friend zone
is over complimenting.
When you compliment too much, you end up putting her on a pedestal above you.
And she doesn't want to be on a pedestal, she wants a partner.
She wants someone side by side.
She doesn't want someone below her.
So if you're overdoing the compliments, you're putting her on that pedestal, and it's not
going to make her more attracted to you.
In addition to that, just the fact that you're complimenting her does not mean by default
that you are flirting with her.
Anyone can give anyone a compliment at any time and it not be remotely flirtatious.
For instance, an example would be, if you say, "Hey, you're so smart."
I mean, you could say that to someone you're flirting with, but at the same time, you could
just be telling her she's smart.
But if, instead you say, "Wow, you look amazing in that color," or, "Wow, you look great in
that dress."
Oh, now she knows that you're attracted to her, that you noticed her.
So it's very important that you understand the correct way to flirt instead of just relying
on compliments because compliments alone will not create that attraction.
It can put you in the friend zone.
And I totally get it.
Flirting can be a little bit scary if you don't know what you're doing.
And this is why in Attracting Lasting Love Academy I teach you in-depth how to flirt
correctly to really light that spark and make dating very, very exciting.
Quick question before we get to our next tip.
Are you enjoying this video?
It's been a while since I did a video on the friend zone.
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Our next tip for how to get out of the friend zone is to make sure you ask her out instead
of just hang out.
I mentioned earlier that we teach people how to treat us.
And so if you're just kind of always hanging out, then she's thinkin, "Oh, he just wants
to hang out.
He's not interested in me romantically.
We're just friends."
It's very important that you pursue her.
That's one of the best ways to increase a woman's attraction for you, and to let her
know your intentions, that you're interested in her romantically instead of just thinks
she's fun to hang out with.
So rather than just hanging out with her or joining the group that she's with or just
kind of hanging out with the whole group, it's important that you actually ask her out.
Okay, my next tip for how to get out of the friend zone is to set boundaries and show
self-respect.
She is not going to be attracted to a doormat.
People struggle spending time with people who don't set boundaries, who don't show self-respect
because it's stressful to be around them.
However, someone who does set boundaries, someone who does show self-respect, that kind
of person is very enjoyable to be around.
And that kind of man makes a woman a lot more safe when she's around you.
This is part of why confidence and having a healthy self-esteem is so important.
A lot of people think that nice guys don't win.
When in reality, it's the guys who show no self-respect and no inner strength, those
guys are the guys who don't win.
Let me just say, if you're watching this video right now, you have what it takes to get the
girl of your dreams.
You just need to know how to show her that you are the man of her dreams.
So if this is something you're struggling with a lot, it's a sign that you need to learn
how to show that to her.
As I mentioned before, you did not have to do this alone.
I have a proven or roadmap that teaches you step-by-step how to attract that lasting,
loving relationship.
I'll walk you through it step-by-step so that you don't have to feel overwhelmed and defeated.
So, let me ask you, would you like my help with that?
Would you like to have the answers upfront?
Make sure you watch that free masterclass because that's where you're going to learn
about these secrets, about my academy, and about how you can get started today.
So just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
Make sure you act now so that you don't miss out on this opportunity because it is going
away.
Again, coachmelannie.com/masterclass or there is a link in the description below.
There you have it, my friend, five ways to get out of the friend zone and instead charm
her.
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Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day!
[blooper beep] Okay, I think I'm ready.
Let's do this.
So note to self, there are zippers on the sleeves of this jacket.
They're really cute, but don't get over-animated with my hands.
It's not going to happen, but I'm going to try.
[laughter] Just talking to myself.
No big deal.
That's what you do when there's always a camera on you.
[laughter]