>>> When you are loved and you
know it.
When someone cares for you and
you know it and when you love
and you show it, there is a
reason for it.
The reason has to do with the
we were made by a power of love.
And our lives are meant to be
lived in that love.
That's why we are here.
>> Let the church say it.
>> The Michael curry captures
the world's attention with that
powerful message at prince Harry
and Meghan Markle's wedding last
>> Welcome back to "Access
live."
Bishop curry, you have a new
book and a podcast called "The
way of love," you are joining us
today, we are so happy.
Let's get into the royal
wedding, everyone was talk about
the fashion and who's wearing
what.
How did you get your look
together?
>> The nice thing about my
fashion is I have one fashion.
I have one suit and one set of
investment, make sure the dry
clean is clean.
>> That's magenta.
>> I have been calling it
mag-net-ta for years.
>> The word that you gave at
this wedding ceremony, I don't
think they were ready.
>> No.
>> You know what I am saying?
>> We got about three to seven
minutes and you must said y'all
must have not been to my church.
What was it like for you
standing on that podium though?
>> It was an honor and blessing.
It was a blessing in part
because of the royal couple.
They were bringing worlds
together.
Britain and America together.
They were bringing us across
racial differences, black and
white.
They're bringing together
political differences and sexual
identity and orientation.
They were bringing the human
family together in that wedding
ceremony.
That's what love can do.
>> There we go.
>> What advice did you give
Megan and Harry about the
practice of love?
>> I did.
Really I am convinced that there
are three key points.
First of all, real love must
move from just a mere sentiment
to authentic and genuine
commitment.
Secondly.
It is an action and a commitment
for the long hall.
Secondly love is the opposite of
selfishness.
Therefore, authentic love must
move from selfishness to a
sacrificial way of living.
That's a game changer.
>> Hold on.
>> Amen.
>> You know that.
>> You got it from sentiment to
commitment and selfishness to
sacrificial and thirdly, it got
to take it to god.
Ultimately, we don't have the
power of ourselves to love
consistently.
Love your enemy.
I don't have the internal
capacity to do that all the time
but god does.
Relationships with the god can
help you.
>> Let's expand how faith and
love play an important role in
the relationship?
>> They do.
Relationships personal and
communal and political and
economic.
>> A lot of people feel it is a
deal breaker if your faiths
don't match.
>> Oh no.
The word fate, the real meaning
is to trust.
Fate is to trust.
To trust god no matter what
whether he understands or not or
agrees or not.
>> Trust god.
Put your hands in those
unchangeable hands if you will.
That trust is the connection to
god and that's the bases of any
relationships.
Think about it.
No relationship works on trust.
If I don't trust you, we don't
have a relationship.
>> Let's get to a celebrity
relationship.
We are celebrating j-lo's
birthday today.
>> That's wonderful.
>> Now you know she's engaged to
A-Rod.
This will be her fourth
marriage.
What kind of words and wisdom
can you impart to j-lo.
>> Maybe you tell her right
there.
>> J-lo if you are sitting.
>> J-lo, we are rooting for you,
j-lo, we are praying for you
that god will bless you and
strengthen you and encourage
you, you work to make the
sentiment of commitment, work to
move from self to sacrificial
but above all, put god at the
center of your life and
relationship.
That's what Jesus taught us and
that's what the bible is about
and it works.
>> We know you got a book.
>> It is so good.
>> Bless you both.
>> I want you to officiate my
wedding.
>> Would you officiate j-lo and
>> Call my name and I will be
there, what's that song?
>> Thank you so much bishop