The clitoris - the mysterious little "button" with amazing powers to make women orgasm. What is it?
How does it work? And what you need to know in order to blow your woman's mind? Keep watching
till the end to find out! My name is Helena Nista and I make videos that help you have the best sex
of your life. And today, we're exploring all the secrets of the clitoris. The sad truth is that a
lot of people, including women, don't actually know that much about the clitoris. Even many
medical practitioners are not fully aware of its full structure and importance in female sexuality.
But if you truly want to arouse, pleasure and satisfy your woman well, you absolutely
need to know all you can about the clit. So let's start with the basics: what actually is it. It is
a structure in a woman's genital area, a body of tissue composed of nerves and blood vessels. Most
people are familiar with its external part also known as the glans of the clitoris. That part can
be found at the top section of the vulva, above the vaginal opening where the inner lips meet. But
there's much more to the clit than that external pea-sized structure. The entire clit is about 9cm
long and it extends deep into a woman's body. Its shape can be compared to a wishbone with the legs
of the clitoris surrounding the vaginal canal on both sides. Let's look at that external part of
the clitoris first. It's extremely important that you know where it's located in your lady's body
and how to touch it. This is because the clitoral glans alone has a lot of nerve endings. So many
in fact that touching it directly can be painful to her. This is why foreplay, teasing and warming
her up is so important. But the hotter and more aroused she gets the more intense and direct touch
she'll enjoy. In fact, it's best to ask your lady what her clit likes and how it should be touched.
Because she is the best authority on that. Each clit is different and unique so if your lady is
not sure how to direct you, she'll need to do some self-exploration first with her own fingers. The
clitoral hood is a piece of skin that covers the clitoral glans partially or completely. It can
be pulled back with your thumb if she desires a more intense or more direct touch, while you're
stimulating her with your tongue, with your fingers, with your penis or with anything else.
The clitoral legs are located internally inside of her body so you won't be able to see them or touch
them directly. But they are also important to her pleasure! When she's lying down, the clitoral legs
are placed vertically and they wrap around the canal of her vagina. This means that when you're
penetrating her, you're in fact stimulating the clitoral legs through her vaginal walls.
And the G-Spot, that very sensitive area located on the upper wall of her vagina? That's the area
that's adjacent to the back of the clitoris which explains its sensitivity and its ability to give
her pleasure. Many men speak of female orgasms as complicated, hard to achieve or even elusive.
But most ladies can bring themselves to a climax within minutes and quite reliably by rubbing their
clit with their fingers. And in fact, for a huge majority of women clitoral touch and stimulation
is necessary to achieving orgasm. Men who watch a lot of porn tend to think that women should orgasm
from penetration, from the penis thrusting inside of the vagina. But that's not correct for over 90%
of women. Because while the internal stimulation is definitely pleasurable, arousing and fun,
it just typically hasn't got the ability to bring her all the way to orgasm. And so what that means
is that you also need to stimulate her clit. The best way to touch and stroke the clitoris is an
individual thing and it will depend on the lady. The exact spots to touch, the pressure to apply,
the kind of strokes to use... All of that is important and you need to experiment, explore and
communicate about that with your lady. And if you'd like some truly solid and ecstatic ideas
to use and play with, make sure to check out my online course for men How To Pleasure Her.
It will provide you with amazing tips, tools and techniques to absolutely blow her mind
using your hands, your penis, your tongue and the rest of your body. You'll find the link to
the course in the description bar below. It's also important to know that many women find the
vibrations on their clits extremely arousing and pleasurable. And this is particularly important
if your female partner struggles to orgasm for whatever reason. The vibrators can provide the
exact kind of stimulation that she needs and desires in order to climax. And don't worry,
her sex toy will never be able to replace you in her bedroom. Think of it more as a tool,
as your friend and helper in giving your woman even more pleasure and more orgasms. And here's a
video with some more tips on using the vibrator on her body so make sure to watch it after this one.
So no, female orgasms are not complicated, hard or elusive. But you do need to know her body and you
absolutely need to include her clitoris in your erotic fun together. And whether your lady orgasms
easily and abundantly or rarely ever, the more you know about her clitoris the better off both of you
will be. Her - because she'll have better orgasms and you - because you'll know what to do exactly
to take her there. So please, please do invest in your sexual education, watch more of my videos,
keep exploring her clitoris and keep asking her questions about it. And if you're truly committed
to her orgasms and her sexual satisfaction, make sure to enrol in my online course How To Pleasure
Her. It will teach you all you need to know about her body and all of her erogenous zones in order
to take her to the most ecstatic pleasure and orgasmic states of bliss. You'll find the link
to the course in the description bar below. And if this video was helpful please leave me a 'Like'
and a comment below: when did you first learn about the clitoris? I love to read your comments
and I always respond to them personally. Thank you so much for watching and for expanding your erotic
knowledge and your sexual skills. Quality sexual education is crucial for your sexual satisfaction
together and it will keep paying off forever. Have a magical day and I'll see you next time!