Hey empaths. I know you got this incredible gift and I don't want you get
it taken advantage of. So, we're going to talk to you today about what you can do
to be able to build trust instead of being mistreated.
So, I'd like to talk to the empaths right now for a moment because I don't want
you to get taken advantage of in you exercising this gift that you have to be
in tune to your surroundings and to be in tune to people. You could get taken
advantage of if you're not aware of what people do to you. And so, I want to point
out for you what this looks like so that you can be conscious and aware
and be able to protect yourself because the common public does not understand an
advanced way of being able to be in tune and being able to interpret your
surroundings. You and I both know you know, as an empath, you have an additional
ability to be in tune where most people because of poor diet and over doing it
on sugar and starches and the junk food that they eat, their brain has become
numb and less on a lower schedule, lower level of functioning. And so, because of
poor eating habits, poor sleeping habits and literally poor language habits, there
are a lot of people who are numb and they literally have lower levels of mind
functions. And so, as an empath, you're going to stand out. You're going to stand out
because you are more sensitive to your surroundings. You have more input coming
in than most people. And so you're more aware and sensitive to the things that
are going on. And so you're going to stand out because of what you understand. Now,
because there are more people who have you know, let's say there's one empath
out of every hundred people, that means you've got 99 people who are going to look
at you like you're the weirdo. Like you're the weirdo because you're so
sensitive. And because you sense and feel things.
And you can feel negative energy. And you can feel positive energy when you walk
into a room where you can sense where people's feelings are and you can sense
how people think and feel. The 99 people are going to think you're the weirdo.
So, one of the ways I want to make sure that you are not taking advantage of its
because 99 people are going to try to define who you are and they're going to
call you names and they're going to mock you. Because you are so in tune. And
they're the ones with the numb brains. I mean we all see the fast-food
restaurants popping up everywhere. We see the long lines of the fast food and all
this fast food eating disrupts their ability to be able to even understand.
And so, you have 99 people to your one who is going to take advantage of you by
literally over talking your thoughts and even try to even talk you out of what it
is that you know. And what is that you understand. And so to protect yourself,
you're one out of 100. You are one out of 100. And well done on taking
care of yourself. And really, right now I'm going to tell you to get better
sleep. More sleep and you eat a little bit more healthy. Your gift is going to
improve. It's going to improve and good thing you're around because your skills
and ability actually help people, help society not completely crumble. Because
of their lack ability of and you know, being being aware and conscious of
what's going on in this world. Another way that you could be taken advantage of
is that you could be told by 99 people that what you're thinking and how you
sense things is wrong. Like it's too much. "Oh, you're too sensitive.
Oh, you're too intuned. You shouldn't dabble in other people's lives."
Well, empaths, we're not out there to tell people to do. We're here to help solve
problems. That's what we are. We're here to help solve problems to the
people who were interested in solving their problems. Now, you need to be super
careful because if you're crossing the line and just walking up to people and
trying to fix people and they weren't looking for it, you got yourself in
trouble on that one. Be super careful that the way in which you sense and feel
your surroundings that it stays a way to be able to help you be in a better place.
And then when somebody is asking for help, then you can use this to be able to
help them. Because you're way more in tune to how they feel then they are in
tune with themselves because of their eating and sleeping bad habits. Next, who
to trust? You know as an empath, who do you go out to who do you reach to to be
able to listen to? Who are you trusting? And you probably you get really close to
your friends and then they probably mock you a little bit and tease you a little
bit. Or maybe it's your spouse. And your spouse kind of tease you a little
bit. You know, sometimes in an empath, you're going to feel like you're completely
alone. And whenever somebody feels like they're alone, they tend to be a little
needy. You know like they need a friend or they need someone to talk to and
that's where you can get taken advantage of, is you can find this new friend and
they're all super nice to you until they get to know you and your and your
strangeness about who you are. Just be careful that when you are around new
people, that as you go to share thoughts and
feelings, speak normal language. People don't understand energy fields and
chakras and they don't understand you know, the coming and going of light
and dark. They don't understand life force. They don't understand these
kinds of words and this terminology. And you don't have to use that language.
You can actually use normal everyday language to be able to communicate with
people. And so what I'm suggesting to you so that you don't get taken advantage of
and mistreated is to not put out weird language. You don't need to use the
odd language that most people don't understand. Remember, there's 99
to your one. I know you're trying to think, "Well, I'm going to help 99 people
understand me." You don't. You don't. There's 99
people. That's the majority. So, we can fit in as empaths with society and not be
mistreated. We can fit in and we can help. And we can help people solve problems
but we need to be careful of how we explain things. Remember who you're
speaking to and the level of understanding that they have. When an
empath gets mistreated or misunderstood, I know what it feels like because you
feel like, "Well, I'm not going to share anymore. I'm not going to even care
anymore." And you will shut down this gift. And this gift is for you to help you be
safe. And when you shut down the gift, now you don't feel safe. You feel like you
can't contribute. You feel like you're nothing, you're worthless.
