You finally found the girl of your dreams, you just didn't know it yet, and
so you royally screwed things up. Or maybe you did know she was your one and
only, and she left you for another dude. That's brutal! Going through a breakup
can be really tough and heartbreaking, but thankfully I'm gonna help you get
her back. I'm Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man
and this is how to get your Ex back.
We've done all the testing, you know what works.
Yo, before we start, make sure to
subscribe to this channel so that I can let you know about all of our upcoming
videos. First the word of warning; most of the time when a relationship ends it's
best to learn from your mistakes and move on. Because the relationship was
probably somewhat toxic.. You just couldn't see all the warning signs
because we were blinded by love! But what if you're afraid that you'll never meet
anyone else like her ever again? Well, you're actually probably right. The
relationship that you had with her was unique and you'll never have that exact
relationship again. But chances are that you'll find a new relationship in the
near future that will be just as, or even more fulfilling. Now you might feel like
your life will never be the same, and that's actually a good thing, because
this is actually an opportunity for a great deal of learning and growing. Ask
yourself these questions: What can I learn from this experience? How can I
grow from this? And how can I become a better person because of it? And remember,
just because the relationship is over it doesn't change the core of who you are
as a person. So stop sobbing *sobs* Learn from the
experience, and get out there and meet some pretty ladies. Besides, if your ex
hears that you're out there dating again, it might actually make her jealous and
want you back. Most guys however do the exact opposite. They smother her, call her,
and text her a hundred times a day, and show up at her work forcing her to get a
restraining order on them. This of course just creeps her out and pushes you away
even further, leaving you no shot in the future. And possibly a hefty fine if you
come within 50 yards of her. Sometimes, women just need some time and some space
to think about their relationship and their priorities in
life. Don't send her love letters or threaten to kill yourself! This just
shows that you're a desperate man who has no life of his own, and a woman wants
a man with purpose in life other than her. I know a lot of women are probably
gonna hate me for saying this, but a woman does not want a man whose only
purpose in life is her. So take this time to focus on your life's mission, if you
don't know what that is, then this is a perfect opportunity for
you to assess your values, and figure out what you really want out of life.
I think it really depends on the situation, you know? What did she say? How did she end it?
Of most times, we kind of mean what we say, especially when it comes to the end
of relationships, so although that may not be the news you want to hear,
take the clues. Listen to her words. If you really think it's worth fighting for
and trying to change her mind, then do that as best you can. But just don't be
pushy or overbearing. We don't like overbearing.
If at this point you realize
you still want her back, then wait a few days for things to calm down and then
make contact with her. I suggest sending a simple text like "Hope you're doing well."
This shows her that you still care about
her without going overboard. At this point just take things slow and
eventually ask to meet her. Yep, it's kind of like starting from scratch. When you
finally see her in person, ask her why she broke up with you. The answer might
actually surprise you. If she just needs time to think, then give her the time she
needs. If it's something you did, or something she doesn't like about your
lifestyle, then you need to decide if you're willing to change or not. But what
if she left you for someone else? Like your best friend, or your dad... Or her hot
sexy female teacher... That could be interesting!
Getting her back when she
already has someone else can seem difficult. Now, you can try to beat him up,
which might make you feel better in the moment, or get you arrested. But that's
probably not gonna score her back. Now if she left you for a friend then yeah - kick
his ass! But seriously, the best thing you can do is meet someone else. Get out
there and start dating. Try meeting girls online, or at bars, or in everyday
situations. Have your friends introduce you to their
female friends and join classes like yoga, or dance classes. Because you're
probably just gonna have to wait it out, my friend. And by the time she realizes
that her new guy is a total douchebag, and that she really f*cked things up and
comes crawling back to you, you'll probably have already met somebody
better. I know it seems impossible now, but coming from someone who's been in
your shoes, trust me. There's a lot of fish in the sea. I know that's a cheesy
metaphor, but it's true so if you're gonna go out there and start meeting
some hot ladies I want to help you out by giving you a free copy of my
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schedule. My name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man, and i'll see you in
the next video.