10 Simple Things ANY Guy Can Do To Look Better [0:00:00]
[Music] In today's video, gents, ten simple things
any guy can do to look more attractive this summer.
So, starting things off, have the courage to stand out, have the courage to be the best-dressed
man in the room.
The vast majority of men out there, they're caught in a fashion trend and they don't even
know it; cargo shorts, t-shirts, baseball cap, sandals.
They're all wearing the same thing and they think that they're being an individual.
How about you have the courage to be the best-dressed man in the room and you level up your style?
When you do this you're going to instantly look better than all the guys out there.
Now, let's talk about the cargo shorts.
Okay.
Shorts in general are overplayed, but if you're going to stick with shorts, at least get rid
of the cargo pocket.
Go for a nice pair of clean shorts that fit you well, maybe a couple inches right above
the knee.
But, I would advise you to really look at different types of trousers out there.
Tropical weight wool trousers are infinitely more stylish and they're just as cool and
they're going to better protect the legs from the sun.
But, they are a little bit expensive, so look at linen trousers.
Linen trousers, these are going to be very cool they’re going to allow air to pass
through and performance trousers.
What I like about these is that they, again, are made for air to pass through, they're
going to have areas where they can stretch, so they're very comfortable.
Now, let's talk about that t-shirt.
Okay.
So, you want to go for a longer sleeve shirt made from the right material, guess what?
You can roll up the sleeves going to look much better than a t-shirt especially if you
don't have the larger guns.
Now, linen.
Linen is great, but it is going to wrinkle.
Now, you notice this linen shirt is the same color as this one.
I've got quite a few my wardrobe.
This is like my go-to uniform.
But, white linen is a great option.
The wrinkles are going to show a bit more, but it looks great with a wide variety of
different types of trousers and shorts.
Now, you can go with an off-color linen and this is great it's going to work maybe with
red it’s going to work maybe with a darker blue and performance shirts.
Now, this is a great option if you don't want to deal with the wrinkling you want something
is going to be breathable something you can sweat it's going to wick away the moisture.
So, this shirt right here it's one of my favorites.
It's a linen cotton-blend, so it has the properties the best properties of each of the different
materials it's not going to wrinkle as much it's going to be very breathable.
So, now, let's talk about accessories.
During the summer you've got less options, but because you've got less options they carry
more weight.
So, look to upgrade your watch maybe your sunglasses, look at the bag that you're carrying.
A lot of you guys are carrying that ratty backpack you've had since you were a student.
So, one of the most obvious accessories to upgrade is the everyday tool you use to carry
your important items to and from work to and from school, you want to make sure you've
got a great looking bag.
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This has a really nice look and feel to it.
All the bags are made in Uttar Pradesh.
Basically, this is a region famous for its tanneries and all of its leather work.
And, when you get these bags, you're going to notice, okay, they paid attention to the
stitching to the details to basically the rivets in places you're going to have stress
points all the different options from all the different types of, you know, satchels
to satchels with zippers to satchels with foldovers.
So, no matter what you're looking for the different styles.
So, this duffel right here has pockets on the side.
As you can see it's made from a different type of leather.
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So, let's talk about that baseball cap.
So, the easiest thing here is to simply upgrade to something that's a little bit more stylish,
something that's going to be breathable on the back, something though that's going to
grab a little bit more attention.
But, I like it when a guy starts to explore different options.
So, this hat right here what I like about this is the brim isn't too much and it's a
very functional hat.
I was wearing it at Disneyland, I love the look I can adjust the brim.
But, if you want something that's a little bit more out there maybe look at a Panama
and notice the brim.
So, we've got well over two and a half inches here, so you're going to need a little bit
more courage to wear this hat, but function-wise this hat is going to keep the sun off of your
face.
It's a great hat, it's going to make you look more stylish, it's going to help you stand
out from the crowd.
Your footwear, ditch the running shoes, ditch the sandals, bring in a nice pair of dress
shoes, maybe a loafer.
A loafer is a shoe that you slip on and off, a very comfortable shoe just as comfortable
as running shoes in my opinion and just so much more stylish.
So, moving away from clothing, let's talk about some other things you can do to look
better, exercise in the morning.
And this is going to make you more attractive not because of the reason you think.
Most of us are thinking, oh, if you exercise, you're going to have a better body, better
body is going to make you more attractive.
