so one of the biggest myths in the world is actually that you have a voice and it
can't change that's absolutely not true. so if you're somebody that's always wanted to maybe
improve their voice have a more attractive voice then in this video i want to give you
a simple technique that you can use to just improve your voice make it more attractive
and just give it a great relatable sound that anybody wants to listen to my name is stephan
erdman of course if you're here for the first time hit subscribe and the notifications bell
my channel is a lot about dating and confidence and of course your voice plays a crucial role
in that so in fact if you change your voice you can improve your confidence as well so let's get
started i've done a lot of voice overs in my life one of the first things i learned and something
that you hear on any great recording of voice over for example in the commercial is that if you smile
your voice changes so for example now when i'm just focusing on smiling i'm not even doing a
lot of smiling right i just maybe look a bit friendlier but i'm not having a big grin on my
face but i'm just focusing on in my words having a smile at the back of my mind what happens your
voice just goes a little bit more into the right areas it starts to feel a little bit more resonant
i can feel it vibrating here in my head i can feel it vibrating my mask i can feel it vibrating in
my chest in my throat as well and it just becomes warmer and more attractive that's what you do when
you're in a voice booth and you're recording a commercial for example there are some people that
take this to the extreme for example there's an english comedian and talk show host called michael
mcintyre considered to be things will become nearly impossible because he always sounds like
he's about to break into a big laugh but you don't have to go that far all i want you to think of
is to have a smile at the back of your mind or i call it smile speak as well that's a very simple
formula smile speak when you speak to people smile speak it also makes you look more friendly
and relatable especially if you're somebody like me who is a bit of an introvert and who spends a
lot of time thinking then sometimes you need to shed that thinking state a little bit and
actually become more relatable and this is one of the easiest ways that you don't just sound
better but also look much more friendly so try it with me right now smile and speak with me okay
i'm smiling and speaking at the same time yeah i'm smiling and speaking at the same time just
say a few sentences out loud with a big smile on your face let's go to the extremes to then
figure out how it feels and breathe breathing is the most important thing with this because
when we do something different or unusual then we usually stop breathing because we're like
oh this is weird okay so just breathe relax enjoy it and notice what happens to your voice
what you should notice is that you should feel more resonance
in your throat here here here in your mask it should just basically create a resonance in
all the right places in your voice just makes your voice warm fuzzy relatable and with that
attractive this relates to another video i've done in the past which is about using laughing
to create a more attractive voice they're clearly very strongly related you can practice in the
morning with laughing and during the day you can think about hey smile speed or having a smile at
the back of your mind because you don't always need to grin all over your face to still feel
the same effect if you've now become curious and you want to develop your voice further then check
out this link here there is a program there that i've got for you which is a master class on how to
develop your voice to the next level this by the way is also a bonus on the pimpy linga program
so if that's something you're interested in then just get it together and you get it for free