And it feels a little wrong, feels a little right!
Hey guys welcome back to my channel it is your girl Dutchy and welcome to yet another
episode of topics of taboo.
Today's topic revolves around bisexuality but this time in a different way.
I'm going to try my best to explain how to know if you're bisexual or gay, i'm going
to be discussing a couple of different terms and yeah try my best to help you guys if you're
in a situation where you're like, I dunno, a little bit curious, don't really know what's
going on!
So yeah.
Now if you're watching this video, you might be feeling a little confused, a little bit
worried, a little bit different.
If so, chill, sit back, relax, watch this video and i'm going to try my best to make
you guys feel a lot better about what's going on cause honestly it is fine!
Now this video is going to be very broad um just specific feelings that you could be having
to try and like help you figure out if you're bi or not but it's not going to be like personal
or anything.
Just letting you guys know i'm also planning on doing a bisexual Q&A in the next couple
of days so if you have any questions for me, any at all, leave them down in the comments
below OR alternatively slide into my dms on instagram this is my handle (@megandijkman)
and I will answer all of your questions in the coming weeks in a bisexual q&a video!
Without further adieu, let's get into the video!
SO you're probably watching this video for one of three reasons: 1) you're a little bit
confused and you wanna know if you're bi, 2) you're just a loyal subscriber, you love
me and you watch my videos or 3) you're interested in just the whole phenomenon of being bisexual.
If you are number one then sit back and relax, it's all g I understand.
I know figuring out your sexuality can be scary trust me, i've been there but it can
also be really exciting.
Before I get into the nitty-gritty of this video, i'd just like to say that there is
no rush, there is actually no deadline for you figuring out your sexuality.
Just go at your own pace, things will figure themselves out.
Also, before we get into this video i'm not trying to preach that labels are something
that is necessary because I do not believe that in any sense.
I mean labels are there for a reason and for people who are confident within themselves
and want to give themselves a label they option is there, but then I also believe that you
could know, whole-heartedly, 100% confidently who you are and still not want to give yourself
a label because sexuality is so fluid.
I 100% support that too.
Labels are not necessary, you don't have to label yourself, I am just saying that if you
want to you can, if you don't want to, you don't have to, seriously labels are just a
name, you can be who you want to be just do you!
Alright, NOW lets get into the video!
Goodness me!
So, how do you know if you're bi or gay?
Alright, let's just say you've been feeling some things, feeling some feels, for a close
friend of the same sex.
And it feels a little wrong, it feels a little right, its cool, I get it, i've been there!
But I also understand sometimes it is really difficult to distinguish between friend feelings
and a crush.
So I guess that's really the first step and this one can be a really hard one that can
take some time but once again as I mentioned previously there is no deadline for this one.
But the first step is definitely figuring out whether this thing you have for a friend
is purely just your love for a friend or something a little bit more.
Another reason to be questioning your sexuality may be that you haven't been feeling sort
of any feelings for the opposite sex and this is a perfectly valid reason to be questioning
your sexuality and thinking you might be bi or you might be gay but this also doesn't
mean that at all, it might just mean that you haven't found the right one yet or you
just haven't got to a level yet where you feel the need or where you feel attracted
to anyone else.Also, you might not be feeling any romantic or sexual feelings that you feel
like you should be feeling and if this is the case, you may be asexual and that is totally
cool!
I'll leave a link in the description for you guys cause i'm not all that educated on being
asexual however I do know someone who is very educated on the topic and i've left the link
to that video below so you guys can go check that out if you'd like some information on
that one!
And finally, maybe you are attracted to the opposite sex but you're a little bit curious
about the same sex if you know what I mean.
About kissing them, holding their hand and a little more if you know what I mean!
So basically what I want you guys to get out of this video is if you are experiencing any
of the things that I have just mentioned or a variety of different things that you might
be questioning your sexuality for, don't dismiss that fact that you might be bisexual.
Bisexuality is a thing, it is real, it is me.
Don't listen to those people that say you need to pick a side, you either like males
or females, you can't like both, you can do whatever the fuck you want obviously it's
your feelings that you're feeling and i'm feeling them and I understand!
Quite frankly, you can do whatever the fuck you want and it's not going to affect them.
You can be a little bisexual or a lot bisexual, a little gay or a lot gay.
As long as you're doing you, it's all good!
Also and what I mean by you can be a little bi or a lot bi is the fact that sexuality
is on such a large spectrum so honestly and that's the thing with labels, they exist for
people who are 100% confident within themselves and like they know who they are and they want
to give themselves a label but then there are also people that are the same and don't
want to give themselves a label, it is completely subjective, it is completely up to you!
But yeah, if you are experiencing any of those things, little bit y'know, wondering then
you might be bi!
If you have any questions or you want to talk to someone you can always come and talk to
me.
You can message me through twitter or instagram, i'll put all my social media up right now,
go follow me because I am going to be doing a giveaway shortly and you don't want to miss
out on that one.
Like this video if you found it informative and subscribe to my channel if you haven't
already, I upload 3 times a week on a Monday, Wednesday & Friday!
Wednesday's are vlogs, Mondays and Fridays are topics of taboo (#tot) and I will see
you on Wednesday in my next vlog!
Bye!