This is a pretty big question.
What makes her want you?
What makes her choose you?
What makes her invested and attracted to you?
Because that's basically the question here.
What makes her attracted?
Because when she's attracted, when she's invested, that's when she wants to be with you.
That's when she wants to sleep with you.
That's when she wants to be your girlfriend.
There's a lot involved.
I'm going to try to give a very brief discussion here and an overall summarization of how this
all works.
If you want more detail and you want the whole how to, you can check out my program.
It's called Hooked at Get Her Hooked dot com.
The link is in the description down below this video and you get access to that to teach
you exactly how to do it.
Because like I said, it's a little bit of a longer process.
But if you want to understand what makes her choose you, here's where it begins.
There's a few things you need to understand when it comes to a female desiring a male.
Let's put it this way.
A female heterosexual has certain traits.
She has certain feminine traits.
And a male heterosexual has also some specific traits.
There's a lot here of course.
This still applies to people who are homosexual and trans and pansexual and and all that.
But right now for this video, I'm just talking about heterosexual male and female.
Let's just stick to that for a second to make this very simple so you can understand it.
Understand that the male has some masculine traits and when a female is in the presence
of those masculine traits, these behavior traits so to speak, she has the opportunity
to become attracted.
Just like you as a male, when you are in the presence of female traits, female behaviors
and things that are female and feminine, that makes you attracted.
Think about for a second just in your head.
I don't even have to say it, what makes you attracted to a female.
There's some physical characteristics, there's some behavioral characteristics.
Just understand that.
That's what makes you attracted.
For a woman, for the female, she becomes attracted mostly to the behavioral traits.
She's wired in a way to be attracted to these behavioral traits.
I know this sounds not as sexy as it is because now we're going into this like evolutionary
psychology lesson.
But bear with me as I get through this here.
She's more attracted to the behavioral traits.
According to evolutionary psychology, thousands and 10's of thousands of years ago, a woman
was more attracted to a man who had behavioral traits that could make the family survive.
Now, of course, I know there's gonna be a lot of you right now, in the comments down
below who are going to say yep, I know what it is, what makes a woman want to be with
you, wanna have sex with you.
It's money.
It's status.
It's fame, which is basically status.
It's looks.
All those things and I'm not gonna disagree with you.
Absolutely.
Those things do play a weight in it.
But there are people all over the world and in the history of the world who have been
having sex with women who don't have fame, money, status, or really good looks.
How are they doing it?
It's because they are showing behavioral masculine characteristics that are attractive to the
feminine.
Some of those behavioral traits are confidence, you probably heard of that one, being assertive,
or as I like to say dominant, being effective.
That means being effective at life, being able to handle yourself and not live at home
with your parents and have a job and support yourself.
Having somewhat of status but it doesn't have to be high status.
It can just be status, meaning you have people around you.
You're important to people.
It could be having a good relationship with your family, having a social circle around
you of people who respect you.
Doing well at your job.
It is sexy when you're good at something or any other kind of skill.
You probably heard before like a guy gets a guitar and starts playing a guitar in front
of a woman and she is like oh my gosh, that's amazing.
Where it's different, I can imagine a guy having a reaction to a woman playing a guitar
and being more attracted to her.
But I bet you, I just bet you it plays a heavier weight with women who are seeing a guy do
it because there's something about that skill of playing a guitar or an instrument.
It doesn't have an instrument, by the way, it can be anything.
Being effective at anything that very attractive because going into the primal discussion here.
It's a guy who has skills, who has some sort of talent, who is effective in some way that
is able to make the family survive.
To be able to reproduce, replicate, and be a member of the family.
I know I'm breaking it down to very simple terms.
You might be asking yourself, great, how does this all work with getting a girl to want
to sleep with me?
How does this all work?
If we combine some of this stuff together and we get you out there and we work on some
of these behavioral characteristics, these behavioral traits, you're going to significantly
increase your chances of being able to get a woman sexually attracted to you and wanting
to have sex with you.
I break it down in terms of my TED system, which I talk about in my Hooked program (again
link in the description down below if you're interested in learning more and diving into
that) my TED system is broken down into Tension, Entertainment and Dominance.
Through these 3 things Tension, Entertainment and Dominance we dive into a lot of these
masculine traits that I'm talking about.
Before we even get to that, before we get to that, we have to put what's called "leads
in the funnel".
Leads in the funnel, which means you need to be talking to lots of women and you need
to be practicing displaying your behavioral traits because it's not something that happens
overnight.
It's something you have to tap into.
Don't think about it as changing into someone different, but upgrading to a new version
of yourself.
I like to say it's like having an iPhone or an Android.
It's like every year they come out with a new version that's kind of the same, but it's
upgraded and better in many ways.
That's what you're going to be doing.
Getting leads in the funnel means go on dating apps, go on dating sites, that's one way.
Another way is going out and meeting women through cold approach, that means approaching
them.
Maybe not something you're doing in the release of this video during this time.
But after that you have hobbies and clubs or anything that you're a part of.
I would exclude work.
I don't believe it's healthy or a good idea to be meeting women at work because it can
cause a lot of trouble.
We increase our leads.
It's like a sales term, leads or getting people interested.
All these leads into your funnel.
That means you have to be active in going out and meeting women in person and online
so you get as many leads as possible.
It's always going to be a little bit of a numbers game.
You're not going to be a person who's going to be able to attract every single woman even
if you're a super confident person, very dominant and assertive and effective and all the things
that I'm saying here.