That takes time.
What I'm talking about is the immediate afterglow the after effect twelve hours after you exercising.
[0:05:12] Guess what?
It doesn't need to be super intense.
You can go down there and do twenty push-ups, do some air squats, maybe do a quick running
in place for five minutes.
That is enough to start getting the heart going, to feel better about yourself that
you did something and it's the confidence that this gives you throughout the day initially,
that first few hours and this goes on for twelve hours throughout the day even if you've
never exercised before.
Simply getting started gives you this feeling that you're in control and makes you come
off as more confident and attractive.
Now, this next one is simple.
Roll your shoulders back and try to pinch your shoulders behind you.
What are you doing here you're basically pushing out your chest.
So, for men whenever they're around women what do we do?
Our shoulders and our chest we want to basically look stronger and bigger.
Now, this also has an effect on us and how we perceive ourselves especially most of us
leaned over looking at our phones a lot of the time.
It's a very simple thing you can do multiple times a day and right after you do it you're
going to feel better, you're going to feel stronger, you're going to come off as more
attractive.
Now, this next one to look better is so simple, but so many guys screw it up and that is talk
about things that you're passionate about.
How many times have you been to a networking event or you're out there just trying to meet
people at a bar and you're talking about the same old same old, you wish you were not even
here?
Well, guess what?
Everyone can see that on your face.
How about you change it up and start talking about something that really you care about
because when you get excited when you start talking about something that gets your heart
beating makes you happy, guess what?
That feeling goes to other people.
Talk about exciting things, things that you want to talk about that you get into.
It may be a little bit strange maybe a little bit odd, but there are people out there that,
hey, you're talking about Star Wars you're getting in the Game of Thrones, whatever it
may be, people do find this attractive even if maybe they're not into it they love seeing
passion in people.
And, speaking of talking, know how to tell a good story.
Storytellers have been revered throughout societies in the world and overall they're
viewed as higher status.
And, guys, there is a difference between being a good storyteller and a bad storyteller.
You want to be a good storyteller, so practice it try to keep it to a short time limit of
one to two minutes, have, you know, a beginning, have an end, have a point that you're trying
to make.
But, if you can become a good storyteller, people are going to find you more attractive
people are going to be more interested in you, again, which they're going to associate
with basically you looking better.
Next up, we've got humor.
Now, humor is attractive it makes you look better because it's a sign of intelligence.
So, if you are funny especially if it's higher humor, we're talking humor that cause basically
a person has to think to understand it.
So, if you've got a dry sense of humor if you use sarcasm and it's funny, this is a
good thing.
You got to use it the right way.
If you're getting in the slapstick humor, that can still get people to like you, but
they're not necessarily going to find you as attractive.
So, think of the difference between Vince Vaughn, Jim Carrey.
So, this next tip to look better really works when you're meeting people for the first time
and that is slow down especially with your movements.
You don't want to have jerky movements all over the place.
People are always in this fight-or-flight when they're meeting someone for the first
time.
People are trying to make a decision, hey, is this a threat and if you're coming off
all over the place, they're wondering what's going on with this guy, so slow things down.
You can also do it with your speech.
Now, a lot of people they default to a crutch – um, uh, ah.
This is not attractive, it doesn't make you look good, so slow things down think before
you speak.
And, with your movements, be a little bit slower be a little bit more calculated.
Women find this soothing, they do find it more attractive.
Now, this next step to look better may seem obvious, but so many guys do not do it and
that is introduce yourself.
Get to know people, have other people introduce you because, again, that shows that other
people have approved of you.
If you can be around other people even if you don't know her or you don't know that
guy over there, but you want to get to know them, if they see you're around other people,
that is social proof that you are an acceptable person.
But, the best thing you can do is get an introduction from their friend and happens, you know, a
mutual friend, that right there is they are endorsing you saying, hey, this guy is good
to go, he's not a serial killer, and that right there is going to get you started on
the right foot.
Now, another quick tip to look better, slip on a pair of boots.
Guys, boots make you more attractive.
You want to find out exactly why?
Check out this video right here, I talk about five reasons backed by science.
Yes, I go into the details of why boots make you more attractive.
Let me give you one, they will make you taller because of the heel.
But there's a lot more to it, guys, so go check out this video right her if you want
to learn why boots make you more attractive.
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