did you know that a man's body language physiology and behavior can tell you that he's falling in
love with you way before he's ready to admit it that's because when a man is falling in love his
entire body chemistry changes as he experiences a rush of feel-good hormones and neurotransmitters
and these love hormones leave signs that are easy to spot if you know what to look for in
this video i'm going to share those signs so if you see them when you're together you can be
sure that he's falling for you and it all starts with number one number one you notice his body
sweating in an otherwise cool location when a man is attracted to you and interested in you he will
be unable to control the way his body reacts in your presence that's because the autonomic nervous
system releases specific neurotransmitters and hormones such as adrenaline whenever he's around
you and this love cocktail produces feelings of excitement racing hearth breathlessness and
lots of perspiration this hormone surge also causes blood vessels to constrict
which increases heart rate and blood pressure so what are the signs to look for well any indication
of sweating or perspiration including sweaty palms his face getting flushed pink and body sweating
without exertion in an otherwise cool location and trust me this is embarrassingly obvious
for example i can't tell you how many times this has happened to me on a date when i really like
the person my face becomes flush red my palms become sweaty and my body starts sweating
even though i'm in a cool location and sometimes it's cold and i can't stop it from happening so
if you're seeing any of these signs when he's around you you can be sure that he's attracted
and interested in you number two he mirrors your gestures and copies you when a man is attracted
to you and feeling a special connection to you he will mirror your gestures and your actions without
even knowing it this is a very good subconscious sign of his body wanting to be in sync with your
body so if you're wondering whether a man is into you pay attention to his body language
does he lean in when you lean in does he cross his legs when you cross yours does he mirror
your facial gestures and facial expressions if he does it's a good sign that he's attracted to you
of course it's not a sure-fire way to tell but it's definitely worth paying attention to
oh and a great way to let him know that you're interested too is to copy his actions as well
touch your face after he touches his smooth your hair when he smooths his and so on number three
triangular eye gaze and dilated pupils as you know when a guy is attracted to you he will look at you
a lot and give you lots of eye contact but there are a few specific characteristics of eye contact
that specifically indicates strong attraction and interest the first is called the triangular eye
gaze basically when a man is using the triangular eye gaze he draws an imaginary inverted triangle
on your face around your eyes and mouth and when gazing at you he first starts by looking at one
eye for a brief moment and then he switches to focus on the other eye for a moment and then
finally he moves to look at your lips for about a half a second then he moves his eyes back to
look at your eyes again so he basically makes a triangle while looking at your eyes and lips
do you recognize that gaze if you do you know that it's very powerful and it means that he's
really attracted to you second if he's close enough to you for you to see his pupils you
may notice that his pupils dilate like this and if you see those people's change in your
presence that's awesome and it means he really likes you because pupil dilation is involuntary
and impossible to control so his pupils should start to dilate the moment you begin gazing at
each other and this gazing is powerful because it triggers the release of the love hormone oxytocin
as well as other neurotransmitters associated with bonding attraction and love in both of you and
this is also a cause and effect relationship that works in both directions so making eye contact
releases oxytocin and then the boost in oxytocin increases your desire for more eye contact so
it's a circular thing there's one exception to this rule if a guy is really nervous around you
he may not maintain locked eyes with you when you are very near especially if he isn't sure of how
you feel but from a distance you will always catch him staring at you so if a guy's looking
at you and holding that sustained eye contact and giving you those smiling eyes at a distance
that's a great sign of interest and attraction number four he stands straighter around you the
term peacocking has been used to describe the ways that men make a display of their attraction to
someone and this is like a showy behavior that is designed to attract your attention it's literally
an evolutionary thing that's built into men to show you that he has a strong and fit body and
from an evolutionary perspective his strong and fit body is presumed to be more fertile so if
he's attracted and interested in you you will notice that he automatically stands straighter
when he sees you because he's trying to appear attractive to you and it's funny because people
don't even know that they're doing it so for example he was slouching and talking to a friend
until you showed up and then he sits up straighter or he stands up a little taller
when you came around and he probably pushed out his chest a little bit and sucked in his gut
too now these posture adjustments are done to look more attractive to you and they're a definite sign
that he's attracted to you by the way is there a particular thing that you do when you like someone
maybe you didn't even realize it until someone pointed it out to you if there's something you
do whenever you're crushing on someone i'd love to hear about it so leave a comment below and let's
start a discussion number five body contact and touching another behavior that shows interest and
attraction is touch and when a guy is attracted to you he will likely find some excuse to touch you
more and he will be more receptive to your touch as well he may even increase his touching over
time going from friendly handshakes to greeting and partying with hugs or maybe he will try to get
you to play a game that involves touching hands or something silly but if he's not touching you
or casually bumping into you you could try to casually touch him on his arm or shoulder or
bump into him and then gauge his response if you casually touch him and he doesn't pull away that's
a great sign oh and here are a couple bonus signs another form of touching is preening preening is a
form of grooming another person and a solid sign of affection for example if he sees a piece of
lint on your hair and he removes it for you that's preening or if he notices a hair on your face or
something out of place and rather than simply alert you or tell you about it he removes it for
you it's kind of like he's grooming you number six he asks a lot of questions and he remembers
details about you when a man is into you he will show a great interest in your life he will ask you
all sorts of questions including those that are really intimate and he remembers the details about
you especially about your schedule even if you mention something briefly in passing about your
time off or about your schedule he will remember those details and i'll tell you why well that's
because what you say is so tied to him emotionally that your words will be forged into his memory
think of it this way most of us have very vivid memories of 9 11. we remember even the slightest
details of what we were doing when we first heard the news we remember so vividly because of all the
emotions that were attached to the memory so when a guy remembers surprising details and specifics
about you and your schedule it's clear that you have an emotional impact on him number seven
he finds excuses to see you or to talk to you the next sign is one that men often try to hide but
you'll be able to spot it from a mile away and that is he finds excuses to see you or to talk
to you for example if he's someone you know from work or from school or through friends
he goes out of his way to specifically find you or contact you often with an excuse and he will
ask you for things that he didn't necessarily need to ask you or start a conversation he didn't need
to have with you because he could have got the information from somewhere else or he might ask
seemingly random questions seeking your opinion about a restaurant or a movie or a place to shop
when he wants to get your attention he'll think of something even if he just makes it up and not
only that when texting he keeps the conversation going even when he has to start a new topic when
a guy is very interested in you he will seek to maintain communication even if he's super busy
and might not be able to respond immediately but when he does he puts effort into the communication
and he seeks to keep it going so you'll know he really likes you when he holds a conversation
when he furthers the conversation and asks you questions that go beyond the obligatory
acknowledgement and response to your text by the way i've also made a video that explains
the things that you can do to encourage a man to fall in love with you click here to watch
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