There is part looks in terms of what you look like and it all depends on an age.
An 18 year old may have a harder time being attracted to a 60 year old or 70 year old.
That plays a little bit of a factor in it.
It is about a numbers game.
You're gonna have to put a lot of numbers out there.
A lot of guys think like oh let me try to pine after, I always say that, you're going
after this one girl, that one-itis situation.
You're trying to do it with this TED system that I talked about her or doing whatever
you can do try to get that one girl and it's just the odds are very low because not every
woman's gonna be attracted to you and you probably got yourself in the friend-zone in
the first place by not using TED.
You got to make sure that you're not just going after one girl.
That you are meeting lots of women.
This is something that I tried to tell you all the time to do.
I feel like it's something that I have to really just tattoo in your brain because the
fact of the matter is, you're going to have to go through a lot of rejections to get to
the point where you find a woman who's interested.
You have to understand that when you are using TED appropriately and it's working, that the
numbers will convert higher.
Meaning more women will be interested in you versus if you're just going out, meeting lots
of women and getting in the friend-zone all the time and being a nice guy and being very
passive versus assertive.
There's a lot of theory, let me give you a little bit of the how to and what this looks
like.
What this looks like is you like I said, being on dating apps or going out and meeting women
cold approaching and eventually you're going to be with a woman in person.
If you're doing a cold approach, you're going to be meeting them as an approach.
If you're doing online dating, you're going to be meeting them when you're on a date.
At these two points when you're finally in front of them for the first time and you guys
are interacting with each other on a human to human level.
Not a phone to human level.
When you guys are in person this is the way that she can see and feel your behaviors she
can experience you.
You're going to use tension, this is going to be you flirting, this is gonna be you being
a challenge.
This is going to be you teasing a little bit.
This is going to be you being somewhat interesting, being able to converse, being a little bit
charismatic.
By the way, everything I just said right there is practicable.
You can go out and practice this stuff.
If you feel if you feel you're not a person who's naturally charismatic By the way, I
was not naturally charismatic for a very long time.
That's something I'd work on by being more comfortable, socializing being with people.
Some people think wow, but you're you're so great on camera, you're at ease and you seem
very charismatic when you're doing it.
I've been doing this for so long.
This is probably my 700th video.
You should go back to when I first started putting out videos.
Way different person, a little bit more tense.
It took time to get comfortable and it was through repetition, repetition.
You'll have to go out and do that same thing.
Practice in conversation, practicing flirting.
I can't really dive in to flirting on this in this topic and conversation.
I have plenty of videos on the YouTube channel that go into that.
Also my Hooked program dives very deep into that.
But understand that's tension so she's able to see some of these masculine traits there.
Then we go to entertainment, that means entertaining yourself or self amusement as some people
call it.
Amusing yourself, entertaining yourself through the interactions.
That means talking about the things you want to talk about, having a good time, joking
around.
This is going to show that you're comfortable, this is going to show that you're at ease.
This is going to be you just being more relaxed and being in the interaction, not just to
try to impress her.
And then we move to dominance.
This is one that most guys don't use.
A lot of nice guys don't use this.
A lot of guys who end up in the friend-zone don't use this.
Dominance means being assertive, means taking action and taking the lead.
A lot of guys don't know how to take the lead because they're afraid of rejection.
You're scared of getting rejected so you don't make the move.
Meaning you don't ask her out, you don't try to get her on a date, you don't try to make
a move and kiss her.
You don't try to take her to the bedroom.
She is not going to be the one making the moves and being assertive because that is
a masculine trait.
She's going to be more submissive.
She's gonna be a little bit more submissive.
You need to be the one to take control and take the lead.
And the way that you're going to be doing that is simply leading the interaction from
hello to sex.
It's your job to do that, you lead, she follows.
You guys will not be having sex.
None of this will happen unless you're the one who's taking control.
If we mix all this together, it's not just a step, one, step two, step three system.
It's more of you're at the same time using tension, entertainment and dominance as a
mixture back and forth, back and forth through this whole process.
Using all of that at once, that's what gets her attracted.
That's what gets her invested in you and that is what gets her to want to sleep with you.
This won't work with every woman because not everyone will be attracted to you because
every woman is a little bit different in the sense of what she is attracted to potentially
physically or the type of guy that she's interested in.
You have to go out there and you got to get the numbers in through cold approach, through
online dating.
Right now online dating is probably your best option because of what's going on in the world.
Just understand that as we use all these concepts together, it takes a little bit, it takes
practice, it's building some certain habits and you're going to be upgrading who you are.
But using this is your best chance of getting a woman to want to sleep with you.
If you need more information on how to dive into this, make it work together and understand
this theory and the practical steps behind it go to www.getherhooked.com.
The link is in the description down below.
You can check out my entire system.
Thousands of guys have already gotten this program and they're seeing results.
The proof is right there.
You can see testimonials on the order page before you get it.
You can see all the guys who've gotten laid, who've gotten girlfriends, who've lost their
virginity.
It's endless because they knew exactly what makes a woman attracted.
Even if you feel you're not rich, even if you feel you're not good looking, if you have
low status, so to speak, it can still work for you.
Check it out.
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That's going to help you out.
Leave a comment down below.
Let me know what you think.
I know I'm gonna have a lot of people in the comments saying what they usually say "step
one, be attractive, step two, don't be unattractive" but there's more to it than that.
Good luck.
I'll see you on the next video.