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WOMAN: (SINGING) Funny I'll say.
Give me back
Got to loosen you up.
You look nervous.
A little bit.
Hey, listen.
I got you.
You're in good hands, like Allstate.
OK.
We'll see if I'm in good hands.
Your energy is like so high.
It's like, damn.
Just taking it all in.
Jacoby is nice on the eyes.
He's dressed really well.
How are you-- how you like looking up a little bit higher?
Oh.
That was cute when you said that.
I was like oh, you came with the joke.
That was cute.
I am pretty impressed with Jacoby's confidence.
I love a guy that can make me laugh.
So it feels good and I know I have a man at home
that I want to make just a little jealous.
After I shook your ex's hand--
Your ex-- oh, that's cute.
You got jokes.
You turned around, I was like--
JOYA: You're cute, I like it.
Spicy margarita, that's you.
It's a pretty long relationship.
Whose idea was this?
Do you see this finger right here?
It is empty.
I don't-- I don't have the commitment, the ring,
a husband, a marriage.
I don't have that yet.
I heard a girl tell my ex, until he gives you a ring,
you're technically still single.
It's true.
Wow.
It's true.
Technically, I am.
I live by a 3P, a 3P rule.
As a man, I should be providing, protecting, and procreating.
So--
Love it.
Real competition is up to the plate now.
I can control myself in the right setting.
But if she gives the right type of sign, any hint, any look,
twinkle in the eye, I feel like I might hit a home
and knock this out the park, man.
Before I was extremely ashy, thank
you for my moisturized skin.
Let me see. Let me see.
- I'm super moisturized. - Oh, you're good.
JACOBY: Yeah.
- You do have nice-- - Look at.
Nice hands.
JACOBY: Look at the nails.
Speaking of which, when you grab my hand out there,
I was like oh my God.
You said--
Your hands were trembling.
Your hands were trembling when I grabbed your hand.
J grabs my hand.
I'm only comfortable with him.
This is very uncomfortable for me
to have another man trying to grab my hand.
And I get flustered, because I'm like torn between being
on a natural date with someone and being
in this process being on a date with someone
while I have a man at home.
When I first walked in, my expectation
was definitely superseded.
I was like oh, wow.
I wowed you.
JACOBY: Wowed me.
I got the wow.
[LAUGHING]
What is your idea of intimacy with the woman?
I'm an aggressor.
If it boils down to sex, what excites me is situational sex.
It sounds crazy.
I start having a fetish for talking
to women with boyfriends. - Damn.
JACOBY: I want you. - For real?
Now is, I've outgrown that.
I had to seek a little bit of therapy.
Good for you.
I also know that I'm top tier when it comes to the bedroom,
too.
So--
Well, let me ask you this.
What is your idea of intimacy outside of sex?
That's a category I'm still fine tuning,
something I'm working towards.
Maybe you can teach me.
I don't know if I can teach you.
But I can tell you these things about--
Tell me, teach me.
Tomato, toh-mah-to.
Semantics.
--about intimacy.
I can make love to a man just by how I look in his eyes.
I don't have to ever touch you to touch you.
Mm.
See the difference?
It's how I talk to you.
It's how I flirt with.
It's my body language.
Mm. JOYA: You feel me?
I feel you.
All of that is intimacy without being in the bedroom.
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