And then you go down that spiral. You know what I'm talking about.
So, the suggestions I have for you here to be able to support you and not being
mistreated in any way or misunderstood is the way that you explain things. Find
simple ways to explain the feeling in the room. Like instead of saying, "I feel
like there is light leaving this room and there's darkness seeping in." That
language creeps people out. They're like, "What are you talking about?" Well, all you
have to do is say... All you have to do is say, "Well... Boym the mood in this room sure
has changed recently. I wonder what's happening?" You know, use
the words mood or attitude. And you know, when you talk about people's feelings,
you can say... You know, you can say, "I sense that there's a attitude that you go
through." So, you can use language that is not over the line. Because as soon as you
start talking and the... You know, there's strange language you can use because
you're trying to describe what it is you're noticing. But it's up to us to use
different language to be able to support people to be able to not kick us out or
make us seem like we're weird. The gift and ability you have is a very
very valuable gift. And it can help a lot of people. And it can help you. Be very
clear on your identity. Don't let other people tell you that you're a weirdo or
you're a stranger. But you literally go you know, "I'm here to serve and help
people understand themselves." Really, that's what you're here to do. And
whenever you go to work with a person, be sure... Or you going to help someone, be sure
that you have permission. Recently, I met someone who is an empath. And they walked
up to me and they said, "I'm an empath and you need help." And I said, "Hold on a
minute. Let me teach you some ground rules."
They needn't even ask. They didn't ask. They just want to rush up and... But
because you are so in tune to people, it doesn't mean you get to just cross their
personal borders and and just go up there and just start talking to them.
That doesn't give you permission. Most impacts are reckless when it comes to
permission-based coaching. Permission-based coaching. Which means if you're
going to help somebody, you go get permission from them. And you find out if
they really are in a place to change. And I know, I just heard the thought where
you were thinking, "But Kirk, there's an urgency. I know." But if the student is not
ready to learn, they're not going to listen. They're not going to listen. And then,
you're just babbling and then you're the weirdo. You're the weirdo. You're the
weirdo. And that is where you need to stop being the weirdo. You get to get
permission. You get to find out if they're ready. You get to find out if
they're even aware that they have the challenge. So, that you're not the one
being pointed at and mistreated. Because you're the one that can help. But ask
permission. And when they start to tell you that you're wrong. And you're like, "No,
no. I know what I'm talking about." One of the reasons why they're going to look down
on you and mistreated is because the way in which you've approached them
and the kind of descriptive language you're using. If you use too much woo-woo
language, you're going to be put in the woo-woo tribe. That's just how it works.
You use Woo-woo language that everybody's going, "What do you mean? What is this?"
You're going to get categorized as a Woo-woo person and then people will
mistreat you because you're 1 out of 100. So, you get to be the one to put yourself
in a better place. Better, clear language that's more acceptable and understanding
by people. Permission-based coaching, being sure that they're ready. And then
you know by doing this, you'll have more people around you to talk to. And that
really, really will be your friends. So, I just want to help you. I want to help you.
Because I know what it's been like. I do. I know it's been like. And aren't there a
lot of things I would like to share with people? Sure. I would. I would like to do
that. But I don't say it all. I find other ways to explain it. I find other ways to
help people understand why they're in the problem they're in. You would make a
great coach, a great mentor, great presenter. I think every empath really
ought to become a coach, a mentor or a presenter or a trainer. Like be able to
be in front of people to help. You would do great. You really, really would do
great. Think about that. Think about that. Oh, so I just want to help you.
Hope this helps. And I hope this helped. Make your day and like, oh, makes sense.
why you get mistreat it in some way. It doesn't have to be that way. One match,
one light in a room the size of one hundred still is light. When you have 99
people who are kind of in that numb state and you can bring light to the
understanding of what's going on, you are super valuable. You don't have to
be the hundred. You can be the one of the hundred that can make the difference. But
please follow the guidelines that I'm giving you here. Please follow the
guidelines so you're respected about what you know. That's what you want to
reach is to be respected. And that you're not a weirdo. You're somebody who's super
valuable to whoever gets to meet you. Did you love that? That was awesome.
Oh! It can make a big game changer for you in your life. If you make some of
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