Hello Sassy Beauties. This is Katie and welcome back to my channel, this
channel is for high value women who want to attract and keep high value high
quality men. In today's video I want to talk about how to make a man regret
losing you. As you know I'm not a fan of talking about controlling or
manipulating or you know trying to control a man but in this video I want
to talk about things that you can actually do that will really truly make
a man regret losing you but more important than that make you feel good
about yourself. This is always about you, never about the man, as long as you
feel good and you're mentally strong then that's all it's about anyway okay
so let's get into it.
Number one - Time.
We need time to do its thing. If you have
just gone through a breakup yesterday or a day ago a couple of days ago that's
not enough time often not enough time for someone to regret losing you even if
it's just been a week or a month...
I remember for me that delayed emotion
of regret and missing someone didn't really hit me until about three months
after my breakup, one of my breakups. So for some people they're really really
good at resisting that those emotions and not going there not thinking about
things and it's very much a delayed reaction.
So give it time give it time
and your ex or the guy that you miss will start to think about you regret
losing you and miss you and all of those emotions will start to come over him.
Number two in order for him to regret losing you he probably will need to
start dating other women. As he dates other women and as he has other
relationships, now he has people to compare you with. This is especially true
if your partner or your ex has never had a girlfriend before you or has only had
one on two or very little relationship experience before getting with you.
And a lot of times if someone doesn't have a lot of experience they won't know how to
appreciate what they have. They won't, they won't see the value in
someone because they don't know what's really out there. And then maybe
they just they just fixate on all the bad qualities, not realising
that everybody has bad qualities, everyone goes through bad days and
there's some, there's some bad cases that are much worse than others right
so maybe your man just needs to date some other people try on some other
women for size and then he will see that Oh in comparison you're actually a catch,
you actually are pretty good.
Number three - You get hot and not temperature hot.
So it's no surprise that men value youth
and beauty in women and women value financial stability in a man, therefore
goes without saying, if you want to make a man really really truly regret losing
you, you have to get hot! You've got to get more attractive than you used to be
when you were with him. And there are lots of things you can do to modify and
tweak your appearance for a little bit of effort and not a lot of money. I'm not
saying you have to go get plastic surgery or you have to look like a
supermodel or you have to be stick thin and make yourself sick doing..
No, that's not what I'm talking about. There are always little things you can
tweak in terms of the kind of makeup you wear you know even just exercising more
regularly every week, eating slightly healthier, little things you can do to
improve your appearance. Things like drinking more water, getting a good
night's rest, not being stressed. All of those things can make you look better
and feel better. When you look good you're probably gonna feel good right
When you feel good, you're going to act more confident, so this is really about
how to be more attractive, feel more confident and essentially be a high
value woman and when you do that you're probably gonna make him regret losing
you but the biggest upside is you're going to feel amazing about yourself and
Number four - the best way to make a man regret losing you is to have and create
a beautiful life. A life you love, a life where you feel happy, joyful, content, on a
regular basis. A life you're just thrilled to be a part of and I will tell you when
I first did this video I had put in being a happy relationship with a man
but then I realized hang on a second you don't need to be in a relationship to be
happy you don't need a man to be happy okay so really it's about you being
happy and you've been content and let me tell you this is the ultimate revenge
tactic. If there was one. If you ever want to feel like you've won in life you
winning in life is to just be happy, and not be fake happy
but to be authentic, to be who you are and live you. Do you.
Now that portion, took me personally 32 years to figure that out
about roughly 32 years because that was when I met my husband. It took me that
long to figure out how to be me and be content and to just be happy and
content with myself you know whether I was in a relationship or not in a
relationship, the one constant is me right and so I
had to figure out how can I just be happy with me and that took a long time
that took time to figure out and I will tell you that is still a continuing
process. Because as things change and things change, as life grows and develops
and evolves, I will change I will develop I will evolve, so I have to be you know
I'll have to be on the ball with myself you know I have to be in tune with
myself and with what I need okay. What I need to be nourished, to feel fulfilled
to feel good and that is a dance right. That is a constant trying this,
trying that, figuring out what feels good what doesn't feel good and then just
being grateful for everything I have in life. That is really the ultimate, the
ultimate thing you need to do... just be content. Figure out who you are and then
be content with that. Okay that's all from me, if you like this video please
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