are you wondering when you should make your move on a girl maybe you've met a special lady
at a bar a few weeks ago your eyes met across the room and you felt that instant connection
you think that maybe she felt that connection too but you're kind of not 100 sure just yet
well the truth is she is probably dropping lots of signs left right and center to show
you that she wants you to make a move now this is important you do not want to miss the chance
to make your move because you took so long and you definitely don't want to be left thinking
what if i just only did this which is why it's helpful to know the signs that you need to be
looking out for and in today's video i'm going to tell you the 15 signs that you must look for
if you are questioning whether or not to make a move on a girl like and subscribe let's go
the very first sign is that she has walked up to you when you are alone if you notice that
when you are standing alone in a room or when you are outside let's say for example vaping she will
walk up to you now this is going to tell you two things firstly it shows that she likes you enough
to actually approach you especially when you are alone because it makes her much more vulnerable
and secondly her approaching you brings her to the forefront of your attention which is something
she wants because well she wants you to make your move of course now this takes a lot for a girl to
pluck up that courage to actually approach a guy especially when he is alone and there's no one out
there to offer that helping hand of banter this is because she has to make conversation with you
and she can't deflect by starting a conversation with someone else around you it's risky and it's
a big sign she is messaging you late at night you may start receiving texts from her early
in the morning at lunchtime and also late at night if so it means she wants to talk to you
she's messaging you a lot and this is a great sign especially if she is texting you late at night
it shows that she's thinking about you quite often normally we think about deeper topics of
things we care about later at night right and then they're the types of things that do keep us awake
no one spends time messaging someone late at night or first thing in the morning unless they really
care about someone so take that as gospel to make your move she has already told her friends about
you you have only just met and she's already told her friends about you she will probably mention
this in a very and i mean very casual way because she doesn't want you to think that she is being
too serious she's kind of playing it a little bit cool she might say something like my friend julie
asked what you do as a job you might not actually pick up on this at first but she wants you to know
that she has told her friend julie about you which means she likes you because well her girlfriends
know about you and this is a big deal girls don't typically tell their friends about a guy
until they have had at least been on a date or there really is a big connection going on she
is going to mention you to her friends because you are important once her friends know the next
step is dating and eventually a relationship in her eye so it's your chance to make your move
she is flirting back when you flirt if you start flirting with her and she flirts back
then it's a sign that you can comfortably make your move girls only flirt with guys that they
are interested in and that they like so if you are unsure whether or not you should make your move
then you need to flirt a little and see how she reacts if she starts flirting back or
looks a little hot under the collar it's a good sign and it's time for you to turn off the heat
she's acting warmly towards you what i mean by this is that she's being warm towards you
and not emotionally cold you can tell when a girl is cold because she won't be smiling
she's not laughing at your jokes or talking very much this shows you that she is not interested and
she most likely wants out of the situation you should close down that conversation and move on
if a girl is highly engaged in everything that you are saying and she cannot stop
smiling and laughing then she most likely has a crush on you she initiates contact with you
you have both met briefly and afterwards she is the one who reaches out and makes contact you
will notice this on messenger any form of social media or simply she accidentally on purpose bumps
into you in the street either way she is the one that makes the first move that shows you that she
is really keen and very interested in you this is normally something that girls want guys to
do so if she does it then it shows she is really making an effort she readjusts how she looks when
you are close as you approach her you will notice her flicking her hair back in smoothing her dress
down she could be adjusting her collar or just checking herself out in a small mirror looking at
her outfit or even what's in her teeth all while smiling at you and looking well in your direction
this one is simple guys she wants to look her best for you which probably means that she likes
you so why not make your move what do you have to lose she is using body language to show you
we do understand each other's body language but on a subconscious level
we definitely know for sure when someone is angry when they are annoyed happy excited sad and so
much more it's just something that comes naturally to us which is why it's very important you have a
close eye on her body language is she displaying closed body language maybe her arms are crossed
her legs across or her head is pointing towards the floor or is her body language more open
arms by her sides her head is back her legs are uncrossed and her neck is quite straight
if it is open then it means she's more likely to be interested in you and she wants you to make
your move she wants to see what you think before she puts herself out there she is using a lot of
eye contact when you guys are talking she is going to be looking you directly in the eye she is also
nodding and asking you questions as well this is going to tell you that she is engaged and very
much interested in what you have to say she thinks you are very knowledgeable and she can't get
enough make sure you look at her straight in the eyes as well to show her that you are interested
she smiles when she's around you you can tell that she wants you to make a move because
every time you guys are together she has a huge smile on her face you can say anything and it's
gonna make her smile within reason obviously she will also be smiling every time that you
send her a message or even phone her she has a crush on you and it's making her extremely happy
she invites you on errands we all have errands to do from picking up groceries
to going to fill up our cars with petrol it's just something sadly those adults have to do
so if she invites you out on an errand trip it's not a sign that she's boring it's a sign that she
just wants to spend time with you even during those mundane moments if a girl comes up to you
with an errand to take you on it's clear that she will find an excuse to spend time with you
she makes physical contact with you as she is laughing you will notice she brushes your arm or
puts her hand on your leg just briefly before she removes it once a lady breaks that touch barrier
she is well pretty serious about you a girl has to be pretty brave and confident to take this step
before a man so if she does this you know that you can make your move when you are ready she
will want you to also touch her so that she knows that you feel the same way so make sure to touch
her back whilst you are both laughing and well the relationship is definitely full steam ahead
she initiates a date she invites you on a date or suggests that you guys should go on a date
if she does this then she has pretty much beat you to making a move you should however still
make that effort to make a move because it shows her that you do feel the same way otherwise she
might think that you don't feel the same way that she does and that you are maybe using her she gets
nervous when she's around you you will notice that she starts twirling her hair around her finger
or maybe even stuttering her words when you guys are talking this is because she is very nervous
when she's around you it's not that you are making her feel uncomfortable it's just that she likes
you so much that she does not want to mess this up you can put her at ease by saying something
like don't worry i'm a little bit nervous as well she tells you that she has been thinking about you
if a lady does this you can immediately my friend make a move without even thinking that you will
be rejected she might mention that she was thinking about you this morning or even last night
she might even casually do it along the lines of i had a dream about you last night
she likes you and she wants you to take the relationship to the next level there you go we've
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