Hey guys,
in this video, we're going to go through
a few of the more specific details
on how to attract a woman through text
and trigger attraction and chemistry
with examples.
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Okay, so the first one was
do introduce yourself.
So, the key point there is simply that
if she's a good one
she's going to have other guys that she's talking to
or other guys that are trying to talk to her.
So, you definitely want to make sure
that when you send her
your first message by text
that you put your name in there.
Not just hey, how's it going
or hi,
anyways, okay we'll get into more of that.
All right, so that's number one number two,
don't be boring and forgettable.
You've got to remember that even if
you do give her your name
you might not be the only Connor
in her contacts.
So, you don't want to be
just another John Doe.
John Doe, that doesn't sound good
that sounds like bad actually.
Anyways, you don't want to be
just another somebody in her contacts
that doesn't have any life
to their name when she looks at it.
So, that brings us to number three.
You do need to make yourself memorable
so that you can stand out
amongst any of the other Charlie's
who she's talking to
or trying to talk to her.
So, an example because you want examples,
of the way you can do this is by
associating your name when you first
either provide your
name and contact information
if you're online or what have you.
Or the best thing to do is to put
your name and number in her phone
if she just like actually gives you her phone.
It's better if you can just put your own
contact details in there it's also easier,
but this way you can be sneaky about it
and you can put in something like
John, dot, dot, dot the IT geek, wink
or John, the IT geek
dot, dot, dot smart guy with a smart job, wink.
Now, the next one is
don't start a conversation with hey what's up?
Hey what's up? How are you?
What doing? Etc.
So, basically, any of those openers
make you look lazy,
and or boring, and or dumb
none of these things are attractive to a woman.
You might be able to get away with this
if you're under 20,
but any quality woman
is going to still appreciate
a more creative and thought out text
than the was up.
Okay, next one is do give a compliment but.
So, you want to make sure
that it's specific about her
and you're better off
if you can make it about her personality
or some kind of non-physical trait.
So, you want to be specific and creative.
An example is if you know her last name
Ashley Brown, you might be
the smartest pretty girl I've met.
So again,
or you could say here's another one,
Ashley Brown, you might have the most
interesting profile I've seen.
Banjo, really you play the banjo.
Okay, that was a little naughty
but you know what I mean.
So, then that brings us the next one number six,
is don't give a sexual
or physical compliment
at least not in the beginning.
So, the reason is again
unless you're just looking for a hookup.
Is because women automatically know
if you're actually messaging her
she knows that you're sexually attracted to her.
But if you put it right out there
then she feels that
that's only thing you're attracted to
you just want to have sex.
And if that's just what she wants too, then great.
But most women
want to feel that they have value beyond
just their bits and parts
in when a guy is attracted.
So, if you stay away from the t and a zones
you can say pretty you can say you know sort of
general compliments
but don't go overboard with that
and especially you know
do the giveth and taketh away
otherwise especially if they're pretty,
they've already had
tons of compliments guys are always,
complimenting them or telling them they're hot.
Okay, yeah so, don't overuse emojis.
This is what women use,
women love emojis,
women love exclamation points.
Women use like 70% more exclamation points even in
professional email than men do.
Like, unless you're gay unless like
yeah, that's not politically correct,
but you know I mean.
I have gay friends
and they're the ones that use emojis.
Now, not all gay guys use emojis I know
but okay anyway,
you don't even want to be a question mark there.
So yeah, resist
your urge to use the emojis.
If you have any specific
text questions
write it in the comments below
and I'll see you in the next video.
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